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taking a break....to my friends:)
June 26, 2010
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I am
confused...I now will end this discussion as I obviously did
nothing to you personally...

I do however
apoloize to anyone here who may of offended while defending
myself...

Its not on
purpose...I do not set out to just hurt someone for the fun of
it...I am not that kind of person...

I do get upset
ewasily and yea I get triggered real easy and I understand why
too..

I am working on
it...

Destinystar...I am
at a loss here but will say this...I am sorry you do not like
me...feel the way you do about me...I can not change you and your
view of me...

But I can change
my response to you...I wish you no harm...I do not know quite else
what to say here...

Peace to
all

June 26, 2010
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Will
come back later...time for some self reflection and some iced
tea!

I wish everyone a
peaceful day..love bfg

June 26, 2010
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BFG-
Please show me where I said I do not like you or had a bad feeling
or point of view towards you.

I do not feel that
it is helping your recovery to blame me, ma, this site, this guy
who started a post, etc. on why you choose not to be
here.

Why does Chelonia
refer to you as the former Sand Piper? Have you been here before,
experienced problems, then came back again, only to experience
more? Just wondering.

Seriously, I have
nothing against you. I like you. OK?

June 26, 2010
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Now
your on ignore...I am not sanpiper...I think your in serious need
of introspection destiny... I am at a loss with you...
Honestly...is this a game to you?

Please do not ever
post to me again... I offered my apology and heart to work things
out and you think I am a sandpiper person?

Mydas is a
beautiful person here...please do not drag her into this too You
have a chip...I hope you work on your issues too...like
me.

Please never post
to me again... I do not trust you now...I do wisah you well..take
care ds

June 26, 2010
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BFG-
Hi. All I did was ask you a question. Chelonia had a post where she
ran BFG formerly Sandpiper together. All I wanted was some clarity
as to what the sentence meant.

I hope you can
relax, take a deep breath, and believe me when I tell you that I do
like you. I never meant you harm.

June 26, 2010
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Destiny, I don't understand where these quotes (of
Berfootgirl's) are coming from? Not this thread. Which thread are
they coming from?

June 26, 2010
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Whoa
ponies. Where did ANY of this come from? What happened? Is this
crazy making?

June 26, 2010
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barefootgirl, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to misspell your
name.

Yeah andii - I
don't get it - where did it come from? Copy/pasted from another
thread?

June 27, 2010
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Bevdee- sorry I didnt state that up front. Since BFG started
this thread and I was quoting her own words I figured she would
know where they came from. It came from the post on support side
that said something about being 3 months. It was copy and pasted
from that thread.

June 27, 2010
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andii- Hi. whoa ponies. that is cute. I explained in the post
to Bevdee where the quotes came from. Since I was posting to her
and she said that stuff I didnt think it was necessary to cite my
source, I assumed BFG knew. I know I should not go assuming
anything. I have been really busy with my phone ringing off the
hook and have been distracted while typing. Sorry about the
confusion.

June 27, 2010
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"its
been 3months and i dont know if i should cut her loose or stick
around"

To help clear up
the confusion as to what thread I copied and pasted BFG quotes from
there it is.

I do not
understand the response I got from BFG. I felt that what I said was
supportive. I feel the response I got from her were personal
insults. Whatever.

June 27, 2010
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I
don't have time right now to read through all of this tonight, but
I did want to clarify one misconception that involves
me.

Destiny, at first
I was totally confused by your quote from me... I have always taken
people here at face value, so the quote you attribute to me is
nothing close to what I would think or say.

But then I
remembered that a month or so ago on the Coffeehouse thread I
invited many different people to help open up the coffeehouse while
Darkeyes was taking a break. There is a person here named Formerly
that sometimes posts on that thread, so would have been noted in
the invitation, along with you and BFG and anyone else who posted
to the coffeehouse that week. It is possible that I could have
invited BFG and Formerly and Sandpiper in that order. Could this be
where you are confused? I could have just as easily put the names
in this order Destiny, Formerly, Sandpiper and it would have had
the exact same meaning.

If you want to
look it up to confirm it, you can. I have different things I want
to do with my time.

Destiny, have you
accused others in the past of being someone else previously? I
don't remember if you were involved in that, but I do remember it
happening in the past here. It is very hurtful and
counter-productive to anyone's healing. I really hope that we don't
have another round of folks needing to confirm the identity of
others on an anonymous site. Isn't that the purpose of it being
anonymous, so that our real identities are protected so we can open
up freely here?

I hope we can all
learn a lesson about communication and understanding from this
mistake.

June 27, 2010
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Chelonia- I did see a post of yours to BFG that ran three names
together. It was confusing. I asked BFG what it meant. Then I
looked at it again and figured it out that it was three nick names
ran together that looked like a sentence.

June 27, 2010
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chelonia you said "I really hope that we don't have another
round of folks needing to confirm the identity of others on an
anonymous site. Isn't that the purpose of it being anonymous, so
that our real identities are protected so we can open up freely
here?" I just want you to know that I agree with you.

I am sorry if I
came across that way. I was confused about the string of nick names
thought it was a sentence that sounded like this nick was formerly
that nick not even thinking that the word formerly was a nick
name.

June 27, 2010
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Chelonia- here is the sentence that confused me. "Barefootgirl,
Formerly, Sandpipper would you like a few tacos?" that you wrote on
the coffeehouse thread. I remembered reading this sentence and
being confused about the meaning. Then,

June 27, 2010
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Well
she's BFgirl to me, and I've missed her...

so bFgirl what you
up to woman?

June 27, 2010
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Barefootgirl, You have good instincts. Although this is a
public forum, and we cannot control who posts to us or what they
say, we can choose whether or not we want to respond. There are
some great people here, but there are those, as you say, who cannot
be trusted. I wish you all the best! Mary

June 28, 2010
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Destiny,

In the future, its
OK to ask for clarification when you read something like that. A
lot of hurt feelings would have been avoided.

June 28, 2010
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Chelonia- Thank you. 🙂

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