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What is a man's 'sexual nature'?
December 17, 2006
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On the 17-Dec-06 you said:

"... a man will come up with and get what he wants then hurt the one they said they "wouldn't" hurt."

Yes, there are many men who through past hurt and pain become so walled up and immune to the suffering of others that they will deliberately 'dance the dance' to have their sexual needs met. Such men are highly likely to sexually objectify the woman and then devalue her even more after their sexual 'conquest' therein not wanting her any more. Such focus on getting their 'end in' at all costs obliterates any concern for the pain they precipitate in another human being.

Having been 'there' to some extent prior to my 'very rude awakening' some years ago, I have some appreciation for how such men might think.

You also said:

"Sorry, just not feeling real happy with the male species right now."

I'm really sorry to hear that. Please do not throw out the 'baby with the bath water'.

Please feel free to tell me more about your situation, if you want to do so.

December 19, 2006
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Thanks for your thoughtful response to my questions.

December 19, 2006
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What is man's sexual nature?

Basically, we are snorffling snuffling beasts, always on the lookout, always ready for the next sexual opportunity. And we don't care if we are coupling with man, god or beast.

Except for SeekerW, of course. He's different.

πŸ™‚

December 19, 2006
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WD- I see you got your power back on!!

December 19, 2006
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I dunno how long this thread has been going on....but I will respond to the original post: "What is a man's sexual nature?"

To me - it's: "Food, Sleep, Fucking, & Football!!!"

December 20, 2006
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Its nice to see such honesty here.

Garfield, Where are YOU?

December 20, 2006
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mj

I eventually have time to post. Our factory closed say 3 hours ago and I am on holiday till the 10 of Jan next year. Its been hectic as usual. Year end braai or barbeque etc.

How are you?

Will be reading and catching up on the thread.

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December 20, 2006
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Matteo

You have been on my brain the whole week. I never had time to respond to you.

You said

"My mother never spoke about sex when I was a child or a teen, like it never existed. Talking about it was a taboo. When she started talking about sex at age close to 70 I was pleasantly surprised, it didn’t creep me out. But then she talked in general terms and never reviled any β€œspicy” details from her sex life. I’m sure that would creep me out, just like it often creeps me out when people who are not so close to me volunteer that kind of information, without even asking if I want to hear it. And most of the times I don’t because I am simply not interested"

Yes sex was something that did not exist. I also never had a model for a loving intimate relationship. I had to make-up my own. Guess what's normal. etc.

I then I still wonder why I have problems with being intimate. ???

Garfield

December 20, 2006
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So nice to see you back posting! Glad you have some time off. My thread is What the World needs now for an update on whats up with me.

Thanks for asking!

December 20, 2006
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Tez

You said

"Yes, having both testicles that are functioning quite well and a masculine brain, I am predominantly left brained. πŸ™‚ "

You are a man through and through Tez. I guess you are about 40 years old and its great to hear you are still functioning VERY well. So many men I know over 40 cannot say the same.

I have done a test on male/female brain on BBC - science and nature. Luckily my brain is female although it lends towards male in some arreas.

will post the link

December 20, 2006
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What sex is your brain?

http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/h.....veys.shtml

Do the test and see.

December 20, 2006
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Ok, I took the test and I have a female right brain dominance!

December 21, 2006
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On the 20-Dec-06 you said:

" I guess you are about 40 years old and its great to hear you are still functioning VERY well. So many men I know over 40 cannot say the same."

You'll have to add a few more years on to that figure!!!

As for sex drive and age, I'm just as responsive erection wise as I was at twenty. Only now I've learned to hold back 'coming' for as long a time as the woman needs. My trick is that I think of solving second order differential equations. πŸ™‚ How unromantic - but it does the trick. I'm amazed to learn of so many guys buying viagra. That's the last thing I need or want at least for the foreseeable future. I think it is a case of use 'it' or lose 'it'. πŸ™‚ My paternal grandfather sired his last child, my uncle, when he was 61. He died at 92 still checking the ladies out. I guess I must take after him. πŸ™‚

Besides, I eat very healthy food, work out with weights, go dancing 4 times a week and go for 4 - 5 kilometer morning walks. I want sex far more than my partner who is 11 years younger than I am. I'm told that I look far younger than my years. I guess that the above is the reason.

Now that I've had my ego trip ... ... ... ... πŸ™‚

December 21, 2006
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To any or all of you more liberated ladies:

I'd like to pose a question. It concerns the length of time men can hold an erection after ejaculation.

I assumed that it was quite common to be able to hold an erection for quite some time after ejaculation. One of my more experienced ex's told me that all the men she had 'had' lost their erection almost immediately after 'coming' and that I was somewhat of an 'oddity'. Hmmm! I thought that I might have a problem in that department, albeit an advantageous one.

In your experience with men, either extensive or otherwise, is the ability to hold an erection for a relatively long time after ejaculation a common attribute of many men???

If you find the topic embarrassing at all then, a simple 'yes' or 'no' answer would be appreciated.

December 21, 2006
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I am glad that you take good care of yourself Tez. I like the saying use it or lose it.

