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January 7, 2009
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I didn't know rabbit fur was something women wanted anymore!?

Seems bald kitty's are the fashion these days.

Did you know rabbits scream when they're frightened? So don't move too quickly GMun.....ahahaha ( what a visual that is!)
(Uhhhhh...real rabbits scream, it's a fact)

anyhooooo....are you guys trying to increase my sex drive with all this flirtatious talk?

I do much better with imagery...got anything on Youtube?

LMAO!

January 7, 2009
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SD,

Yes...I know the third date rule..well it's more of a guideline than a rule. don't really worry too much these days..my mood radar is balls-on accurate lately. I can usually tell if we're both "feelin" it and I move in in slow steps generally (better to build the tension than shock) so I;d like to think I'm pretty good at makin the ladies not feel pressured..cuz that ain't sexy. The pouncing comes later when you "know."

But lately I;ve been makin a guideline of no kisses on the first meet n greet. I broke it once with MissM but that's cause we'd had awesome phone convo numerous times and then awesome dinner convo and then she shared something very intimate with me and damn if I just couldn't help myself...and wooo...that was divine kissing let me tell you. I think I'm gonna take miss bunny bowling as she mentioned it and I think it'd be fun, we could talk and i think it's conducive to very natural talking and touching.

Msg,

Ha ha..yer in rare form hon. some bald kitties...but most of the Gmans bunnies sport a short 'do. I return the favor and do some manscaping.

Yes..i know that rabbits will scream..it's called the rabbit in distress call and it will attract dogs, cats, coyotes, etc. every spring the cats would find the bunny nests and i would listen for that high pitched wail...and go outside and pry a bunny from the cat. then bring the cat inside.

I don't want to make the rabbit scream in distress....a soft moan? a cryout in delight?...now yer talkin ; ) speaking of which..you ladies ever get/give a low frequency hum during oral? That feels great...not all the time...but here and there...it's wonderful.

Uhh..Miss Flame bought plane tix to come here superbowl weekend. So..looks like i have plans for the superbowl for sure.

January 8, 2009
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Manscaping? I wish more men did that. Senor was the only one that did and he had a special "macheen" for it. he he.He used it on me once- that was hilarious.

Wow, Ms Flame doesn't waste any time, does she? You may soon be doing some juggling, Gman.

Haven't done the hum thing- may give that a try next time I have an opportunity! Any other hot tips?

MsG- OMG that was funny. Silly girl!

Well right on cue.......after the holidays........who makes an appearnce but PD. I sure do know how he operates now.

sd

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Hey!

Manscaping? The sort mentioned is the only kind my "Gmun" does. He has a very nice Zen scape down there.(meaning there's nothin'!just like a bare dune,LOL!)

The only real geographic feature is a monolith appears frequently, and I decide if it's a mirage or real. If i hum it never goes away....ahahaha! I'ld never get anything done if i just worship that damn thing: sing to it, wash it down with scented liquids, and keep giving it offerings.

What's a "short do'"? Isn't it called a landing strip?! There are other names ( some of you will list them I'm sure,hehe)

( how did the sex thread get over here? My outer prude is blocking the wild child within,ugh)

This is a nice distraction tho. I'm in my office, going through paperwork, organizing files, and prepairing for taxes now.yuk

!Anyway (((sd)))..you got any stale cookies left to give PD?HA! ...His perspective is just so "scavengerish" and withholding.

Perhaps doing and giving Nada is what he deserves...there's better distractions now. It's time you get on the recieving line of other things besides the physical. ;0P

Glittered, you seem to be doing just fine. All i have to say is make sure you use butter on the popcorn and don't mistakenly use some scented lube you have on the coffee table. Somehow i sense Stage 2 sex ( in various rooms and on various furniture) with the "flame". That is if you get to the "popcorn" at all.hehe

Okay so back to everyday life around here.......

We've discovered yet another interesting, rare thing nearby. On our morning hike it was confirmed we have a Lone Wolf residing in the conservation area valley across the road ( our place is surrounded by conservation lands that kindof loop around the residential areas). I spotted it before but it was far away, and others who we told tried to sway our sighting toward the coyote or fox conclusion, but I knew better.

Some of our friends just don't get I lived in the bush for quite some time in my tree planting days and i've seen so many foxes, coyotes, all the wildlife around here from my childhood hikes. Animal and plant species aren't something i confuse very easily.

