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Smiles....I'll explain...
October 14, 2004
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I'm online. This makes me so sad. What I understand of it at least... =( *hugs to everyone who needs them!*

~Amanda~

October 14, 2004
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sunny (((Keep the strength)))) and do not let HIM get the best of you again...he is a lurcher who wont give up, and its time for him to start losing control over you.

(((((you, my friend Sunny, are in my thoughts and prayers))))

hugs, love and support...camer

October 14, 2004
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Thank you camer and amanda....Never in my life did I think I would have to deal with a maniac. Now this person is threatening to put my belongings outside on the curb, things I left there because I could not get them after "THAT NIGHT"
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....

Talk about feeling like your life has been stolen from you. (sigh)
It makes me physically sick to think about it and is harming my immune system, which I do not need!

Hugs,

Sunny

October 14, 2004
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Oh Sunny, I'm so sorry. I'm not sure what all is going on but I get enough of it to get the gist.

On a seperate note - can someone tell me how to get rid of adware? Because my comp at home lately is super slow and has lots of pop ups. Thanks!

October 14, 2004
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SFB,

Thank you. I'll be ok. I sure don't know but that was one of the bugs I had. Maybe Iam will know.

Sunny

October 14, 2004
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Hi everyone,

Sunny I'm very sorry to hear he's threatening you. Is there anything you can do as far as getting your belongings? Not to sound crass at all but are they extremely necessary? Meaning are they worth this increased stress which is now affecting your health? One of my friends has cancer and gets much sicker when she has a tremendous amount of stress around her. I mean if they're things that can be replaced, as much as that would suck ass, it might be better for you in the long wrong b/c you'll take one last thing away from him that he's using to control. I hope you know where I'm coming from with that.

sfb, oh geez, it sounds like ya got yourself some. I use two free programs that work really well together with a quality antivirus program. If you use your computer frequently, you should do the scans about once a week. They can run in the background (minimize them) and you can continue to use the computer.

The other thing, if you're not already doing it, is to clear out your cookies and your temporary internet files (including offline content). Those can take up a bit of space as well as slow down your computer. But if you're getting lots of pop ups, you probably have adware.

I want to write the names of the 2 free programs I use b/c they work well but I don't know if I can here?? Does anyone know if that's allowed? I don't want to break any rules but would like to pass the info along to you. Any suggestions? hmm maybe contact SC and ask? Unless someone knows...

Oh I also use a good pop up blocker, also free! Can I list? lol

lam

October 14, 2004
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Hi Sweetie!!

I think you can give links, etc here. That is one thing about Libs that is unclear. What are the different rules here? Iam, yes those things are important to me and are irreplaceable. This manic/depression all day long e-mails, etc..one moment nice, the next sad I miss you, I love you...Gawd!!! I'm as confused as a baby racoon!!! It's a verbal battle, suffice it to say! He won't do it...I know he won't because I have what I need to take care of it if he so dares to do so. Hey! Wheres Pedro tonight, LOL! How are you feeling? I suppose smiles is mad at me but I do have to say and I'll tell her also here... I said what I did because I think it is better if you talk it out smiles. I understand though, if that takes you some much needed thought and time. Anyhoo..... Guess I'll wait to see if anyone comes on..

HUGS!!!!!!
Sunny 🙂

October 14, 2004
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Hiya Sunshine,

Yeah I know we can give links but I wasn't sure b/c they're links to computer programs as opposed to counseling or health info. Do you think I should send SC an email and ask her? Not sure what I should do!

Damn, I was hoping the belongings weren't that important to you, would've made things easier for you. uh oh, what do you mean you're confused? Is he getting to you with all the emails? I thought you blocked his email address?

