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So Glad To Know
January 9, 2009
7:49 pm
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So Glad To Know All of you are there and I can reach out and connect with caring like-minded people means sooo much. Thank you to the people who administer this site and make it possible for us to connect with each other. Thank You

January 9, 2009
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(((hi littlespirit)))) yep this site is great, wonderful caring people, and please open up more if you feel comfy either on the libs side or the support side....(((camer)))

January 9, 2009
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Again Thanks Camer,

Going through something I do not want to go through ever again so when tomorrow dawns I need to

for once and for all stop loving someone who by his behaviour really isn't worth it. I am the only one who can end this form of suffering.

Yet boy it does hurt!

January 10, 2009
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Littlespirit

On the 9-Jan-09 you said:

"I am the only one who can end this form of suffering."

So true. Separation certainly will remove the 'stimulus' and time will eventually transform the pain into periodic sadness. But in the mean time, will the opportunity to learn a little about the emotional pain triggering causes that lie within yourself, be lost?

You also said:

" ... for once and for all stop loving someone ..."

Is it really love that you will eventually bring to a "stop"?

January 10, 2009
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What is the difference between love and desire?

Do they overlap in essence?

If so, isn't it said that to desire is to suffer? Si I undertand the statement above. It is liberating to be free from certain kinds of love. Especially romantic love, as exhilirating as it can be when it is going well.

January 12, 2009
6:58 pm
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Wanting to thank both of you

Camer for your encouragement (again that root word cour)And again thanks.

And especially you Tez.

I was thinking about you today or at least what I think I know about you from these discussion threads

And would like to give you some feedback if you agree to it.

Otherwise I'll mind my own business.

from littlespirit

And you mzrella
Good question! What is the difference between love and desire?
Perhaps one is a gift and the other is a want and/or a need of the other?

Simply a thought.

What do you think the difference is?

littlespirit

January 13, 2009
11:05 pm
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Was hoping to hear back from my new found friends.

Especially you Tez. Thank You.
When you quoted the

"... for once and for all stop loving someone ..."

And then the question

Is it really love you will eventually bring to a stop"?

I may be very simplistic yet I will always chose love before any and all of the other emotions I experience in my life. Its not that the other emotions are not real road signs or markers and enrich my experience.

What I have experienced is choosing love and being loving is always the best, most powerful gift of a win/win
experience.

I really want to be with someone and be in relationship with someone who enriches my life and I enrich his equally. When I feel that way my love even grows. And as an online questioner and one who acknowledges your gift of reflection it tells me what a fantastic mirror you are.

Feeling Grateful and also Great Thanks

January 14, 2009
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hi (((little))) glad you are feeling grateful, cuz you are worth it!!!

(((camer))))

January 16, 2009
2:53 pm
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Hey CAMER

What do YOU think and others

What Do You all Think? Simply asking?

++++littlespirit++++

January 16, 2009
7:26 pm
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Littlespirit

On the 13-Jan-09 you wrote:

"I really want to be with someone and be in relationship with someone who enriches my life and I enrich his equally."

I am wondering what this statement means in your daily life. I know what it means to me; but I am very reticent to extrapolate my meaning as being yours too.

What do the words 'enriches my life', in the sense that you use them, mean to you? How do you see a good relationship enriching your life?

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