Ras as you know some things in life are not fair. Life is not fair.

I will write how I want too. The words are the same no matter if I put paragraphs in them or not. Some people do not care and many other write this way as well only I do not see you interjecting to them to separate thoughts.

I told you in my other thead that you are too difficult of a person to deal with.

And I can interject into any thread I choose because the site is a public forum and I believe sisterhood was not an inclusive party. And I doubt sincerely too many peole would disagree unless you can get everyone to agree that I am not allowed to post. WHich is it anyway if I want to post back I need to paragraph and then you tell me that I invaded it???? And I don't see you mentioning that to anyone else that post in long paragraphs. Really now Ras, you just want to show your stuff.

Im really quite done unless I hear you ragging on someone that I care about then I will defend as you defend your friends. WOrks both ways Ras.

I see you sweet talk your way out of situations and then in next breath change like the wind. It is push and pull. You push people away and then pull them back in. And it is not working so well with me right now.

Im not about to make peace after all I have read recently. Sometimes you try peace and it does not work.

Maybe it was best not to leave a title for this one. Kroika thank you for the reminder though. It is thoughtful.

And just for you to know, Ras I have made a conscience effort to add spaces inbetween paragraphs on other threads due to your last reminder to me which by the way have not much to do with the issue at hand, and if you go into other threads you will see that I have been trying to be better but in that last paragraph I kept writing. I could have spaced yes but I did not. I am not 100 percent at your level. But I try.

Also you have so many threads going on where I could have interject that same paragraph I wrote, does it matter so much where? Maybe it is not the best place but still I read your post and addressed it there and I did not intend to INVADE the thread, just speaking up.

And as for the sisterhood, no I am not a member of it if that is what you need to do to be on it but I do read it and I read it everyday. I read dating thread, no contact thread, whatever I feel might help me.

This is far as I can carry this. As sometimes you just cannot do a thing. And hands are up and life goes on.

Yet, another clear case of PROJECTION!

I just found the thread and am posting the part I am referring to.

My Feedback: In order for us to be able to initiate real change and self discovery, and eventually grow, we each need to understand the beginnings of our own problems. Only WE know our OWN problems... this site is about reaching our inner personal selves, not about us reaching others. We each need to reach ourselves, it's not our job to inflict our judgments or perceptions onto others. Please, let's help others to reach into themselves, on their own, and on their own terms. People have their own answers. People usually are able to unlock their own problems when given GENTLE guidance and GENTLE questions. And sometimes, some GENTLE correction. And of course, a little support & credit for willingness to talk about what's bothering us. Treat other people's "problems/issues" with even GREATER CARE than you would give to your own. Be respectful & give breathing room.

Lately on the threads, I've been hearing a good deal of harsh criticism, finger pointing, and judging. And just general head-butting (repeated points of view that are differing). None of these are helpful. None.

Thanks for responding lollipop3. What bothered me most about all of the judgements and opinions was that people were getting hurt. This site is about support and gentle guidance. Asking questions so that others can find their own answers. Best to All

Oooops typo...

The only THING I can say......