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Torn In between the two
June 6, 2010
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I had a boyfriend for about two years. he was physically abusive, and controlling. he went to jail for domestic violence against me. while he was gone i started anew relationship with someone else and now iam confused with who i want to be with. i love them both but if i continue to see both i will lose both. should i be with the one who abused me but changed his ways after being locked up?, who has 3 children by other women? or should i choose the new one that is never abused me has no children?, that i think is unfaithful?

June 6, 2010
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Choose neither. Be alone for some time, learn how to be comfortable with yourself, what the flags are for DV, and what caused you to choose a DV relationship.

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June 6, 2010
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I agree with andii. anybody worthy will still be there.

June 6, 2010
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I had
a boyfriend for about two years. he was physically abusive, and
controlling. he went to jail for domestic violence against me.
while he was gone i started anew relationship with someone else and
now iam confused with who i want to be with. i love them both but
if i continue to see both i will lose both. should i be with the
one who abused me but changed his ways after being locked up?, who
has 3 children by other women? or should i choose the new one that
is never abused me has no children?, that i think is
unfaithful?

June 6, 2010
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Choose neither. Be alone for some time, learn how to be
comfortable with yourself, what the flags are for DV, and what
caused you to choose a DV relationship.

andii

June 6, 2010
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I
agree with andii. anybody worthy will still be there.

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