Today we got another closer glimpse and sure enough it's a WOLF! How cool is that!? ( to me, I love those creatures, I'm happy it has found a spot to exist, amongst the mess of humans) ...Don't know if there are others, but this one is huge! with a white chest and ginger coat. It doesn't want anything to do with us and scampered away.

It makes me wonder where it's den is at?

Yes, this is part of how i escape lifes crazyness. I just go all National Geographic and David "Atten_burrowee" ;0)

Be Well!

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MsG: That is very cool about the wolf. I'm envious that you live so close to nature. The only things I have are some tree frogs in the pots on my patio.

Nope, not even stale cookies for PD. Nada.

I don't expect anything from him emotionally either anymore. He has nothing to offer as far as I am concerned. Occasional friendship? On his terms only?

I was talking to my mailcarrier yesterday (she's a lesbian) and told her about Sarge. So she offered to be MY lesbian dating coach- HA!- fighting fire with fire. Sarge has one and now so do I- he he.

I'm ahead of you on the paperwork- did all the books, did my taxes. So today- lazy butt day reading and who knows what else. Have been going to the gym evey other day, and that feels good!

I'm thinking of outings for myself since I have next to nothing to do. I think next week I'll go to the Getty Museum and the week after that walk around the canals in Venice Beach and check out the cool landscapes. And Sarge wants me to keep meeting him for lunch downtown so we can check out dif places around there.

I am hoping though that this doesn't evolve into a "meet for lunch every other week" relationship because that won't cut it for me. He's busy, fine, but I have to think what good it does me to be attracted to someone who doesn't have time.

Anyhow, not going to fret about it too much, just going to plan things without him in mind.

sd

January 8, 2009
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Hi all!

Good to see things are rolling along. A wolf, MsG? How neato is that?

Glittered, you will have her all tongue-tied, I'm sure.

How's the arm, SD? Didn't you say something about a rheumatologist at some point?

H-gal

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Hi H gal!

Wow, your surgery turned into quite another ordeal? Glad you're feeling better though.

Yeah, gotta see the doc tomorrow.

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((((((H-Gal)))))

I hope the surgery was successful, and after you rub all kinds of Vitamin E and amino acid rich sesame oil on that scar you'll be Bikini ready by your spring! Maybe it won't be a string bikini but whatevah!
How are you doing BTW? Don't be proud! I bet you have some good support there anyway, but lots of us care here!

I dunno us aging she wolves may need to start a new thread for what? "Aged She Wolves Howlin', WOoooooo!"..er somethin. ( note I choose wolves cause I'm not much of a cat or bunny person, But we can all get along in this Zoo?)

Yea..The wolf stirs up all kinds of emotions for me. They are so intelligent, mysterious and gentle yet so persecuted ( aren't all wild predators?) I wonder about this lone wolf nearby tho..it's kindof sad. Where's the pack? Is there one? How did he/she get here?

I wonder if glittered would feel comfy in a thread with us aging divas, having a place for our issues?

Shoot! Scrap that idea! Where's my Hair dye and collagen infused lip gloss! Maybe i should get an herbal wrap.ahahahaaaHA!

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ha ha..scented lube...does vick's vap-o-rub count? j/k

hot tips...well the humming thing....kinda discovered by accident for me..others seem to be familiar with it..but someone was "mmmming" like you would eating something really yummy...and it felt awesome...and it works on both partners...this way yer not actually humming a song like the star spangled banner..lol..you just sound like your really enjoying giving oral...and that's in and of itself very sexy too.

a hot tip? I surprised a lover with hot tea once...doing oral..and i reached down and took a mouthful of hot tea...held it in my mouth and resumed...she liked that quite a bit (well one did..another didn't..anyway). Then there's ice of course...but most folks know that one.

what's fun is to blindfold yer lover and then use alternating things...like headhair...silk...fingernail..feathers...rubber whip...lol...try it...it's a blast. roam around and find those sensitive areas. but you have to have trust..trust is a must...and no peeking! lol. ; )
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Ohhhhh, glittered: Sounds GOOD!

I've got a ways to go with Sarge I think til he relaxes enough to do stuff like that but I'd like to try the blindfold on him, and play. I have lots and lots of peacock feathers.........and several dif massage oils......

One day when we were flirting back and forth by email I said something about I should be careful saying what I was saying to a man who has handcuffs........and he said he'd never done that, so I mentioned scarves work just as well.........

