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My third husband
July 17, 2011
7:46 pm
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ds31
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My third husband says he is unsure if he still wants to be married. I have been unhappy our entire relationship. Is clear that he is not good for me but I still am totally devastated at the thought of losing him. At this point I have accepted that I am co dependent but I don't know what to do from here. I have lost better individual or should I say people who behaved better, so I really don't understand what my problem is.

July 17, 2011
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ds31,

 

Give yourself time to think and analyze whatever decisions you're going to make. I guess it's clear enough if your husband/BF does not want to get married.  Well, at least he's being honest with what he really feels about your relationsip and it will just might have an effect in the future if you both decided to continue and later on find out by either one of you that you are not in love and happy to each other anymore. Can you imagine the consequences?. About having that codependent behavior, it might be best for you to consult a professional counselor/psychologist to identify your symptoms properly. You can find treatment and help about your condition so just focus yourself on that matter first. Sooner or later, you'll be to cope with it smoothly.

 

Wishing you well.Smile

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