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Shame, It's distroying my life
May 21, 2001
10:10 am
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I am trying to identify what is causing me to be so self destructive. My father is a counselor and he says it is shame. I am 36 years old, married, with three children and I feel like they would be better off without me sometimes. I am whimsical beyond belief. I spend our money as quick as I can get it.One day my actions seem appropriate and the next day I wake up thinking "what have I done?" I am setting a terrible example for my children and worry that financial ruin will come.
I work hard all the time whether it be at my job or at home ,I can never really relax. What type of counselor should I seek and does anyone know of someone in the north west part of VA.? Thanks!

May 21, 2001
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Identifying the situation or state of mind does help, but if shame doesn't fit, and you would know if it did, don't own it. Often we find that its instant gratification, vs long term goal oriented behavior, and that is just inmaturity, or the choice to with stand the consequences of our actions. Like today, I hate my pitiful financial situation, and know if I get busy and work hard it will change, however I have made a choice to stay home today, and celebrate quiet and solitude, I know this is at a cost, but I must have figured I can afford it. So, you have chosen to lack responsible financial planning, and true this is what you are teaching your children, but you know how to change, don't you?

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