I think he's a bit innocent sometimes..........gonna have to change that........

he he

I don't know for sure what you're talking about with ice.......

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January 10, 2009
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G man, how was the date??? Huh, huh, huh?

I went round and round with PD the last few days and I can NOT take his crazymaking mind games any more!

I finally told him to leave me the FUCK alone and crawl back under the rock he crawled out from under. Think I was pissed?

He is so predictable, started playing STOOPID games and then was trying to get his supply of compliments and adoration- which I wasn't about to give because it ain't there anymore. The well's gone dry.

He was hinting around trying to find out if I am seeing someone, I wouldn't tell him, NONE of his business.But I am sure he knows (reading here, reading on my computer).

So then he writes back wishing me well and hope it all works out and that he won't contact me anymore. I hope to GAWD he doesn't! Why does he think he can disappear for months and then insert himself back into my life?

He sure saps the energy right out of me, he's emotionally draining, and having the least bit of interaction with him is exhausting. 'Nuff of that.

Went to the rhuematologist yesterday hoping to find out what the HELL is wrong with me. He kept talking about my shoulder and I told him I wasn't there for that, I wanted to know whats wrong with my arms and legs when I get these pain episodes and can't move. So, I came home with no answers and was super depressed yesterday. He took some more blood tests and wants to compare with my last blood tests, and have me come back in 6 weeks. I just want to know whats wrong with me and how the hell can I conduct my life when I don't know from one day to the next if I can even walk? My right leg has been hurting for two days so I've been loading up on Motrin but I don't want to live like this anymore.

Doc said it could possibly be a muscle virus (I've never heard of that) so I guess my mission today is to see what I can find on the internet and try and heal myself- WTF?

MsG: One of my classes in college was Wildlife Management and one of the first films we saw was about wolves. It was fascinating. Of course the wolf gets blames for lots of negative stuff (attacking herds, cattle etc) but the film concentrated on the good things wolves do- population control of other wildlife, the family system, how they don't waste their kills etc. So, unfortuneately the wolf gets a bad rap and is hunted and killed when it really isn't the enemy, and is beneficial to the balance of the ecosystem. SO cool you have one to watch.

sd

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Ladies.

awesome MsG..i love wolves. always have. Had a poster of one when i was in third grade even. I've never seen one. Coyotes..foxes..bears sure..but never a wolf. awesome!

My date? well..we went bowling..weee...she's got a lovely tiny bottom ; ) and she likes to tastefully highlight her twin girls too. she was checking mt out too,,because i said something about me concentrating on my bowling form and she said "it looked really good to me" and i knew what she meant. later I joked about wagering on the outcome of the game with kisses..i said 'I know...If I win, you kiss me, and if you win, I'll kiss you." followed with a smile and laugh. hee hee i love that kind of stuff.

After bowling we went to the bar and shared some beers and convo...decided to go get something to eat...so i walked her to her car...and kissed her there briefly as it felt right...then she pulled away after about 30 seconds of a good kiss...but she liked it i felt. so then to the restaurant...and after we ate...some more kissing...which she enjoyed. she got all charged u and flustered..it was cute. she said you ARE a good kisser (we talked about kissing earlier) and so i returned the compliment. But jeez..i was just getting started..she pulled away just as I was starting to fully grow..lol..ah well..I respect that though. safer that way and i guess she doesn't want t lead me on too much. she might not be aware of the 3rd date rule SD..LOL...I won't press it...well...not a "hard" press...well..a hard press of sorts,,but not forceful..lol. I've noticed one thing..if I'm making out and the woman feels my erection, usually she gets really turned on. and that's awesome. it's not unlike...well..nevermind..LOL...god..I'm horny today.

peace!
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Oh..and SD....yer kidding right?

next time you give oral to a guy, put an ice cube in your mouth.....then take it out...the hot and cold extremes are exciting to some. warm mouth...then ice cube...then warm mouth...then cold cube.

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Well, glittered, thats a new one on me!

Hopefully I'll get to try that soon (tommorrow night) wink wink.

Sarge is coming over for...din din.

