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Before you commit suicide, read this...
November 11, 2012
6:57 pm
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Pandaz
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Before you commit suicide, think of this.
You can't take it anymore. Nobody cares. You want to die. You take your last breath that night. You're gone...forever.
Your mom goes to your room to wake you up. She taps on your shoulder. You don't respond. She shakes you trying to wake you up. You still don't respond. She screams in grief while your dad who is crying, calls the abulance. Nobody cares?
Your sister/brother wakes up and eats breakfast. Your mom is crying, thinking of what to say to your brother/sister. 
Nobody cares?
At school, the teacher has to tell your class what happened to you. When she does, the kid who treats you like crap, blames himself. The girl who picks on you sometimes, blames herself. The boy who was a jerk to you, blames himself. The teacher also blames herself for yelling at you when you did something bad. 
Nobody cares, right?
Your brother never comes out of his room now. Your sister is waiting for you to come back. Your mom hasn't went outside blaming herself for yelling at you when you did something that wasn't right. Your dad has depression.
The boy who treated you like crap, now cuts. The girl who sometimes picked on you, now is anorexic. The boy who was a jerk to you, dropped out of school. The teacher who was trying to help, quit her job and is suffering in grief. 
Nobody cares, right?
November 13, 2012
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Do whatever it takes to not kill yourself.  Whatever it takes without killing someone else of course.  If there is ANYTHING or ANYONE that can change your decision to take your life, even for one or two days, go and do that thing or be with that person.  In the last little while some very terrible things happened to me & I was at the bottom of my rope, but I got out & I reached out to people and things.  Yes, in a way I hurt myself, but at least I am still alive.  Being dead is not a solution for the people you leave behind.  It's unfair if you do it on purpose to escape your pain.

November 26, 2012
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Committing suicide will not solve anything nor your problems. Taking your own life will just leave grief to other people that surrounds you, would you be happy after? Do you think you'll go to a wonderful paradise after committing such thing and will never ever encounter sorrows? It all just means being coward and selfish. Afraid to face your own problems and fear of facing what tomorrow will bring. Trials are part of our lives. Those obtacles and problems are just testing how far we could go where our weaknesses and strengths are at stake. If you quit without even trying is the same as losing. Regret always comes last so even if it's already too heavy to carry the burden, fight and don't give up. Rewards usually come in the end and there's always a rainbow after the rain.

November 27, 2012
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Dear Doplar, Shinning Light, WD & all the oldtimers that have helped others, tried to help me & perhaps helped one another:

 

I have come to the point in my life where I simply have nothing left to say.  Even though I must speak to get through the day with my children & with the community, I try to say as little as possible because I think it's best for everyone including myself.

 

I hope you all are doing well & will continue to support the people who come across this site who are in need of some advice or reassurance.  Particularly those who are young and suffering.

 

May the Holiday Season's lights warm all your hearts and bring you joy!

 

One Day

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