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May 21, 2007
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Guest_Guest, I hope it is ok that I approach you this way. I left you a post on my thread but I don't know if you got it. I want to apoligize to you. I made assumptions on what you meant by your post over on the Tump thread and I should of asked you what you meant by your post instead of assuming. I was not trying to attack you by what I posted back to you. I did post what my opinion was and how I felt but I see now from a discussion with someone else that I could of and should of approached you differently. I was not trying to hurt you or attack you or be mean to you. I am not apoligizing for standing up for my friend but I am apoligizing for my approach. I truly did try to do it respectfully but firmly. You have just as much right to post here as anyone else does and I was not trying to challenge that I just took your post on the Tump thread to be directed at GG and I took it as you were trying to start something negative with her and so I tried my best to express what I felt which I struggle to do, and I tried to do it appropriately and pleasse know that I didn't just type off the top of my head, I truly tried to think about it and tried to do it as respectfully as I could. For what it is worth, if you ask some of those here that know me as well as you can in cyberworld, for the time I have been here, I haven't just gone around attacking people. I think I have proven by my track record that I don't just go around looking for trouble and if I have had any issues, I try to address that with the person and do it in a respectful way. I am not perfect and I will make mistakes and I don't mind admiting to them. I meant you no harm and I am sorry that I didn't handle the situation better because now after some discussion with someone else I do see how it may have come across to you and I meant to be firm but not attacking. I am truly sorry for my failure in communicating with you. Friendma

May 21, 2007
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(((friendma)))

June 2, 2007
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Oh, thanks Friendsma. I missed this thread, I thought its the one I made myself (has the same kinda title). Please, if there's anyone who should apologize for being offensive, it might be me as I'm pretty straight forward most of the times. Yes, I'm a "trouble maker", but mostly in the area of religion here. I was a member of a former faith so faith has effected me strongly and I speak my mind on it now, I dont care if it offends anyway (but thats another story). Anyway I have no idea what you're talking about so there, you can feel safe that I wasnt offended.

Oh now I see it, sorry, I had missed reading that comment of yours, my appearance is really sporadic on this site nowadays.

That post now, yes, I didnt mean any trouble at all. It was, you know, I knew I didnt need to take that test becuase I already knew the answers that I make people nervous.

Its really nice that you made this effort to apologize to someone else. I wish I was like that. If I was, actually, I'd be saying sorry to a lot of people, heh. But yea, its very healthy to apologize. I know I have mental blocks in my mind that stifle my own communication. I have a meeting with a doc for social anxiety in which hopefully we'll work on this.

June 2, 2007
2:19 am
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ok the typos, argh... well you'll get the message.

June 2, 2007
2:22 am
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As you can see, I'm not reading much of the stuff here at all, so I completely missed that whole story. Thanks again for being responsible, I wish I was more responsible myself.

June 2, 2007
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Yea.. I have no idea what was going on there. GGfred, if you're reading this, sorry, I didnt mean to offend you at all. My post was just my own disappointment at knowing the results of that test beforehand because like I said I already know I make people nervous. You wont beleive it but most of the times when I talk to people, I can see the bump in their throat going down, good god, can you imagine? I have no idea what it is, but hopefully I'll work on it with my doc in two months. Two days ago, this guy, we were talking and it was the lump thing again I saw on him and I see it at times on my supervisor. I wish I knew whats going on in their minds when I make them nervous like that.

But I guess this affair here might be because I'm not friendly towards religion and I'm ok with that.

June 4, 2007
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G_G

You are proof that there is mushy sweet stuff under a crusty exterior.

(((Guest)))

June 5, 2007
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(((((Guest_Guest))))) Thank you so much for postin to me! I felt so bad and thank you for acceptin my apology. I truly meant you no harm! I hope you are well and I'll try to do a better job with my communication so that I don't offend or hurt or upset anyone. Thanks again for respondin cause I really was wondering how you were and if ya were upset with me and what I posted. Take care of you and I'd really like to keep communicating and get to know ya if that's ok with you?! Friendma

June 5, 2007
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Thank you guest and thank you fm...
I appreciate the explanation. Take care...gg

June 5, 2007
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Are you feeling okay guest? feverish?

kidding silly.

everyone's got a button.

free

June 5, 2007
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thanks all! a hot day here ah.

hi friendman sure, I look forward to talking to you though I dont come here much often.

June 11, 2007
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(((Guest_Guest))) Just checkin in with ya. I hope that all is well with you! I truly look forward to getting to know ya! I'll be in touch, this summer will be very busy for me cause I will be with my kids alot so I'll check in as much as possible. Take care!