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Oh..and SD

you can hold the cube in your hand and strategically drop cold water drip bombs onto your lover too...drop a couple in the navel..then swoop in with a warm tongue. I like to do that to the kitty..I'd explain...but hee hee...nevermind. awesome when blindfolded. ; )

Oh just get an ice bucket and explore already! I'm thinking with your design talents you'll have a feng shui ice garden erected on sarge in no time and he'll be the spouting fountain in short order ; )

I had a woman give me oral with split peach halves once...interesting..to imagine it - she used her hands to hold the peach halves for the follow-thru. I used chocolate syrup on MissM once...lol..too chocolatey for my liking..i should've tried honey instead.

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Haaaaaaaaaa, glittered, considering what I just did, this cracked me up!

Lets just say..........Sarge had a nice night (and so did I).

After dinner, he went in the bathroom and came out completely naked- what a crack up. No mystery as to what was for dessert.........

sd

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(((sd)))
Your reumatoidal problems just aren't going away, and without any real knowledge about your true medical history and diet here's my take.

Eliminate anything and everything artificial from your diet. Artificial elements in our foods don't bind with our cellular makeup, weakens our immun systems and alter cellular process's. Artificial colours, foods, and materials lowers our immunity, mess with our endchrine systems/hormones and cause various illness's. That goes for processed food ( white bread, reconstituted juices, maybe dairy products and meats that are from cows that are on hormone or antibiotics.buy organic meats) Food that has elelments taken out mean we don't get the full nutritional factors.

Being really strict about artificial foods and additives doesn't have to be the case, but the more we imbibe of these materials, the harder it is for our bodies to cleanse and stay healthy.

Nature is perfect the way it is, and the only reason for artificial or processed food is for commerce. It's big business.

Artificial sweetener is dangerous. It causes MS (neurological problems) type symptoms in some women and cancers. This is what has been found so far. It's better to use sugar, honey or maple syrup.

Any type of implant that contains plastics upset the immune system and cause lupus type symptoms in women. Joint problems, swelling, the circulatory and lymphatic systems can be damaged. Again the auto-immune systems break down. This is what my mother suffers from due to 2 knee implants..the surgeons probably cut her lymph nodes in her lower legs also , which has caused her Lymphedema...my Mom also has "fibro-myalgia", arthritic symptoms..right...side effects from implants. She started getting arthritic symptoms in her forties. My grandmother had reumatic disease but only when she reached her seventies, due to age and growing up with a bad diet.

In my view mom got butchered and the surgeons put something inside that is a temporary fix. She hits the 10 year mark and she starts getting all these illness's? Her health has never been right after those surgeries.

I don't understand why the medical industry has to use petroleum based plastics....why not bio plastics, made from plants? They don't mess with peoples hormones and immune system like petroleum based products but they break down faster.

If most fo the research $$ go into products that cater to the petroleum and heavy metal industry then the consumer hasn't much of a choice but to refuse treatment.

Oh yea, it's always a big mystery!! with the medical establishment and they just scramble to prescribe a new drug or perform another surgery.

I beleive they are just poisoning us, and going back to holistic medicine is the answer...but that means the whole economic structure that has been created by modern medicine will colapse....so it is up to the individual to see the truth and take control of thier own lives.

It sucks that holistic doctors aren't recognized by insurance co's but are they?Obviously! they threaten this whole empire!

If i were you I would research Homeopathic sources: look at your history and diet then go from there. If you can get into a homepathic clinic it's worth a try.

I hope you can get to the bottom of your health problems and maybe what i say helps a bit.

Anyway. There was some snow this weekend and I worked through the early Morning ( 3-11 am)...that threw me off, and I missed curling.

My son helped then had his "friend" by for dinner on Sunday. She's a full out punk with Black shoulder length hair, and shades of Blue streaks through it. She has 3 peircings in her lips, which consist of some spikes and a ring, and does an immacualte makeup job, with pin brows and pancake, with black eyliner and bluish shadow. Not too heavy and she actually looks great! She's very shy and sweet. Kindof a "pink" punk...not all gothy, but HA!

I'm getting all curious and nosey about what he's really up to.It's almost like an episode of "Family Jewels" but we have no jewels!LOL

The football playoffs are happening and MrD's team, all his friends teams are in the finals...next weekend we're all going to a "new" friends for superbowl ( is it superbowl? I dunno, I'm totally ignorant to this sort of thing).The persons house we're going to is really a collegue of our friends who we see quite a bit...It's all fine and dandy but they're all alcoholics.

WTH???! People are people but i Curl with these people, hanging out off time is another matter. The host is obese, a Beeraholic, and very loud...UGH!
This isn't my lifestyle....so it will be interesting. That's putting it mildly.

