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young and in love with a coke head
February 7, 2007
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My boyfriend says he isn't addicted and that he only does it every once in a while but he sold my digital camera and took money that i gave him for bills to get some drugs. were seperated and i'm living at my parents. His sister also uses crack and cocaine and she is supposed to be helping him stop. He is in the army reserve and is leaving at the end of the month for Iraq.Has a two year old son and i dont know if he can quit on his own. I said anyone who really wants to quit is strong enough too. Is 1 month too short to know is things can change?

February 8, 2007
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[email protected] bimbo,

I hate that you have bimbo in your handle.

Anyway, it is a bad sign that he sold your camera.

Addiction is part of it--but I guess he has other problems, too. You would have to consult with professional, but he might be a thief, a cheat, an irresponsible, lying sack of crap.

Hey, you are young. Why get bogged down with this level of problem now? Especially when it is likely to get worse.

One month? You don't owe this guy ANYTHING. And he has had a whole month to make a good impression, show you his good side. If this is how he is on his good behavior, you are so screwed.

If it were me? Tell him to straighten up or get lost.

February 8, 2007
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RUN!

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February 8, 2007
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run. now.
Find someone who's the kind of guy who gives you things not steal things.

February 10, 2007
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Run, and run fast, do not look back.
Do not even entertain the thought that he will change or get better.

February 12, 2007
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I am with the others run as fast and as far as you can. Take it from me who spent the last 8 years dealing with that kind of man. If he is stealing and using bill money for drugs it is not just recreational. I don't think there is such a thing as recreational drug use. If you use you use. This will not get any better. It will only get worse and it will take you down a long road of heartache. You will never have a stable life or a stable home. You will never have extra money and the bills will always be behind! You will always be 2nd best and your feelings will mean nothing. He will say and do anything to keep you sucked in and sucked dry! Do yourself the biggest and best favor in the world, run and don't look back not even once!

February 25, 2007
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So it has been 2 weeks now and i'm still with him but i'm living at my parents house. he had a probly on his 6th day clean and relapsed but now he got 2 jobs so that he can occupy his time with something else. I'm proud of him to me it shows effort. idk tho he was trying to quit with a friend together but he relapsed yesterday while i was there sleeping and my boyfriend was at work. When my boyfriend came home from work he found his friends crack and called the cops and the cops came and got his friend and took him to jail.. he also had warrents. My boyfriend worked all day to day and he has been buying at home drug test and i've givin' him one and he passed it. Also we thought that he had been discharged from the army but he wasnt. his mom didn't read the letter right and had us freaked. but hey, you cant help who you love. one more thing, he told his sister to stay out of his life if she wasn't going to support him and quit also.

February 25, 2007
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you can't help who you love but you can love in healthy ways and unhealthy ways. Has he apologized for stealing from you? Paid you back? kept any promises?

You sound like a good sweet person to me. You deserve someone who will give you things and build you up. that's what a healthy relationship is all about.

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