Pedro Poodle Pitcher and friends are off tonight...game 3 tomorrow night unless all the rain we're getting postpones it! grrrrr... Camer was cracking me up on our other thread today, trash talkin and everything. lol

I'm not feeling too well today, I was a little better yesterday. It's raining and damp here today so I'm wondering if there's some arthritis developing there. ugh Thank you for asking. 🙂

Do you think Smiles is mad? I know she's been having internet connection problems but she did seem a little down last night. I also know she was struggling with some feelings regarding her mom, I don't know if she realized any others or how she's coping with what she has realized. Smiles if your reading, we love you and hope you'll talk to us when you're ready? I hope you're ok! I love you sweetie.

lam

October 14, 2004
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Hi ladies, What's the hubbub? I am not catching onto something. Is he threatening you physically Sunny? Cause if not, you have just given him as much satisfaction as if you f***ed him!

Sorry, but remember...??? sticks and stones can break my bones but words will NEVER hurt me!!!! You know this Sunny and you are stonger than this.

I will totally eat my words if there is something I am not seeing but g/f be good to you!!!! You are our concern and we need you around remember?

Go take a hot jacuzzi soak and sip one o' those mint juleps...I'll pick you some fresh mint!!!!

Love you girl!

October 14, 2004
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Hi 🙂

It might be a good idea to e-mail SC..And also find out just exactly what is allowed here? I'll get my things, no prob. I opened up my e- to this person to try to negotiate...I will know if and when to block it.I'm confused because one e-mail, okie dokey...The next..shit on you and your stuff..You see? Classic BPD.... I was so hoping you were feeling better. Are you taking something for the pain? nurse Sunny says lots of chicken soup!!! (Always worked with my girls) OIC...Pedro is loafing ey? HA! I'm watching the Cards now.... Not my choice but ex hubby comes in here after I watched Survivor (he can't stand it, my fave program) and turns it on, then promptly goes to his room!!!! Is it me? LOL!! Jeeeeeeezzzzzzzzz...
I think smiles is hurting, and I wish I could take that hurt away. I'm sure she is thinking and pondering. She probably needs time to digest it all too. Smiles!!! We do love you!!!

((((Iam)))))

Sunny

October 14, 2004
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Thanks Iam I so appreciate that because at the moment I am wondering what I have done? Gosh I didn't think I had done anything. Yes problems with the internet and kids. I have been super busy haven't gotten on-line but maybe 3 times the intire week gosh I have peeked in 20 times in one day from work. Been busy and worried the boss is trying to catch me not doing my job so laying low till the air clears there. Sometimes I feel okay coming here during work and other times I worry it will get me in trouble.

I just don't understand Sunny? can you please tell me more I don't get what you are saying?

October 14, 2004
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Yo, are you all ignoring me?

October 14, 2004
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Yeah I'll email SC, ask about the program links and also the general rules/guidelines in this area, if they're different in ways?

What were you trying to negotiate? The return of your things? Yeah I don't think you'll get very far negotiating in a reasonable manner with a bipolar NOT taking meds. You may just end up being more confused and worse - hurt even more. Workin had a good post above...re-read! 🙂

Dr. gave me Bextra and a muscle relaxant, can't remember the name, can't get up to go check, got my blankey and my LT and don't wanna move! lol The meds helped a little today but I'm definitely worse and am thinking maybe arthritis UGH

I think smiles may be thinking but she seemed ok above with everything regarding you Sunshine. I mean we both had the same feelings and both realized even though we were hurt when you left and missed you, it's mainly some unresolved issues we have that created such intensity in our reactions. At least that was my understanding from Smiles. I have a feeling she's cool with you and just has some other things going on. She said she was tired last nite too.

lam

October 14, 2004
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YO! Workin, Wassup!!

How are you tonight? No ignore...we wuuuuv youuuu!

October 14, 2004
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No! Not ignoring anyone workin!!!

smiles, I just want you to know if I hurt your feelings in any way, I do apologize!!! I would never do that to you or anyone here. As I did write, I am sure you are just thinking on lots of things, trying to work your feelings out...