I'm going to try and be open about this, go to their house and see what happens.
For the most part this guy is ok, but it's a gathering through association type thing for me.

I think I'm a culture snob.... I mean Karen Cane and Pierre Burton type culture snob, NOT Bob and Doug McKenzie for me. ( i like the skits, the comedians mind you ( Second City and Edith Prickley...ahahaha!!) but this is art immitating life)

Maybe I'm just somewhere in between!LOL

If ya don't know what I mean watch this.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v.....kkYhCX1uqQ

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excuse the spelling...my keyboard needs new batteries...and i didn't spellcheck.
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Hiya, MsG!

I remember you writing about the artificial sweeteners before and I have quit using them. I used to only use it on cereal and iced tea but now I use sugar instead. If they are related to neurological problems then I need to stay away from that.

I have been eating very healthy ('cept for all the cookies at Xmas) and keeping up with my exercise regimen. Slowly I'm losing the weight that I put on last fall due to my shoulder problem. Plus I have motivation to try and look better and feel better about how I look- due to the hot new guy in my life that looks like he's gonna be staying around. (Dang, he's cute as can be- looks AND personality wise- I could just eat him up!)

The doc I went to last week at least knew about CJD and he said he diagnosed a case when he was a resident. I keep throwing that out to the docs to make sure they are aware of it being something that happened in my family. The doc I saw in Nov had never even heard of it- and THAT did not give me confidence.

I've looked up rhuematoid arthritis and there are certain foods recommended to help with it, so I eat some every now and then ( like walnuts and celery- ick, I don't really like celery). He also said to take fish oil and flax seed oil but I already do that.

So I just don't know, just wait for the next set of blood test results I guess.

No implants of any kind, its all the natural me- except for some cavities that have been filled.

Yeah, you have to wonder about the health field and the things they use as treatment and what the long term affects are. I just think some of these docs and their procedures are rather callous and they don't make you aware of everything so that you can make good choices for yourself.

At least you're branching out socially but you can always say no. You never know who may be there as a new friend or biz contact. And even if they're not your type? I think in sports, expecially team sports, it will help with the overall game if the people (team) know each other a little better. More cooperation, dif attitude, comraderie, etc.

When I used to sail oftentimes there would be little get togethers before or after a practice or race, just seemed to help. And then of course there was all the drinking at the yacht club afterwards, or sometimes we'd sail to Catalina for a weekend for pleasure. Helps to form a much better overall team in the long run.

I've been initiating some social things too- since I have nothing to do these days- lunches with friends I haven't seen in a while, outings etc. And little excursions to keep me busy- off to the Getty Museum today and then I'm going to stop on the way home at a Meditteranean restaurant I've been wanting to try. Just trying to make good use of my "vacation".

Is this your son's first girlfriend?

sd

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Hi ((sd))

Looks like you are doing the best ya can, taking control. I know how it feels having "mysterious" medical problems ( memories of my eye problems then kidneys..but that's all passed.What next though?! I'm no young thang anymore!hehe)
Sarg does sound like a very good catch. All the things you write about his life: work, relationships, his X wife.He doesn't seem to carry anger or act out that way. It's rare to find a man who can accept his marital breakdown like he has.

He definitely can inspire you and keep you on your toes. That's fantastic!

Patience I guess.

I was reading about PD too...that guy is an N...u must know that, and I'm glad your feeling as though it's time to put him on ignore...Nobody needs to have someone around who keeps the abandonment issues fresh and raw...UGH!

My sister does that for me, and i hate feeling this way. Still no word from her. It doesn't help that my niece has a wedding coming up and I feel they are leaving me out. It wouldn't bother me if i wasn't asked to do the flowers in the first place.
Honestly I have done absolutely nothing to make them act this way. Every time i see them i don't complain much, just joke around a bit, and help prepare food.

Except for the accident at Xmas but WTF?

MrD is taking in some overtime at work for extra cash.Being aware he needs to pick up the slack a bit here.
We went for our hike this morn and i dropped my cell phone in the snow! ( missed my inner pocket! Of course this is due to how i wake up..didn't feel too good this morn.and the snow was a bit deep to trudge through.

Can you imagine? A huge field with fresh snow..luckily I remembered where i glanced at it for the time, and i went back and found it....WHEW!

