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This is what I love about being a man
January 12, 2006
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Last Saturday, I attended a rather large group function (about 100 people). Afterward, a small group of us went out to lunch. A woman in the group asked if she could follow me to the restaurant, as she didn't know where it was. So she did, and I saw that she was on her cell phone as she drove.

When we arrived, she mentioned she'd been talking to her daughter, and she was able to concentrate on their conversation because she didn't have to think about where she was driving; she could just follow me.

Also, at lunch, there was a question about her order and it was a buffet, so there were no waiter/waitress. I volunteered to take care of it so she could continue the conversation she was engrossed in. I got it taken care of, and she was appreciative.

That's what I love about being a man -- I can sometimes make a woman feel like a woman.

January 12, 2006
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It feels good to accentuate your manly traits!

Have you ever seen "Defending the Caveman"? It is a hilarious one man comedy that focuses on the differences between men and women in a very light-hearted way.

You have me thinking about what makes me feel my womanhood the most. Hmmmmm......

smiles,
Hope

January 13, 2006
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Seek -

If all men became like that and behaved gentlemanly, we would have heaven on earth!

If fact, this forum would cease to exist, coz most of our problems with our male brothers would disappear!!! LOL

~Ras~

January 13, 2006
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Hi hopeinhim,

{Have you ever seen "Defending the Caveman"?}

No, I haven't. But it sounds good. I'll look for it.

{You have me thinking about what makes me feel my womanhood the most. Hmmmmm......

smiles, Hope }

Again???? No wonder you're smiling!! lol

Take care.

January 13, 2006
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Ras,

{Seek -

If all men became like that and behaved gentlemanly, we would have heaven on earth! }

I must admit, it did help that my female friend, when she asked to follow me, said something to the effect that it was nice for a man to lead the way, or to follow a man somewhere. She buttered me up, but I was ready to pop anyway (like popcorn, get it? bad joke). The fact she was appreciative made it all the more worthwhile.

Too bad we can just be friends, this woman and I.

January 13, 2006
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Seeker:

Good Morning My friend,

I just knew this was your post..

You are truly one kind and caring, compassionate man, I admire all you do..

True if all men were like you it would be heaven..

Your Purpose i do believe is to show the world, the standard of a good, warm , God fearing life, in men, they can be what God has placed us here for and then some..

who wouldnt appreciate you!! your wonderfull!!

Your time will come in love, you are just building the platform to a world anew..

Take care Seeker, you are truly special...

Love kasie

January 13, 2006
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Seeker,
There are a lot of us kind and understanding men out there. All women have to do is look for us in that way and they will find.. I like what Rasputin said and there is a lot of truth to that but it has to go both ways, we men have to look closely and carefully for those qualities in woman because they are not obvious these days. Most everyone is guarding their heart to the point of not letting anyone in. Good topic, thanks, Tryin

January 13, 2006
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Well i disagree!! :D. Why must a man always lead. I say women should lead too, 50% of the time. Hows that.. any takers? I'm a man who fights for equality and releif from all the "manly" expectations and responsibilities. ahhhh.

January 13, 2006
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guest:

i cant beleive you sayin that!!
Look at you and what your doing!!

I would do anything to help out a man or woman,

What I love about being a woman is that I have the ability to tell my man how much i appreciate what he does for me, and i dont make him beg to kiss me, nor do i play head games..

I have held doors for men, Hell I work in a mans job, I don not expect all the equal rights crap, I think back in the day when it was not all this crap about 50/50 marraiges lasted longer, and so did love, familys stayed together, and there wasnt much infidelity..

Pleas edont think im attacking you, I feel that you cannot respond like that given what you have put your slef in the middle of your situation.

NO ONE should have to pretend to be someone when they are not, and NO ONE deserves to be cheated on, NO ONE>>

Im sorry,

Kasie

January 13, 2006
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No takers here. 70/30 is fine with me. I like when a guy pulls out my chair and opens the door. I vote for chivalry. :o)

But equal pay for equal work would be nice.

January 13, 2006
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Seek - are there any prospects of getting things more...romantic with this female friend???

January 13, 2006
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Hi Kasie,

Wow! Thank you for all your sentiments. God has richly blessed me; otherwise, I would be a much different, much darker, much more unhappy person than I am today. I feel truly unworthy of your sentiments, but I gratefully accept them, and they make me want to do better than I have before.

You inspire me to reach greater heights, Kasie. Thank you; you're a true friend.

I sure hope you're doing better today. Remember that if you ever feel down on yourself, that God and seekerw both know how precious and wonderful you are. And my sentiments are nothing compared to God's.

((((Kasie))))

January 13, 2006
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I'm_Trying,

{Seeker, There are a lot of us kind and understanding men out there. All women have to do is look for us in that way and they will find..}

I think the best thing women can do to bring out the kindness and understanding in men is to let us know they appreciate it when we treat them in this fashion, and to drop subtle, gentle hints to remind us to do so. (Us men forget so easily!)

{Most everyone is guarding their heart to the point of not letting anyone in.}

The more I see, the more I'm convinced this is because a lot of women, and men, too, have suffered a lot of heartbreak from unhappy relationships.

The best thing us men can do to turn this around is to be chivalrous toward women, and treat them like the daughters of God that they are.

That's what I mean to do, anyway.

Thanks for your post.

January 14, 2006
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guest,

{Well i disagree!! :D. Why must a man always lead.}

A man doesn't always have to lead. But in the beginning of a relationship he should. I tested something that I read from one of John Gray's books (the author of Women Are From Venus, Men Are From Mars) -- "give women what they need, and they will then give you what you need".

