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November 18, 2008
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Harlequin
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Hello

I want to introduce myself to this group. I have problems with low self-esteem. I need to go to counseling but cant afford it right now. I don't drink or use drugs, I'm not suicidal, bipolar, bpd or anything like that. It's that I have such a sorry history with men. I always pick men that are emotional unavailable. Drunk men, conceited men, married men, everything down the list. When the relationship is over I am an emotional mess, so I decided to stop doing men. I havent been in anykind of relationship for 5 months now and I am finding that wihout a man's attention, I have very low self-esteem. I feel like nothing flat and bland. I get attention when I go in public ~ looks, stares, whistles but with no man in my life paying attention to me I don't know how to act. Im searching for me but I don' know where to start.

November 18, 2008
3:48 pm
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I put this in the wrong section. Sorry.

November 19, 2008
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Hi Harlequin,

You found a good place to start. Use this site to express the feelings your holding on to. Before you know it others will be responding back to you.

I think it is a good idea, to take sometime and work on you. Maybe you can check in to some support groups. They are free. CODA(Codependace Aynmouns)or Celebrate Recovery are groups that are free. Goggle the next for there websites. Your not alone, and it is ok to feel what you are feeling. Keeping searching for the answers, and invest sometime in yourself your worth it.

TB

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