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The all new.."Bubble gum and burrs" thread ;-)
June 28, 2008
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Woke this morning thinking...it's a new day. It's sunshining and beautiful. My yard is beautiful with flowers everywhere. I have been walking 5 miles, 3x a week and getting into shape. Doing strenth training the other days. I feel really good! Going to get my hair done this morning. Woohoo!

Onward and upward....as Sd would say....Love Soul

June 28, 2008
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Good girl!

June 28, 2008
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(((Soulsister))), That's great. I am happy for you and glad you are feeling good and doing things for YOU!

June 28, 2008
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Soul, he he he, I wonder if Light will see this thread. Ahhh, back in the day when the sex thread was fun.
Glad you're feeling better today, a good hair day is always a good thing!

SD

June 28, 2008
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Lol..is that how you spell burr?? Back from our hair appts...my hair is darker than I wanted..but at least there it's fresh color and greyless.

Was it Light who said that? The bubble gum in the butt hair comment. God..those were the good ol' days!!!

I was thinking of naming it something to do with "the Macheen" but it didn't rooooll off the tongue as easily..hehe!

Thank you giggles and Sd and Lolli 🙂

I saw a saying on AAC that read

Each morning, when I open my eyes, I say to myself...

I, not events have the power to make me happy or unhappy. Today I can choose which it shall be.

Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today and I'm going to be happy in it.

Groucho Marx

I have a picture of me and Groucho Marx at Universal Studios...he was a riot. Well, someone dressed up like him..riding around on a funny old 3 wheeler with the huge front wheel. Carrying his cigar. We were taking pics of him with everyone..and he said "How about you and Me?" and I said "Oh, ok!" and asked my older son to take a pic..and Groucho said "No, I mean..how about YOU AND ME?" Then he did the eyebrow cigar thingy..lol..anyway...it was funny.

Gotta go get pretty....Off to the Big City...Love Soul

June 29, 2008
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K..new morning. Watering..trying ot get ready for the 4th of July. My house is small, so I try to the family thing for this holiday..since it's the outdoor time of the year. Plus, smalltown fireworks are nice..and much less crowded. Plus, I dont' have to leave my home. YAY!

I wanted to cancel..because of the past few days..but my mom said NO WAY!! That she and my dad will help me.

better get busy..I hcae lots of stuff to do..Soul

June 29, 2008
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Soulsister!!! that's awesome. Keep om keeping on and your folks are right!! Enjoy the Fourth!

June 29, 2008
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Oh Soul! Glad to hear you're feeling better! Just reading your posts made me feel better too!

Hep

June 30, 2008
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Hi Fantas and Hep-Thank you for the encouragement. I am trying to think and feel positive. It's hard..especially after all that has happened. He is still reading here or maybe he is just now bringing it all up. Not sure about them, though. He calls A LOT..texts..A LOT..and when he's down I feel bad and want to make sure he's ok. It always ends in him yelling at me because he is angry. Guess I should post this on the sex thread. I was trying to keep things on this one..all good! Blah!

Well, on a lighter note..got a lot of stuff done this weekend. Had a rough start...but got a lot of crap out of my house and thrown away. that always feels good.

Soul

June 30, 2008
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Soul, are you still communicating with him? I know he's calling and texting but are you replying? Just wondering if you two discussed the messaging going on here. ((Soul))

Clearing out crap feels sooooo good!

Hep

July 1, 2008
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Hep- Yes I am replying to him. He hasn't said anything about any new things I've posted. He has been asking questions about EVERYTHING I have ever posted here. In regards to the other intruders posts..I called him and told him he better make them stop accusing me of things that aren't true. Of course, he called her and said "I'd appreciate it if you would stop." Fuck! TELL the bitch to stop, don't ask her nicely. Honestly, he's just afraid she will tell him he can't see his son. She has kept him from seeing his son in the past, and has threatened it since I've been with him. As a way of controlling him and manipulating him to do what she wants. Why are some people so blind they don't even see the things they do..but sure can judge other. Never used her son as a pawn..BULLSHIT!

Ok..I'll stop now..maybe I'll have to get a little out here and there..instead of a full frickin' freak out..spewing session!! lol! Ok..I'm calm now..whew..I was about ready to let it all out.

I am pissed that I have no freedom here anymore. I can talk to my walking friend though...about ALL OF THEM and they will never know what I say! Na-Na Na-Na Naa-na!

Ok..I'm getting my confidence back...I was pmsing bad when all that crap went down..and now, I'm ready to tell them all off.

I've been losing weight..and my friend and I are up to 5 miles in a little over an hour. My tummy is getting flat...and I'm feeling good and confident. YAAAAAYY!!!

Love Soul

July 3, 2008
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Hi Soul,
Getting exercise is a REALLY good idea. I wish I had the energy to do it! I stand a lot at work but that's not moving. I used to exercise all the time. Back in the aerobics, leg warmer, head band days. It definitely gives you more energy and it clears your head.

The guy I'm seeing has the same issue with his stbx and their kids. She uses them to punish and control him. And he lets her get away with it. I swear sometimes I feel like I'm seeing a Labrador puppy.

Our guys have given all their power over to "them". These women don't separate their relationship with the fathers. It seems to be one package. It seems to be the mother and kids or nothing.

My guy's stbx has only 2 motives: Either he comes crawling back to her or she will try and ruin his life. There is no other options.

But of course we both know that it is up to HIM to fix that situation. It's not hopeless. And this is the crux of the problem. Is it ever going to get better? Or do we just settle.

Where do we fit in with all this drama? How much should a person in love have to put up with? If you love someone, should there be a limit? Well, there has to be. That's one of the traits of a co-dependent. Staying in a situation too long if it does harm.

My Labrador puppy has a big effect on me. Especially since mine talks and cries too. He cried on the phone last night. GAWD. Begging me to be patient. At least he didn't say the L word. I think he knows I'd probably run for the hills. He knows it's way too early to say anything even though we both know how he feels. I'm just can't go there YET. Especially since it's only been 3 months.

Sorry, I digressed. It's good that you can talk to your walking partner. I have a good friend I talk to every day. But she and I are probably too close so she's emotionally involved. When I get hurt so does she. That's one of the reasons I like this site, it's the outside looking in.

Have a good one.

Peace.

Hep

July 6, 2008
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Hi Hep. I have wanted to post back to you, but beleive that this thread was read also.

I have so much I want to say..I am sickened inside that I can't reply.

Love Soul

July 6, 2008
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((((Soul)))

You have been nothing but honest on all of your posts, expressing feelings that are completely normal and warranted. If this is being read, hopefully it will sink in and be digested in a positive way.

SD

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