October 14, 2004
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Hey Sunny

I just saw a post from Smiles on our other thread! Go check it out

October 14, 2004
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Gosh I have been lingering around the wrong thread here..Gosh sunny I relplied more on our other thread sorry was waiting for your response there.

October 14, 2004
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Shit now ya'll are going to the threads I have been waiting at can't get it right tonight donno where to go whatsa girl to do????

October 14, 2004
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LOL Smiles!

Sorry for the confusion! I wrote you on the other thread too! I think SC prefers if we discuss personal things we may have with each other over here rather than the support threads so we've kinda been discussing here. But we're there too...we're EVERYWHERE...lol

October 14, 2004
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It's not you sweetie!! Damn!!! It's hard going back and forth!!! Ol Sunny's head is spinning, LOL!

October 15, 2004
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Sunny you wrote the post you did asking me to tell you what is wrong I told you how I feel and what I have come to realize and now you won't even talk to me just go to bed. I don't get it. It seems to me the tables are turned here you have a problem with me. Not sure what it is. I would appreciate if you would let me in on it. I really thought you understood. I am confused and now hurt. I hate feeling like I have done something but don't know what it is. Well I guess those are my feelings too.

October 15, 2004
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*smiles*

I don't have a problem with you at all. If you will read the posts you will see that I stated that you were probably thinking and pondering, trying to work out your feelings.I also stated if I had hurt your feelings in any way, I'm sorry. Please read that....

Sunny

October 15, 2004
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Sunny when I got on-line last night and told you where I was coming from and tried to clear up any misconceptions I might have created the response I got was:

"I'm not so sure about anything anymore...I'm not understanding...I'll bid you wonderful ladies a very good night, with sweet dreams and peace...

God be with you.

Sunnygrl "

So to me I felt you were upset with me. Well I can tell others thought the same thing too!!! What aren't you understanding. You know I know sometimes when we can't see a person when we are talking to them it can be misuderstood. Especially typing on a monitor. I was trying to let you know if anything what happened opened a door for me. Gosh It helped me realize how much work I need to do yet regarding my mom when she was alive and her death. The is sooo much unresolved there and I haven't been the same since she died. I hope you will take what I say as a compliment. You helped trigger the healing process I need to go threw in order to grieve my mothers death. I don't know if that makes any sense to you. Because like I said it really isn't about you but more about the feelings I started having. Have you ever had feelings big ones and at first they are overwhelming. That's how I felt and didn't handle the situation the best way I could have. Yet I did the best I could at that moment. Just as you do. I want to say one other thing. If I didn't love you and care about you I wouldn't have cared. Just want you to know. There are people the disappear here for days and weeks. But I feel a connection to you and certain others here.

Much love.

*smiles*

October 15, 2004
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I understand sweetie! I just was so confused with all the postings last night, going from here to there, LOL! Like I said, my head was spinning! I just had to go to bed cause I had been in contact with "that person" via e-mail all day trying to negotiate my head was going to bust! it had nothing to do with any of you that I finally had to get off the PC and hit the hay! And this person is already doing the same thing today...I'm so very stressed out with that mess. And I feel we all have a connection too! Always have! OK...I have to get ready to go to work in a few for the afternoon, but I'll be back later! I hope now all of this is cleared up.Know that I understand how you feel now ok?

I Love You smiles!!!! You ARE a very special person...

Sunny

October 15, 2004
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Okay I feel better now. Gosh you and so many others here are such a big part of my world it was really messing with me.

I am glad we are on good terms and no more misunderstanding... I am sorry you are having to deal with that person. I wish there was something we all could do to help. Know we are all here for support.. And of course me too!!!!

I love you too Sunny!!! You still remind me of that birdie I told you I saw a few months ago. That lil yellow one that everytime I would say "Sunny" it would chirp at me. I got a kick out of that. Do you remember?

I love you and hope you have a nice afternoon at work.

(((((Hugs)))))))

*smiles*

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