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Wanting to start living again.
December 22, 2008
6:25 pm
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In the beginning when I fisrt broke up with X, I worried I wouldn't have anyone to go anywhere or do anything with. Everyone told me I had to get comfortable by myself and I had to love myself. I started eating healthier and taking vitamins. I followed the Real Age dot com method. I sat in the sun and read books I wanted to read. I got a dog. I painted my bathroom and kitchen. I paid off debt... What do I do now? I am happy by myself. I can go for several days that I don't get dressed and leave this house. Now people are starting to tell me to date again. Do this Do that. I don't know what to do. When do you start wanting to be among the "fun" again? What do you do and how do you do it?

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December 23, 2008
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Start by doing something you like to do ,I finally told myself that I had to move on after my x and I broke up last friday, she hasnt called and so I guess she is happy whilst I have anxiety .But no MORE for me. I have decided to meet friends for coffee or lunch or anything they invite me to because I am not going to wait around any more. for what life just passes us by and I dont want it to, not any more . We deserve better.

December 23, 2008
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Start by doing something you like to do ,I finally told myself that I had to move on after my x and I broke up last friday, she hasnt called and so I guess she is happy whilst I have anxiety .But no MORE for me. I have decided to meet friends for coffee or lunch or anything they invite me to because I am not going to wait around any more. for what life just passes us by and I dont want it to, not any more . We deserve better.

December 29, 2008
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Bitsy,

I hear you on the don't want to do part. I have been doing things with myself now for 8 months and I am to starting to feel good about me and being with me. Although, I am still uncomfortable in my new home. I have been there since August 1 and have blessed it to, but it is hard for me to actually stay home. I am always doing something else.

Why is this?

When you are ready to join the fun, you will go do things you like and go to events invited to.

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