It's been snowing all morning lightly and temps are near zero celsius ( 32 F), but a cold front is moving in with record lows.It will be Minus 15 celsius by tonight.

These weather fluctuations make doing snow removal harder...I guess I'm just pissed because of loosing my phone, hiking back out there, then my driveway became a slippery mess and i got stuck, had to fix that problem before i go out to work and it all freezes over ( the temps rising turns it into slippery slush, plus the plows throw it all on our driveway)...it's just a frikken headache! and D went to work)

I'm already tired so I'm waiting for my son to come home. I hop[e he doesn't gripe too much cause i will just BLOW!

As for him. He says this is not his GF ( so does that mean they're not doing it?).They're just "friends. He seems to avoid intimate relationships but I haven't asked him right out.. "are you having sex?" ...maybe I'll ask him tonight? Just to remind him I'm not ready to be a grandmother, or him a father, so put on the glove!!

He does have a lot of girls who seem to like him, but he's kindof the nice guy. Better than being a horn dog. I guess I did something right! ;0)

Gawd! You're so lucky to just have yourself to think about.

There are days where I just want to release. It sounds bad but I just never seem to get the time or opportunity to recharge. Just tidbits, but nothing really significant.

Ok I'll stop complaining now.
Something good has to happen in the next few days or i just may not appear here for a while.
I hate wallowing, or not having anything good to say.

Ah Well.The money I make in the next 6 hours will help. THERE! DAh MOOLAH!hehe

Be Well!

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Hey, MsG, you can complain all you want as far as I am concerned. I think it helps to get the icky stuff out, somehow dissipate it.

Yes, indeedy I think its time for "the talk" with your son. He's at the age where he just may want to be fruitful and multiply- and its wise of you to tell him the basic facts that can result from a few minutes of fun, AND who is going to be responsible if he should do that.

YAY for MrD working overtime. Hope he keeps it up. Shoot, if its available he should take advantage of that opportunity, especially with the sucky economy where many employers are cutting hours and number of employees.

Well, Wowza, I just got a call for an appt- yeeha! Just a small job but I think it will be a definite go AND its with this cutie patootie contractor that I worked with once last year. ANYTHING will help at this point.

Yeah, Sarge IS an awesome guy. When he came over Sunday he brought a book- its a self help book with worksheets and he said maybe we could go thru it together. So I like that he's interested in self improvement type stuff and I don't think he really has anyone to bounce thoughts and ideas off of. I was pretty impressed that he is thinking about spending time with me doing things like that. He's just so sweet and open and honest and romantic and smart and sensitive and compromising and accomodating and thoughtful and funny - pitter pat, pitter pat. And then there's that body of his- OMG.

Hate to tell ya, MsG but its been in the mid 80's here the last couple of days. It was frickin' hot at the Getty today with all that white marble and the reflection. Its been in the 50's at night (brrrrr....)so I think I may do some sunbathing tomorrow.......ya need to head south for the winter, girlfriend!

Well, I just ate my awesome Mediterranean lunch and think its nap time for busy busy me.......

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HEY! I had that talk with my son when he was about 14 ( somewhere around there)....yAH! about condoms but mostly about not getting into sex too early...AND! that girls are very aggressive. They could just hop on his lap and Bingo ( he had one who was giving him hickeys when he was 15...I told him if he has to throw her off to put a rubber on do it!

Better to toss her then have an accident that will be around all your life.

I think it's me that needs the brush up talk more than him!I just worry. Not because of him, but girls nowadays are just too sexually intense.

I had to drag him out to work tonight and the bugger etched a large erect penis in the snow on the road.Sometimes he forgets he's with his mother, or that was his way of saying "this sucks".I dunno. What a goofball!

The Getty .....I'm jealous. Maybe it's time to take a trip across the border to visit the Albright Knox Gallery...I promised I wouldn't go to the States until Bush was out. It's been a loooooooooong time.

BTW.You sound really good lately. Sarg is putting some bounce in yer step. Just Mahvelous!:0)

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Tick tock tick tock, just a few more days and it will be safe for ya to set foot in the U.S. again- he he.

Monday is Martin Luther King Day and Tuesday is Obama Day- busy week!

A large erect penis in the road? AH, hahahahaha. Thats hilarious!! What do you think he's trying to tell ya? hahahahaha. At least its not a sculpture/ snow man!! Now there's a thought.. a giant snow penis and a couple of snow balls!

