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The Horror of Online Dating
February 25, 2005
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WD,

You have opened a playground for us here!

February 25, 2005
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Me! you make me want to go to the local library.

February 25, 2005
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There is something erotic about books.

Maybe WD is looking for the kind of gal that Frasier had on Cheers!!!!

Cannot remember her name....they were an intersting couple, why can I relate to them?

February 25, 2005
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"Course I can relate to Diana, too. She was one funny, messed up gal.

February 25, 2005
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her name was Lilith.

Her namesake was the predecessor of Eve, the first woman. She was a bit too much for Adam to handle however and he rejected her.

She supposedly shacked up with lucifer when he got kicked out. Keep in mind, God only banished Adam and Eve. Luci and Lilith got to stay. 😛

February 25, 2005
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Ah, yes twas that name.....interesting; she had such black hair and fair skin, is there any comparison?

February 25, 2005
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I dunno...

Who rejected who? Im guessing Adam was too scared to come out and play. Can be interpreted either way but refusal to obey Adam is the myth.

Who got the raw end of that one?

Adam/Eve, cast out, made to work for a living.

Lilith, hooked up with the fallen, party/orgy till the end of time.

Hrm!

February 25, 2005
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WD,

How's it going? Any new adventures????

March 2, 2005
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I have a general question.

How long after you met someone should you stop trolling the dating site?

March 2, 2005
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Hrm.

Good question. I suppose when you are sure it is serious and you see it going further.

Fish has a cool forum so I may stick around for the community for a bit.

March 2, 2005
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When to stop fishing?

I would say that if or when I develop a dating relationship I would stop looking at profiles.

I only need one. Just one.

March 2, 2005
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I tried this online dating and all I can say that it is HORRIBLE!

I was matched with a man on "Christian website". Imagine this!

He was a freak. He was accusing me all the time, that I am ugly, cause I had no picture of min, he did not have picture either.

He was accusing me of being liar, bad person, this and that and all the evil things you can think of.

The funny thing is that the guy claims to be "Christian".

If I were not Christian; I would be discouraged to become Christian.

After a simple short prayer, I took a decision to end this relationship/nightmare which lasted for One month and half just before Valentine Day. Thank God. He would be the horror of Valentine Day!!!

I have decided not to resort to online dating in my search for Mr. Right. I canceled all of them, those paid and free ones.

I prefer to rely on the Lord to provide me with the Right Man, be it my present friend or somebody else.

My 2 cents here is: be very prudent of online dating, even if it's Christian. It is full of imposters, con artists who take advantage of sweet, honest, and intellectual people.

If possible cancel them altogether!

If u r looking for a mate, you can find him/her anywhere, grocery store, library, coffee shop just about anywhere. Just be friendly, have a true smile, and examine the person quicly, if you feel comfy with him/her, strike up a conversation.

In this way, it's free, safe, you see the person in person and believe me it's more Romantic!

March 3, 2005
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I met this guy through my salon account back in january and he is just adorable. Lover-ly. Bashful and delicious. I could corrupt him in so many ways (heh heh heh).

March 6, 2005
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WD,

Any closer to finding that cute librarian, or optomologist, or researcher, teacher, nurse or anything?

It's been a heck of a week here! Any new stories to share?

March 7, 2005
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My new honey is an engineer. And a super-ultra-dork. But I luuuuuurve it!

March 15, 2005
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Another one. This time, Im chatting with a woman who is almost local.

Before I know it the woman is asling if she can come over and do some sxual things to me. I ask if she's read my profile, which says I'm actually looking for a wife.

Long and short, I was talking to a preoperative, M-F transexual.

Ever the gentleman I offered advice about depression, getting a job, finding a support group. Did not offer my private parts of course.

What am I doing wrong.

Maybe I should post my dating profile here and you could tell me if I'm just asking for it.

March 15, 2005
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Wow, after reading all the posts that have been on here I'd be scared to even think of dating.

If you think we can help then go ahead and post it WD. Can't hurt; can it?

March 15, 2005
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WD -

Just when I was wondering how you are doing! (I was missing you)

From what I know of you here - you are a fantastic guy. Loving, caring, giving, knowledgeable man, possessing Common Sense and honesty (rare things now-a-days).

Post it if you'd like our opinion - but you already have my support 100% (which you should know by now).

If you seek a diamond amongst a beach of pebbles, though, be prepared to overturn a lot of pebbles.

Do not lose hope... You will find the one you seek. She will love you unconditionally & be worth the wait.

Hang in there WD.
Sending you a (hug) for support...

Juanita

March 15, 2005
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I feel for you WD. (((Hugs))) Maybe on your profile you could put "Females Only" or "Males need not apply" or "Persons with one gender, please"

Just a thought. I do feel bad for you though. Getting your hopes up and being let down. Sounds like you've had that enough.

Maybe you can go to a site where it's not free for the ladies? Maybe that's a reason why... All of the people are registering as women, so they can get it for free?

I think it should be equal anyways. Why do women get it free?

March 15, 2005
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WD,

Keep looking, do not give up. Whoever keeps running the race will arrive at at the end.

Every thing needs hardwork, persistence, and patience.

March 15, 2005
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I'm not really sad or despondent about it or anything. It's pretty darned amusing actually.

My profile kept getting more and more "don'ts" in it, culminating with the final form, which I'll probably show you. The funny thing is that after I put in the "No G-string photos" and "No cyber-sex" that I got this rush of G-string photos and requests for cyber-sex.

I think they're having fun with me.

One fun thing I've been doing is studying other people's profiles, and experimenting with "dummy" profiles to see what kind of responses I get.

I've learned that "nice guy with good job and nice car" gets zero responses in 2 months.

While my "lacscivious wench' profile got 537 responses in 30 days.

More than 50% of male profiles from Minnesota and Idaho had almost no information beyond "seeking woman." of the profiles with photos, less than half seemed to be guys I would introduce to my female friends, and about half were married men looking for side action, or absolute sleazeballs. My favorite of those was the guy whose tagline read "Looking for the Sickest Girl I can Find."

My advice to single women living in Idaho or Iowa: Move.

March 16, 2005
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For real. You are so fucking funny.

That's something I would do, make it a type of scientific experiment... With the dummy profiles and all.

Human psyche. Wow.

BTW, do you think that guy looking for the sickest girl he can find, is still available?

March 16, 2005
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Oh, twinks, all work and no play makes WD a tedious son of a gun.

Let's see, the woman who wrote me to say she liked my profile except she didn't like that I said I was accepting of other religions besides Christianity. Of course her profile said she hated intoleranr people. NEXT!

Anyway, finally got a live one. Very cute doctor who sent me a very nice photo with no g-string at all--just a normal dress. I love it when they don't talk dirty.

Funny as heck, too.

March 20, 2009
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Bump for "annoying dating" thread on support side...

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Bump for "WD finds Love Again" thread.

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