I started courting a certain woman. I learned early on what her interests and desires were, and worked hard to incorporate them into my courting. The relationship didn't work out due to factors beyond my control, but I have never felt so alive, so invigorated, so manly as I did when I was courting her in that manner. She responded very positively; she has a very hard time trusting men, but she started opening up to me more and more. Thanks, Mr. Gray!

{I say women should lead too, 50% of the time. Hows that.. any takers?}

Men and women are DIFFERENT. Neither will be happy when they're treated equally.

{I'm a man who fights for equality and releif from all the "manly" expectations and responsibilities. ahhhh.}

The best way to recharge yourself is to have a loving wife/gf who's you best cheerleader, IMHO.

January 14, 2006
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Ras,

{Seek - are there any prospects of getting things more...romantic with this female friend???}

Not currently. Maybe in another six or eight months. I'm not in the position where I can date anybody right now. I tried a foray into dating a few months back, but decided I couldn't do any woman justice right now, and so I stopped.

January 14, 2006
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Shaney,

{No takers here. 70/30 is fine with me. I like when a guy pulls out my chair and opens the door. I vote for chivalry. :o) }

Thanks for posting this. I believe this affirms what I said earlier -- "give a woman what she needs, and she will then give you what you need."

{But equal pay for equal work would be nice. }

LOL!

January 14, 2006
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seeker, thats right, a cheerleader wife for me is the best! 😀 We mean who encourages and supports me ofcourse hehe, and that goes both way. Hmm. So the man should lead in the beginning you say. Well.. the way things are right now, I guess you're right because there's so much competition so the girl is looking for someone who leads nicely. If we look at nature, we see male species lead over there too :((. Like why does the Weaver bird have to build a nest for the female. All she needs to do is come and choose the nest she likes. Now it would be nice if the world was built where females also build nests and try to impress the males and its the males who choose the female mate. Wouldnt that be nice! We can then just sip coffee while all the beautiful girls come, make their demonstrations and we chose the best one. It gives me some security that in my present situation it was she who chose me. I would never have pursued her, I couldnt even dream actually that she'd be interested in me. Anyway. hmm, I guess, whatever makes us happy. Its the weaver bird thing, the way the world is right now. Hmmm.

hi __kasie__, you're right, no one should have to pretend to be someone they're not. I didnt cheat and niether did she :((, i promise. I'll explain that in my Girl thread. I know you dont like to read it cause I've shared too much over there... but I couldnt do anything, I wanted to share. How about you thikn its just another romantic novel from a stranger. Well. We're begining to love and care for each other, atleast just beginning. He doesnt care for her :(. Yesterday he said her stomach is fat. He was away from her for a week and thats what he said to her when he came back. He doesnt love her :(. anyway, I'll explain there more. You're entitled to your opinions and i'm not hurt in any way 🙁 be assured. I come here to get opposing thoughts so I can challenge my own and see which one is true. You guys help me a lot.

January 14, 2006
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I understand where you are coming from I truly do, and I hope and pray you do not get hurt, you seem to be a truly nice guy, head over heels in love, or lust im not sure yet. BUt please dont allow anyone to walk all over you.
I understand how beauty is driving you, she's a trophy for you, but the things she says and does, just make me upset sometimes..
How do you know her stbx says all this any way?
did you ever wonder if she is feeling out your emotions?
Im not gonna spoil your love, please be careful and dont get hurt..

LOve Kasie

January 14, 2006
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kasie__, thanks, how right, she IS a trophy for me. Good choice of words. Head over heels in love and lust, both, I guess? I trust her is what she tells me, there's no other way. I cannot doubt her. Plus I've seen them interact, I know he treats her bad and coldly. Such a d-head, what a fool, to scare away a nice cutie like that. I'll be careful yes, thanks for the concern!

January 15, 2006
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One other thing about being a man...

A true man would not exploit or abuse his sexual encounters which are private and intimate between each other....

One who love and cares about the other..

This is my own personal opinion, and I truly am not a prude, but i find it offensive to be detailing a realtionship sexual at that even if it is anonymous..
To me your only asking for trouble..

Kasie

January 15, 2006
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honestly, I'm inexperienced, this is all too much for me. I never ever expected to meet this girl, to be in a relationship like this with an adorable cutie like this, never. I could only dream. My only hope of survival was to come here and share and ask for advice. If I didnt do it, it would have ended. I've lost my wit at times and people here helped me. I knew that i had to come here and ask for advice, because I could not risk losing her. Thats another side of how much I care about me and her. I think I've done the best I could and if it fails now, I know that atleast I tried and I'll try to move on. I dont know any friends in real life that I could trust with what I've shared here so if I didnt come here, I'd end up bottled up and miserable. I'm sorry if any of what I wrote offended you, but I've shared everything, not just naughty details. Like kathy said intimacy is a part of relationships and she didnd mind. Anyway, if I could edit the first post of that thread, I would add a warning "enter at your own risk, etc". I'll continue sharing and will try to be more careful now .. 😀 sorry again.

January 15, 2006
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Guest,

{seeker, thats right, a cheerleader wife for me is the best! 😀 }

LOL! Talk about taking comments out of context! LOL

{Now it would be nice if the world was built where females also build nests and try to impress the males and its the males who choose the female mate. Wouldnt that be nice! }

Women do have a system for impressing us. They let us pursue them, they let us know how impressed they are with our masculinity, and then we are impressed with them for their insight and wisdom. Simple, no? :o)

And after that, they impress us into marriage. (Just kidding on this. The poet in me couldn't resist the play on "impress".)

Take care.

January 15, 2006
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i'd be happy with one that would occasionally say "tree" before i walk into it 🙂 (at night)

January 15, 2006
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Lost and Found,

Are us guys really THAT bad?!?!?! :o)

January 16, 2006
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no, seeker, not all guys are that bad....it's a personal issue i was making light of. sorry. couldn't help myself.....;0

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