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WD's Smut and Porn Emporium
October 14, 2007
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I so made you look!

Anyway, I have a couple-three porn-related items to share. I'll do the light stuff first.

October 14, 2007
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In the building where I work there is a little snack and coffee shop on the first floor. The people behind the counter are popular because they keep us scientists, doctors, and the folks that support us in precious, life-giving coffee, bagels, soup and sandwiches, etc.

A few days ago I was at the counter one morning to fill my coffee mug, and I overheard a conversation between the cute, sweet, barista in her early 20’s and the girl who was the latest barista-in-training.

She was explaining that she had had a traumatic experience this morning and was still kind of shook up and not ready to start work. “I called my boyfriend and asked him about it, but he hasn’t gotten back to me yet.” She looked over at me, recognized me, and quickly caught me up on the story.

“I was watching porn on the internet, and I saw this guy who looked exactly like my boyfriend! Not just a little like him, but exactly like him…I was like ‘oh my God!” Well, his hair was covering his face, so I had to keep watching to make sure…finally I got a good look at the guy’s face and could see that it wasn’t my boyfriend…but it looked soooo much like him!”

“I feel traumatized…I mean…what if I can’t watch porn anymore?!!!”

To hear this sweet gentle young woman, much beloved by everyone, worrying that she might not be able to watch porn anymore…well, it was the last thing I expected to hear at 7:30 in the morning.

October 14, 2007
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OK, I'm the first guppy; I had to look.

I'm sure you were taken aback when you found that out. It's amazing the things we find out about folks and what or how we thought they were and were not.

I worked in the law office 5 years and one day while cleaning up the files found a book of "swingers". Ads of swingers wanting to meet each other, etc. I did show the other lady in the office. Who better to ask since he and she lived together for many years then. We were close friends anyway. She then took me up to the loft area, like small apartment they stayed in when they didn't want to drive out to the farm. She showed me a dresser and there were 2 drawers full of porn that he liked to watch. I was floored. I never knew and had worked closely w/ them both for 5 years.

Guess it just goes to show that you may not really know the folks you are close to I spoze.

Good to see you. 🙂

October 14, 2007
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guppy number 2 here.

lol

I'm tellin ya- porn on the internet has horrible effects and lasting negative consequences.

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October 14, 2007
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October 15, 2007
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"porn on the internet has horrible effects and lasting negative consequences."

Except for those on who it has wonderful effects and lasting positive consequences.

Recently, I was talking to a friend who had just heard from a guy "Before we go any farther, I want you to know that I don't kiss, and I don't eat pussy."

She's like "what, you've never watched a porno movie? Women like that, you schmuck!"

It is amazing how many men think that way.

And it is amazing how many women put up with that.

October 15, 2007
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WD
I've been reading posts on porn here and obviously peoples perception of porn is different.

To me porn is a sexual form of entertainment put in art, photography or film that depicts violence, degradation and pain with NON consenting participants or underage persons.
I don't consider erotica or sex films porn.
Many people are ashamed of nudity and sexual expression and keep it hidden. I think society with that shame forces us behind closed doors, expects absolute secrecy and much of what we see today challenges those so called norms. Most of our sexual beleifs are influenced by religeous and/or social education.

So with your first post I don't consider it an example of porn, but an example of this womans shame and mistrust about herself and others.

I know my sexual desire has been affected by outside influences and porn. I mean REAL porn, forced penetration, beating, blood, gang rape, lolita films and inter-racial films that are based on hostility.
I always wonder about the new guy, if he surfs porn online, what kind he watches. I find I want to know these things immediately because it gives a gauge on how he views women and me.

I used to enjoy erotica but now the dark side of sexuality has affected my view. Maybe I'm too empathic and I know I need to put it in perspective.

October 15, 2007
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Errr...
"Before we go any farther, I want you to know that I don't kiss, and I don't eat pussy."

What's he? the consolation prize in relationship hell?

October 15, 2007
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MsGuided, you wrote, "Maybe I'm too empathic". Why do you think you are in the wrong? I think it is more likely you are exactly empathic/ empathetic enough, and others are deficient in that area. My opinion.

October 15, 2007
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Hey wd~

"porn on the internet has horrible effects and lasting negative consequences."

I wrote this as a funny kuz my husband's computer got a virus and we know it was from a porn site. It's kinda funny I think. Was trying to keep the air light.

I'm not feelin too funny today.

My 18 year old niece- she has major weight problems - had a heart attack and died this a.m. House is in chaotic disarray. Was taking a time out and checking threads, just thought I'd point out that I was cracking a funny yesterday or whenever it was.

Well, back to sobbing and being be-wildered, hunting for affordable plane tickets and trying to keep the routine together for my kids.

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October 15, 2007
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(((((FREE)))))

I am SO SORRY to hear about your niece. I wish your family peace and some kind of understanding. You are in my prayers.

PS I posted on the thread below w/ our name in it.

So sad.

w/love,
mamaC

October 15, 2007
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You and your family will be in my thoughts- postive earth energy and healing wishes to you and yours.

October 15, 2007
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kroika

I care, but I am somewhat responsible for allowing outside negativity effect my well being.

But it's more than that. I never had a high sex drive. It kicks in when i see a desirable man. The man I'm with now , nada, it's over. Other than that it is never there.

October 16, 2007
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thank you very much bevdee. So many people don't experience the earth as a living being with the power to stabilize. Your wishes mean a great deal to me right now.

mamma- thank you. I posted on the other thread.

back to the porn thing.