June 14, 2007
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Heya! How have ya been doin? I've been thinkin bout you stating that you had social anxiety, I think it was. How are you copin with that? I understand to some extent cause I struggle at times with a form of that but it is not constant. At one time in my life, I couldn't leave the house due to panic attacks and anxiety, and I still have those from time to time but not on a regular basis. I don't do well by myself out in public. I have conquered it to some extent, but if I'm not careful, I will just hibernate in my apartment until I am forced to get out. I know it is not healthy for me and I hope to continue to get better. I hope it's ok to ask bout the social anxiety, I'm not tryin to be nosy or anything. I hope you are well! Take care!

June 14, 2007
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Hey Guest:

I've been thinkin of you also. Just wondering how you are.

Friendma... I had a time I suffered from panic attacks also. It was like hell to just leave the house. I just wanted locked in and never to have to face anything ever again. I'm glad you worked thru yours. I did also but it took time, and it was hard. ((((hugs))))

June 14, 2007
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Hugs back to ya Ma! I still suffer with anxiety but most of the time it is manageable now. I get scared that it will come back but I try not to dwell on it. I hope you are well. Have a beautiful day!

June 15, 2007
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hi friendma and MamaC, thanks. I'm mostly a hermit too, friendma. I hope my doc will fix me up in 2 months. I'll do what she tells me to do. I heard she makes the patient work hard so I will, hopefully. My anxiety is bad, compounded by my own stress of not working on my own business etc. Every day its 11:30pm and I still havent done anything and its time to sleep. Heh Oh well. Atleast I look forward to going to sleep.

June 15, 2007
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Sorry gonna respond to everyone on my original GG thread soon, just have been addicted to the PC on other stuff so much I havent found any time, which is real bad. yea. I literally hold my head in exhaustion as I keep using the PC, I am addicted badd. I'm hoping I'll stop.

June 15, 2007
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guest - not to be a nag, but you said "I hope my doc will fix me up in 2 months"

MY HOPE is that YOU will fix you up.

someday.

that you will get it - that it's not anyone's job to fix you but you. That there is no doc in the country, famous or otherwise, that can FIX you. Only you can do that.

She may have tools to help you do the job...lessons to teach...but ultimately, the work has to come from inside.

Like this addiction - there isn't anything anyone can do to make you quit it - it has to come from within. You have a choice - spend your day on the PC - or find other more productive things to do.

It's all about choices.

lead a horse to water, but he may not drink.

I pray that you find the strength to use the tools you are given to get thru this...that you are not expecting yet another "magic pill" again.

there IS NO magic pill...period...the best doc in the nation can't fix it...only you have the power and control.

June 21, 2007
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Great to hear from ya Guest_Guest! I haven't been around much, been spendin lots of time with my kids. I truly hope that you find the help that you need. I hope that things go well with your doc. I hope someday not to be such a hermit. I used to be on Xanax really heavily and that helped me at the time but then I got addicted to them and had to overcome that and it messed up my insides for a long time. I am so thankful that at this point I don't have to take anxiety meds. very often. I am still scared that my anxiety and panic attacks will come back in full force and I just don't think I could handle it. I hope that you are doin well. Take care of you! I'll be in touch....

June 21, 2007
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Friendma,

I just wanted to butt in to say that it's nice to see you. I hope that your summer is going well, and you are savoring each day to the fullest with your children.

As for the anxiety- I get that too and don't take any meds for it. What do you do when you have the anxiety? I've had about three full blown panic attacks in the last 15 years, and each time, I had to use some of my mom's tranxene, but with the anxiety that is not an attack, I just try to work through it. I have to remind myself to breathe... slow.

(((Miss Friend)))

June 25, 2007
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((((((((((BEV)))))))))) Great to hear from ya! I have been taught lots of different self soothing for the anxiety and that usually works now a days but for the panic attacks I have to take my meds. I have to remind myself to breathe too. My anxiety can keep me from leavin the house or even gettin out of bed. I hate it. I am thankful that I am better today than I have been. I hope that you are having a wonderful summer and yeah I am takin in and cherishing every moment with my kiddos. I don't look forward to the fall when they go back to school and my extra time with them goes away but I will cross that bridge when I get to it. Thanks for poppin in on me, I truly enjoyed it. Take care of you!

June 25, 2007
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Guest_Guest, just checkin in with ya. I hope that you are doin well! Let me know how things go with the Doc. if you don't mind. Do ya think you will be on meds to help with the anxiety? Do you take any meds now? I understand the misery of anxiety and I just hope that you are having a peaceful non anxiety day! Take care of you!

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