I just recently married the man Ive waited my whole life for. We have such an amazing relationship. We are best friends as well. BUT here is my problem....I have a child of my own and he has a child of his own. We both have custody of our children. I can't stand my step daughter! She is 11 years old and acts like a bratty 3 yr old! She is always trying to do crap and then blame it on my 13 yr old son. She is a smart mouth and gets under my skin!! I think I have a real problem. I don't know why I can't just deal with this...it urks me to just look at her! When her dad gets home, she is so far up his butt that it is annoying...even to him! Step parents...please help me! Tell me what to do please!!