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To: Sweet Kathygy, U R The Catalyst!
May 4, 2005
4:11 pm
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Hellow Kathgy,

Thank you so much for the support and encouragement you are giving us.

I admire so much your responses. You have been a catalyst that played a great role in "My Healing Process". You are wise, practical, and you also sound very professional and well-trained person.
Thank you for your generosity and kindness for volunteering all your expertise to our service!

As for what happened yesterday with regard to Angel4U's biblical thread, I apologize for it. I am sure angel was well-meaning; she did not mean to offend you or any other.

I hope and pray that we will continue to work together on this beautiful website full of wonderful people, you are one of those wonderful people!!!

I am sure my other cyber precious friends share my very genuine sentiments!!!

(((I LOVE U!!!)))

May 5, 2005
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In addition Kathygy, you helped me to see my conflict with my oldest sister within practical perspective which I am very grateful for.

May 5, 2005
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kathygy--

these thoughts that you shared on the "separation advice" thread really helped me. Thank you.

From kathygy:
...find compassion for the wounded child inside of you. You have done your best given the pain you had as a child. Be gentle with yourself. You need your own forgiveness now more than ever. If you hurt your wife you did not do it because you are a bad person, you did it because of your wounds. Your wife has choices on how she could respond to you. She didn't have to hold on to the hurt. You deserve love and forgiveness. The more you take care of you the more you'll have to offer your daughter. She obviously loves you very much and needs you in her life. You give her much more than you realize. It sounds like your wife has a lot of issues and her own childhood wounds. Try not to take things she says and does personally. They are more about her than about you.

May 5, 2005
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Ras, forgive me, but does this have anything to do with coals? So thank you for your previous thread to me.

Kathyg, I was going to compliment you on your direct way of communicating in previous threads. I have noticed that you are able to communicate your feelings and opinions in a precise and short manner...which is something I am not very good at doing!!! And actually before the mess happened, had also intended to ask if you took communication classes, or anything sumilar? Or, does your line of work require this. Would be interested to know!! thx.
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May 5, 2005
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2bstrong,

Thank you soooo much for posting kathygy reply! It is very healing to me. I have never noticed this one before. I think I will save it. There is so much truth in it about me as well.

May 5, 2005
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I am very touched to read this thread to me. I am glad to know that I've been helpful.

on my way,

I haven't taken any communication classes or anything like that. I do have to write for my job. I'm happy to get your feedback as sometimes I wonder if my responses are too short.

May 5, 2005
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kathyg,
nope, you just get your point across very well, it is breif but powerpacked at the same time. Sometimes I wander all around when speaking, but guess I have gotten better. I know when I used to work elsewhere it was important to think factually instead of emotionally. It trained me to be more logical, but it has been a few since I worked in that particular field. I loved it, and am pursuing to be involved in it again.

May 6, 2005
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Rasputin
5-May-05

"Ras, forgive me, but does this have anything to do with coals? So thank you for your previous thread to me."

The reason for that thread for "Kathygy" is I felt that she was teated unfairly.

Honestly, I feel that she been doing an Excellent Job here educating us, we coda people.

I frankly have been healed and recovered by simply reading most of her replies to the posters here. She sounds like a professional and tranied counselor.

In addition, I felt that she was hurt by Angel4u's thread of biblical verses. So, I opologized on behalf of angel to her. I am sure angel was well-meaning and implied no harm to her or to anyone.

I believe that Kathygy deserves all due love and respect from every body here!

Have a great day every one!!!

(((HUGS)))

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