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Shaney's Spot
January 23, 2008
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horsefly - I'll talk to you about this tomorrow. It was an accident that I addressed Nappy in that post. It was no accident that I wrote "what was I thinking." I mean, it's no secret that Nappy doesn't care for me, so I was making fun of my own mistake. I'll talk to you tomorrow about this if you want but right now I need to go to bed. Don't feel bad or think that you hurt my feelings - I'm fine with all of this. Take care of yourself and we'll talk later.

January 23, 2008
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((((Shaney)))) Love ya....

Miss you girl. How ya been??

January 23, 2008
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Hey, Shaney, back at the spot! You were missed!

January 23, 2008
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Hey michy - lovin you too, my friend! Been busy, but hey. It not very busy around here though... everyone must be taking a hiatus at the same time.

Hey there sini :o) - Yep, I'm back until I get swamped again. I miss you too, my friend - so sorry you're not feeling that great. :o( We'll have to work on that. What's the half way mark between California and Brazil? Maybe we can meet there for a day of jewelry making?

January 23, 2008
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Oy vey

((((Shaney))))

January 23, 2008
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Umm..yeh. ((lolli))

How are you lolli, my little breath of fresh air?

January 23, 2008
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Just wanted to say hi Shaney...

((SHANEY))

January 23, 2008
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Hi there, neeeeeed :o). I've been trying to read through your whole thread off and on today. Although I'm not quite finished, I just want to tell you that I'm thinking of you and hoping that you can find some peace in between the drama. I know how you feel, unfortunately, and I'm so sorry that you're having a rough time. When I finish the thread, I'm hoping that I can offer something in the way of comfort to you - or at least a word or two to give you some hope. Because there IS hope - whether it's WITH or WITHOUT him. There are a lot of people in your corner :o).

January 24, 2008
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"It not very busy around here though... everyone must be taking a hiatus at the same time."

Imagine that...it is weird around here. Ah well. Timing isn't the best, but....maybe it really is.

Who knows.

Just know that I miss you, and I am thinking about you. I am reading...just not really here like I used to be. I can't be...

I love ya Shaney....

((((Shaney))))

January 24, 2008
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Hi Shanster,

I wish so bad that we could know each other outside of here. Ya know...if I lived on the other side of the country and all. I just think you and I would get along so well :o) Sometimes when you post...I can actually see the expression on your face and hear the inflection in your voice. Cracks...me...up, I have to tell ya.

Anyway...I'm doing ok, thank you for asking. It's been a bit crazy 'round here.....cousin died, huge fight with Snow, sick, started school, etc. But beyond that....just peachy 🙂

And you?

January 24, 2008
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((((Lolli))))

January 24, 2008
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Thanks (((Michy)))

January 24, 2008
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((((((((((SHANEY))))))))))

January 24, 2008
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Hey there Mich :o)

I know what you mean. I don't really have the energy, or desire anymore to get too involved here. I AM glad, that we can still talk, though. It means a lot. I would feel as if I lost a good friend if you left here totally. Hang in there and know that I'm thinking of you too - love you girlfriend :o)!

Hey loll :o) - Yep, we would definitely be great friends outside of here - whether you lived here in S. Calif. with your fireman, or across the country. We've definitely shared a type of kindred spirit since we've met. It's amazing how that can happen on line. Maybe someday we'll break out of the confines of AAC - you never know.

It's GOT to be freezing where you are right now... R.I., right? Ugh. It's about 35 degrees here, which is cold for us. We even have some snow around the mountains of Valencia. We didn't have that when we lived in the San Fernando Valley. It's kind of nice... some snow.

I'm sorry to hear about you cousin! I didn't know. I hope you're okay. It doesn't help to be sick and fighting with DING DONG when you're having to deal with a death in your family. Ugh. AND school? Yep... sounds real peachy. No wonder you've gotten sick. It sounds like you need to move to California... where it's warmer and there is no Snowblower to bug you. :o)

I'm actually doing pretty well. I didn't get that crappy cold that was going around, thank goodness.

Work is extremely busy, but that's fine.

M is doing okay - started Lexipro and hates it. He says he feels real shakey. I don't know if that's a side affect or what. We've really come a long way though, with our issues. I was reading some old threads of mine and GAWWWD, what a mess that was back then. But things are good now - except for my weight gain of course.

Do you ever read your old threads? I'll never forget when you scolded me and D for drinking and posting. I was afraid of you back then :o). Ha!

January 24, 2008
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FRIENDMA! How in the HELL are you? Are you okay? Did you have to go back into the hospital? Ugh. You poor thing. I sure as heck hope that you're on your way to healing and feeing better. I'm glad you're back, my friend :o). (((friendma)))

January 24, 2008
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Hey there ladies...

Lolli, i was reading your post and I had to giggle, talking about being able to see the look on Shaneys face. I do that too.

