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So what about mental illness?
July 15, 2009
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Healing and Peace,
I talked to my husband by phone about a legal separation. He did not take that well at all- I think because he didn't understand what it was- He said to just file for divorce and "get it over with". Well, I'm not ready for that, so I put seeing the attorney and seeking a divorce on hold. I am going to spend a lot of time praying about this whole situation before I take any steps. Frankly, I'm exhausted. It's hard to deal with someone who has such difficulty being reasnable. I know when he says hurtful things, it's partly his illness speaking. Not easy, but I don't think anyone has it easy.

July 16, 2009
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(((2BReal)))

My heart goes out to you. I'm sure you are exhausted, and that is perfectly understandable. Please take time for yourself, you deserve a break. Try to make some time for you everyday, even if it is only 30 minutes a day, or 15 to relax and give to yourself it will help you cope and see things clearer. You never have to make any decission unless you choose to and want to, so whatever you do or don't do will not harm you. I think your wise to wait, pray, and put everything on hold if that is what your heart is telling you. Your heart tells you a lot, and sometimes you have to sit and quiet your mind to really know what, how or when to make life changing decissions.

My prayers go out to you, you will receive the strength you need, and you will get through what ever comes your way. You truly sound like a very strong woman, and your daughters are so blessed to have a mom like you taking care of them.

Just working on you, and your feelings for now, might be the best thing you can do for now.

Healing and peace

July 16, 2009
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Healing...and Peace,
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your reply. You seem like a very caring and understanding person. Your input and interest was what I was looking for when I stumbled upon this site. I just need to know that I'm not the only one who has gone down this road. It's sounds like you've aquired a lot of wisdom and experience on the road that you've been on. Thanks again.

July 16, 2009
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2BReal,

I've had a couple clients in the same situation your in now. It seems that they always got to a point that your at now. With them not sure on what to do, and if they should or shouldn't stay... lot's of conflict in what they felt for a long time because some felt such guilt for even considering leaving. They all came to their own decissions in time, and they found a lot of peace in their individual decissions they made when the time felt right to them.

I would say that yes in my own personal life, and some adversity gavce me lot's of peace, and I grew a lot over the years. Umm wisdom, well I can always gain more, and I believe that everyone we talk to offer some kind of wisdom to us everyday. We all just have to keep our eyes and ears open all the time... I don't think we ever stop learning, and we all receive from one another.

Your welcome to express your feelings anytime, and you probably already know it helps just sharing what your feeling, by letting it out.

Keep posting as you feel you want to or need to, and I'm sure everyone on here will offer some kind of support to you.

Peace to you, Healing and Peace

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