Yeah, I like having Sarge around, most definitely. BUT he's mostly unavailable. I sure do like him LOTS and LOTS and love every second I get to spend with him. I think the feeling is mutual, in fact he wrote that our last evening together was "magical". Hmmm......sigh and pitterpat!

BTW, in a previous post I referred to the Dangerous Man book- and most don't understand unless they've read the book but its about men who are dangerous emotionally- and being unavailable is just one type. Doesn't mean they are physically dangerous, just lots of problems relationship wise and the book is about picking healthy and AVAILABLE partners. Its a great book and a must read for anyone who is even thinking about dating, imho.

Now, having said that, I'm meeting someone else tonight! He's been around for awhile but I haven't really followed up. Going to have Chinese food and watch the Laker Game and American Idol. He seems very very nice, cute (blonde hair and mustache), 6' tall, has a house, has his own computer biz, likes to travel in Europe, 1 year younger than me.

And yeah, I've thought for a long time PD is an N- and his repetive N behaviors kept getting more and more annoying. He was very difficult to try and keep things going on even a friends basis. So........HIS loss!

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New one is MEH, Bleh and Ick.

Of course he wants to get together again, but I sure don't. Once was one too many times.

hee hee, dating is NOT fun.

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Even if i got to the point i wanted to date again ( end things) I don't think I'm a good catch right now....Seems I'm back in rescue mode and I'm not good at faking, or prostituting myself to lure a man in.

My Mom is sicker now, and My Dad is laying guilt trips on me.

So..Last snow storm I went out and half the properties I'm subbing were done. I'm pissed! If it's a lighter snowfall his guys jump on my properties to get more hours. When i was out there i phoned and he didn't answer. I let it go and came back to my territory. This morn the contracter called ( there wasn't enough snow where i was to go to my properties) and asked me to go out.so I told him about last time....he didn't know.
I need the money, but driving out there to make $ 100 bucks is insane. I know his guys will screw me up..he can't control his crew, so WTF do I do? He said he'ld call the next snow ( Our snowfall ratios are different, so this is standard)

I just have to hold my tongue...the Plan: next snowfall I'll go out there and contact him to meet at his shop when I'm done ( also to pick up my check). I want to look around, scope the situation. I'm going to take my pictures and ask him about warm weather subbing. If he has nothing for me I know he's using me now, and I'm going to quit.

Running to his properties first keep my yearly customers waiting a few hours longer.The risks are beginning to outwiegh the benefits.

It's gotten so cut throat competitive out there, people scrambling for work and migrating to new jobs.... this is what I have to deal with. He takes care of his staff first, I'm a sub, and they all know my properties ( they do them in the spring/summer/fall) so for his guys to get more hours they go around my places without him knowing. If I Haven't done them yet i get screwed.

Contractor told me I'm really fast and he's pleased. But how the heck do I know if he's placating me, Keeping me on the hook as a backup?
On top of that a few of my customers are really late paying me. It's hard enough going into bare bones mode in the winter...whatever! I'm stuck in this now and have to plan to get out next winter.I'm not doing this anymore! I am so fed up!

On top of this we found out a friend died this weekend. A lifelong friend of MrD's.
The guy was seen at his place last Thursday, then 5 days lapsed, people calling, no answers, this guys team is in the finals with MrD's.
D called friends brother inquiring, said he was going to friends place after work to check. When he got there the brother was there, and 2 other friends ( people that see him more frequently then D...felt guilty i guess?) and said he found the guy dead, sitting up on his couch...rigamoretis, 5 F'n days diceased in his apt! and nobody thought to go there?
We had him over for football, came to see our house, on Sunday, January 4th, and he hasn't been well....It's just so sad.

He just turned 50...It was probably a massive coronary ( it runs in the family) We haven't gotten the details or info yet.

This man introduced D and I, was our matchmaker...!!

D was so upset. Many factors. The friend was on heavy meds for a long time, chain smoked, had a heart of gold and many we're using him. D was trying to protect him but we began to detach because of this guys addiction issues and his new friends.

Yea, processing that now. Another funeral to go to.

I'm going to take abreak from here til????........I need to deal with a few things at home and I am just not getting better ;0(.

I may just read some of the threads that inspire and help me, but honestly, How can I inspire or be a positive force the way I am now?
I am trying so hard, but there's just too much SHIT around me I am getting burried in it.

Love you guys.....When i swing back up I'll post.
Be Well!

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