In my experience, the answer to your question is no.

December 21, 2006
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Tez

You said

"As for sex drive and age, I'm just as responsive erection wise as I was at twenty. Only now I've learned to hold back 'coming' for as long a time as the woman needs. My trick is that I think of solving second order differential equations. πŸ™‚ How unromantic - but it does the trick. "

I think it takes guys a long time to practise sex in order to master the 'holding back' for as long as needed.

I know we had this problem for the first year in our marriege. what worked for us was to have sex more regular for if we didn't we had a problem.

My husband used to or maybe still today think of the most crazy things to take his mind of sex. It works for him.

You said

"I want sex far more than my partner who is 11 years younger than I am. I'm told that I look far younger than my years."

I am 18 months younger than my husband and we have been married for 17 years now. I always thought things would level out sexually, but he wants sex more than me. Thank goodness for different reasons now than say 2 years ago. He matured sexually sooooo much.

Garfield

December 21, 2006
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Tez

you said

"I assumed that it was quite common to be able to hold an erection for quite some time after ejaculation. "

Don't know if its common as I have only had one man. Strange but true. My life just worked out this way.

There were times when after sex he was still erected, but not much.

"In your experience with men, either extensive or otherwise, is the ability to hold an erection for a relatively long time after ejaculation a common attribute of many men??? "

My answer is no. What I have heared of from female friends and of my own experience my anwer is no.

It is VERY important for me that my husband has the ability to 'hold it' for as long as it takes for me to finish. I do not feel the desire to continue sex after a climax, so if he was then still erect I think I would get irritated.

Garfield

December 21, 2006
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mj

"My thread is What the World needs now for an update on whats up with me. "

Please bump this thread as I struggled last night to find it

Love

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December 21, 2006
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Its on the support side, and its up there! Love MJ

December 21, 2006
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mj

gosh you are quick, thanks

Garfield

December 21, 2006
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Tez,

I have a little experience here. I have been with 2 men since I turned 30 that had this ability. One was 24- and one was 45. This attribute is a wonderful wonderful gift for a man to have. So I will say that while you are not completely unique, (cause they all ain't like that). I believe you are in some elite category.

I can't believe I'm gonna say this again - but (you rock)

Bevdee

December 21, 2006
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You said:

"I can't believe I'm gonna say this again - but (you rock)"

I can't believe that I a gonna say this again but I'm still in love with you. πŸ™‚

December 21, 2006
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To all you ladies who answered my 'question' - thanks 'muchly' one and all.

I now think the non-return valve that keeps the blood in my penis during an erection mustn't release properly on cue.

Anyway from what you say, I will just count my blessings and won't try to get it 'fixed'. :-).

My Early Morning Contemplation:

On my morning walk this morning, I was walking along the river bank in a nature reserve where lovers frequent at night.

I came across three pairs of ladies panties obviously discarded for some unknown reason after their cavorting last night. Together with the panties was a woman's top. I picked up the woman's cotton top and it reeked of perfume. I read the prose printed on the woman's top. It said:

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"Just Add Sugar.

Men always want to be a woman's first love.

That is their clumsy vanity.

We women always have a more subtle instinct about things.

What we like is to be a man's last romance."

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I sat on the seat in the reserve trying to imagine these three women who had left their panties behind and one her top. What were they thinking as they were being penetrated by these three men(an assumption)? Were they thinking of romance? Of having the men's children? Thinking of having a home, a hearth and the patter of little feet? Or were they caught up in just as much lust as were the guys? Were the guys having a 'f...k' while the girls were making love? Were they tender soft innocent young girls still not yet hardened by men's callousness in discarding them just as they did their knickers? Or were they hardened 'gunnies' just out for a romp in the hay?

Why did they discard their knickers and their top? Were they disturbed by the police or did something else that caused them to beat a hasty retreat? Or were they so drunk and/or spaced out on drugs that they never gave the issue of panties a second thought. Were they in heaven or hell this morning after their night's frivolities? Full of regrets or floating on cloud nine madly in love?

Strange things with stories to tell - those discarded 'unmentionables' worn so intimately such a short time ago but now so unwanted and so unloved.

December 21, 2006
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Hey Tez,

Maybe they were thrown out by some man who has a pantie fetish? Things to ponder.

December 21, 2006
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That thought did occur to me. But was the discarded top some woman's response to that possibility?

From what I saw on the TV (HotDocs) last night, MDMA or ecstacy is also called the love drug because when a girl takes it she feels almost compelled to have sex with the next half way decent looking guy she meets.

I thought the contrast between the grossness of the discarded panties and the romantic nature of the verse on the woman's top very poignant.

I saw a parallel between the panties and men's unbridled lust on one hand and the discarded top and the women's shattered, discarded illusions on the other.

Perhaps I was just overly wistful and making something out of nothing. I dunno.

Would a guy with a pantie fetish leave his fetish objects behind??? I doubt it.

I brought the top home to my partner. She liked it so much that she is going to wash it and keep it for herself.

I offered to go back for the panties and got a clip under the lug for my trouble. πŸ™‚

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