Do you ever put a name with the posters here? Like oh, she sounds like a Jen, or she sounds like a Virgina?? Or Rosemary or whatever?

It is so funny to me sometimes. I won't go into all the names that I have come up with....

Would you guys be willing to share your first names?? I will tell you how accurate I was.... :o)

I think you know mine...

Love you all....Mandy

January 24, 2008
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I'm sure you've seen mine around here too - sometimes I wig out while I'm typing and sign my real name. Duh. My name isn't that common, Marina, so I'm sure you came up with something else :o). We've also talked about what we think other people look like too. That was an interesting thread, because some people were right on! It's funny how you actually have a picture in your mind of what these people might look like.

January 24, 2008
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By all means....if you are going to picture me...please do it at about 5 foot 10, blonde, blue eyed and beautiful. The truth is irrelevant since we can't see each other.

You are right...that isn't a name that I would have thought of...since at least around here....you don't hear it often.

I love it though. And, I think it suits you well. You, Shaney, are a unique individual...and carry a love in your heart like very few others that I have ever met.

Love ya girl...

Mich

January 24, 2008
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Hi Ladies,

Mich....lol...I'm glad to know I'm not the only one that does that...making up names and all. Hell, I've even gone so far as to give you all accents. For instance...I don't know if you remember Revelation? But she was from Ireland and whenever I read her posts....I READ IT WITH AN IRISH ACCENT! In my own head...of course. LOL!

As for my name....I don't mind telling you but at another time...in another thread if it's ok with you. There is a lot of info in this one. I hope you understand.

Shaney,

Yes, I do read through my old threads from time to time. It helps to give me a perspective around where I am compared to where I was. And boy, oh boy...do I see things differently now. God, I tried so hard to make things work with him. Now I couldn't care less. Sounds like progress to me! LOL.
And I do remember that thread with you and D-dog. I am actually surprised at myself (being the drinker that I was) that I reacted the way I did when I saw it. I had just read a thread before that where a woman was looking for help because her husband was drinking. Talk about codependent....I actually felt embarrassed for the site! I felt responsible for that woman's feelings! And now I'm sorry to say....I couldn't even tell you who she was.

Anyway...I'm glad I did. You and D have become very special people to me over the years.

I'm so glad you and M are doing well. Hopefully whatever side effects the medication has will only last a short time.

Thank you for your well wishes about my cousin. Unfortunately he was hit by a tractor trailer on a local highway. Not pretty. He was one of the good ones too. Not that anyone deserves to go that way...or to go so young but it just seems so sad. Such a waste.

And Snow. I don't know what to say about him other than.... the gloves are coming off. I've had just about enough of his shit and getting rightly tired of him taking my kindness for weakness. If he keeps it up he will see a side of me that I can guarentee he isn't going to like. I don't want it to come to that. I never wanted it to. But he's going to learn with a quickness the difference between the Lolli that loved and cared about him the one that has become indifferent. And shame on him if he allows that to happen.

Why do people have to push it to that point I wonder?

January 24, 2008
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Hello ladies!

Shaney, I love your place.

I especially love that Lolli and Mich are here, too.

And everyone else...

Mich, guess what my name is? What do I look like and what type of accent do I have?

Lolli, I picture this little petite blond with a Rhode Island accent.

Am I right?

Love you ladies,

Isis

January 24, 2008
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ISIS...

Hey love...good to see you....

Lets see...to me, I think of you as a Susan, about 5' 7", medium build, with that east coast accent....

How close was I??

:o)

Other than that, I know you are a nurse, (in a doctors office? Hospital?) I would guess medium build, dishwater blonde hair...just past your shoulders. BEAUTIFUL...just as your personality would have me to believe....

January 24, 2008
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(((Isis)))),

You WERE correct...until I dyed my hair brunette that is. Howeva, afta givin' it a go for the past few months...I think it's time to get back to my bad...I mean blonde...self :o)

Oh, and I'm not quite as petite as I was BEFORE I quit smoking...but still petite by most standards.

Love back atcha....

Lolli

January 24, 2008
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Lolli...

Somehow, I just knew that you were a little cutie....

((((Lolli))))

January 24, 2008
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I love this!

OK- Mich, you're freaking me out!

Susana, most always called Susie.

5'6"

Medium build

Long brunette hair- reddish/gold hi-lights. Goes to about my boobies.

Lolli! You went Brunette? Come on girl- I can't picture you anything but blond.

January 24, 2008
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"Lolli! You went Brunette? Come on girl- I can't picture you anything but blond."

LOL Isis....neither can I.

No one else seems to be able to get used to it either.

Blonde it is. I'm a natural blonde to begin with but I like it lighter than my natural color so I highlight.

Ok...I gotta go wash my hair now. The more I wash it, the sooner I can be blonde again. It's a sem-I permanent don't ya know :o)

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