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What the f**k is wrong with me?
September 23, 2005
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I am 38. I have two wonderful children. I am intelligent. I am writing my first novel. I am pretty. What the f**k is wrong with me?

I just did something really stupid. I had unprotected sex with a guy, who I have been flriting with for a few months. He came and left. Just like that. I feel like stupid is as stupid dopre s. I have never been rejected in such an inhumane way. C an someone please help me get back to me.
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September 23, 2005
8:06 am
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Oh, and I CAN spell. Just not right now. I can't make a good decision tho.

September 23, 2005
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Guess not . Goodbye, voices of reason and wisdom.. this day really was waiting to happen.X

September 23, 2005
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CHARLIE:

I'M HERE CHARLIE.....

Let's talk hon.

September 23, 2005
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Charlie,

There is nothing wrong with you!!! The guy was an asshole and deserves to have his di** tied up in a knot!!!

He is not worth another minute of your time. DO NOT make any decisions while under the influence of an asshole.

You deserve better. You deserve to love you. You are really great!! I wish you would just see that.

I have to go to work. I will be worried about you today. Please post somewhere on the threads and let me or anam cara, db, or mamac know that you are okay. Talk to us, honey. Please. Don't shut us out.

love you,

bonbon XXXOO

September 23, 2005
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Self love
We teach others how to treat us.

Nothing is Wrong with you. You just had a bad experience and different expectations. Hopefully this lesson offers you some hope.

September 23, 2005
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THere is nothing wrong with you! This was a mistake that you made that has caused you to feel badly about yourself. We've all made these mistakes.

Don't berate yourself right now...you are already low and beating yourself up will not help you at all...it's counterproductive.

Look for the lesson and take back your control and your self-respect...WHY do you feel so low?

Everyone makes mistakes...you're in good company!

Keep talking it out...

kc

September 23, 2005
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I just read on the Isla Bonita thread that you were slicing your wrists????
I am hoping that you didn't and that you feel better today....Sometimes nights are the hardest. Your children really need you. There is no love like a mothers love. Don't forget that. No one can replace your unconditional love. I will love you until you can love yourself dear Charlie. (((((((((((((Charlie))))))))))))

I raised two daughters. They are my biggest joy along with my grandchildren. Life is filled with challenges. I trust that you can rise to the occassion and live today, one day at a time.

September 23, 2005
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Charlie,
I hope you don't think I'm butting in where I don't belong but if you are worried about becoming pregnant, you can consider the morning after pill (Plan B) available at most pharmacies without a prescription or at your local Planned Parenting. It has a 95% effective rate but it needs to be taken within first 48 hours. I hope you are feeling better. Don't beat yourself up about this. Just look after you now. ((hugs))
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September 23, 2005
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And there is absolutely nothing wrong with you!

September 23, 2005
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((((Sweet Charlie)))))

I agree with every body here, there is nothing wrong with you. Even me as single spiritual person, I will be very honest with you; Sexual sin is the most difficult to resist!

The reason why I keep my chastity is thru prayers & fasting. We live in sinful world, surrounded by temptations from every where. In your case the fact that you live in loveless unromantic marriage trigged those feelings toward your friend and made them more like true achieveable relationship.

If I were you, I would go straight to Spiritual counseling and confess to someone trustwrothy, mature in the faith and would ask it be utomost confidential. This sin happens even between spiritual and within spiritual realm, not just in secular realm. So, honey do not beat yourself, just confess it to God/HP and ask for His forgiveness and thereafter forgive that man and then forgive yourself and strive to stay away from any thing that can trigger sexual sin.

I read in post here something about pregnancy. I pray that you're not pregnant from that man, this will only complicate matters.

Take care sweetie, I wish you all the best! ~Ras~

September 23, 2005
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CHARLIE:

Come on honey, talk to us. You are making us worry. Let's come on and talk this out. You have nothing that you cannot say here. Remember the cow ?? I can only think of hedgeball... It's the queen anne. Remember the ripples.

YOU ARE TO GOOD FOR THIS CHARLIE
LET'S TALK!!

September 23, 2005
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Charlie,

We care about you. I realize you are hurting, but then again, please realize that it is not fair to say things and leave everyone here to worry and waiting to find out what's up with you. Talented you are, and what you have said here is not right to drop this stuff and at least not to return. You got a lost of codependents worrying about you!

You know you can talk here anytime and get all the support you ask for. so it would be considered as least respectable to others to come back and post.

With love and hugs,

~Sew~

September 24, 2005
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Hi Charley,

I've been there. Compromising some obvious things like good judgement and safety in hope of a big payoff of love or worth and security.

There's nothing wrong with you, and even someone with the great credentials you listed above can still be searching for wholeness or happiness.

Those are great things to search for. You might be beating yourself up because you know there are better methods for finding them. I've been there too.

It happend. It's over. Forgive yourself. Get the peace that only comes with being tested and having a clean bill of health. Then, keep what ever you learned from this experience (the good things, the scary things, the informative things)in the forefront of your mind.

We are your family and we've here for here.

September 24, 2005
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here for you.

September 24, 2005
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And Charlie, Yes, I am here for you too. Just let us know yuo are ok and talk when you're up to it!

~Sew~

September 24, 2005
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CHARLIE: Wish you would post, this is beyond not funny now. Come on and talk to us dear. We are all here for you. And, we have all made stupid mistakes too. Come one Charlie. TALK!!

September 24, 2005
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Charlie-girl,

I am thinking about you and hoping that you are okay? Please come back and post to let us know how you are doing?

Love you, girlfriend!!

bonbon XXXOOO

September 26, 2005
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Have been following this and wanted to bump it up! Charlie- we've never talked but I have done what you did and I hope you are ok! Please let us know!

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