It IS funny that my honey's computer got a virus from a porn site, ya gotta admit. And we can't get rid of it. he gets on my computer but only with a promise each time of no porn sites. his last little "peek" is gonna cost about 1500 bucks.

that's just friggin' funny.

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October 16, 2007
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In the past the man i'm with has racked up at least $5oo in phone bills in 2 months, and rented porn on satelite.
When you barely make enough to live, and go spending on addictive behaviour, then the burden of running the household falls on your partner . It is just wrong.
If you can afford it fine....but yea, the spyware and virus's from internet porn? That certainly is the dark side too.

I HAVE to get to work!lol

October 16, 2007
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Hi Free,

Hey I have a porn and computer virus story!

In 2004 I did a Google search for "Iraq" and "War" and "Atrocities."

I clicked on one of the Google links, and found myself on a page that was just links mainly to porn shops, sex toy shops. Oh, and at the top left was a link offering anti-virus software.

That page wasn't appealing so I hit my home button to go back to MSN.

Didnt work.

The page I visited downloaded a virus that made the smut and porn emporium MY HOME PAGE!

So I started looking into the virus I had--it was a really nasty one. One of its evil qualities was that it contained a data base of all the sites that had the antidote to it, and it would punish you for trying to download the antidote. It started by changing all my baby photo icons to its own icons.

You don't mess with my baby photos--it took me months to digitize them all.

It took more than a month, but I finally cured the virus.

By removing my hard drive and smashing it with a hammer.

Man, that felt good! Wham! Wham! Crash!

October 16, 2007
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Free ~

I am very sorry to hear about your niece...that really must have been a shock to your whole family. I hope you were able to get affordable air fare - Try Spirit if it is in your area.

WD - you always crack me up! When I was living with my porn addicted boyfriend...our 'shared' computer crashed because of his addiction. I told everyone the computer got a cyber STD. he he....then before the new harddrive was put in...he used my laptop - well my screen saver went to naked people flying across my screen........ARGH!

October 16, 2007
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WD:

With as many fights disagreements and hurt feelings that we have had about this topic, I really don't understand WHY you would go about bringing it up again. I did then, and I still do think that you do this to instigate hostility and chaos.

F2C

October 16, 2007
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MsGuided:

Intersesting that you should say this:

"I always wonder about the new guy, if he surfs porn online, what kind he watches. I find I want to know these things immediately because it gives a gauge on how he views women and me."

It is the believf of some on this site that pornography does not influence the beliefs and sexual desires of the people that view it, that instead, it is a mere fantacy.

I think that is bull shit. From your comment, I must assume that you may find that idea to be bull shit also.

Interesting how knowing a man's prefercnce of porn helps you to judge his real life beliefs about women. Interesting that you said you want this info IMMEDIATELY. For you it sounds like viewing certain types of porn would be RED FLAG behavior.

Thanks for sharing that.

October 16, 2007
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Free,

Good thoughts and vibes to you and your family. Best wishes,

Free2Choose

October 16, 2007
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Kroika said:

"MsGuided, you wrote, "Maybe I'm too empathic". Why do you think you are in the wrong? I think it is more likely you are exactly empathic/ empathetic enough, and others are deficient in that area. My opinion."

I whole-heartedly agree!

October 16, 2007
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I also said I don't classify all sex tapes as porn....but I do use the word porn out of laziness.

Porn has effected me, I've written that here.

What I did was, since my partner (Mr. Can't) had a problem with porn I never really was exposed to it. So 8 years ago I went online and looked around. Off and on for 3 years I saw some pretty good and some absolutely tasteless crap. I got bombarded with window after window. Mr Can't was bringing home tapes, given to him by a co-worker, and he would watch them secretively at night while i slept. The whole experience was overwhelming. When I decided to stop, I was done, I felt like something died inside. I lost a lot of respect for him (he also opened up about his friends and men in general, the tapes he had were inter-racial degrading anal penetration , mock rape scenes etc., which my son found at 13-14, and watched!! I was INSENSED< MORTIFIED) I am an adult, got affected, and MY KID watched this shit at 13??!! A boy, someone who I have protected from becoming an abusive misogyinist? ( i hope) There were some major battles then, which led to the destroying of all those tapes. Since so many have computers and they can access any type of porn. I am suspiscious of men. I lament women who put too much into appearing sexy and hot even when just doing daily stuff. Flirtatiousness and the tease are staples to getting their needs met. I am hyper sensitive to the point I'm turned off. I just wan't to get back to my healthy sexual self, and I hope my son isn't ruined from what he was exposed to. I tried to put it in perspective for him. Obviously I get touchy, but at least I am not ignorant to whats out there. It's difficult now to find balance for me in that area ;0/

October 16, 2007
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free2choose.again

I am a newbie here but from what I've seen so far I may agree with you that someone is entertaining themselves by baiting and antagonizing people.

What a freakin' condescending genius! ha!ha!

October 16, 2007
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redblonde and free2c~

thank you very, very much.

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October 16, 2007
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Hi free2c, nice to see you. Good wishes to you.

And free, my very sincere condolences on the shocking death of your niece. I hope your family can support each other and find comfort at this terrible time.

MsGuided, thanks for sharing more of your story. Yes, there are people here who like to stir things up. I choose my battles these days, and that's no longer one of them.

take care,
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