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Let Him Go...A great poem by unknown..
July 8, 2008
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There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell YOU this! When people can walk away from you : Let them walk: I don't want you try to talk another person into staying with you, LOVING you, calling you, caring about you,coming to see you, staying ATTACHED to you. I mean HANG UP THE PHONE. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your DESTINY is NEVER tied to anybody that left...>> The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us.<<< For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us.<<{1 john 2:19} people leave you because they are not joined to you.> And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means their part in the story is OVER.> And you've got to know when people's part in your story is OVER so you don't keep TRYING TO RAISE THE DEAD<< You've got to know when it DEAD.<<< You've got to know when it's OVER.Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of Good-Bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in Good-Bye. It's not that I'm HATEFUL, it's that I'm faithful, & I know whatever GOD means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes to much sweat I don't need it.>>Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you & was never intended for your life, then you need to>>>LET IT GO<<< IF YOU ARE HOLDING ON TO PAST HURTS & PAINS..let it go!!! If someone can't treat you right,love you back,and see your worth,...LET IT GO!! If someone has angered you..LET IT GO!! If you are holding on to some thoughts of eveil & revenge..LET IT GO..If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction..LET IT GO..If you holding on to job that no longer meets your needs or talents..LET IT GO!! >>If you have a bad attitude..LET IT GO!!! If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself & GOD is saying"TAKE YOUR HANDS OFF OF IT," THEN YOU NEED TO..LET IT GO!!>> Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2008!!! LET IT GO!! Get right or get left think about it, & then LET IT GO!!!! "The Battle is the Lord's!"

July 8, 2008
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I'm having a very hard time it's been 13 days of no contact w/an alcoholic..I just thought this was would do me good. It says things to me that are soemtimes hard to do..LIKE LETTING GO...but, I know that it is best for me to let this 10year relationship go..it's just real hard right now..I'm crying..Wishing for peace & strength thanks for listening...

July 8, 2008
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Wow lucy, thank you for this. It's great.

The battle is the Lord's indeed.

I have never heard that before.

Stay strong. Pray, do something physical, get his stuff out. Watch a funny youtube video.

Congratulations and thank you for sharing that.

July 8, 2008
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Great Poem. Thank you for sharing. I need all the strength I can get to let my alcoholic husband go.

July 9, 2008
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Lucyndesi,

This speech has gotten me thru many a bad day. T.D. Jakes gave this sermon circa January 2008. Glad to hear others are enjoying! Thanks for sharing with others.

July 9, 2008
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That was great -- exactly what I needed to read!

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July 10, 2008
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thank you so much. I am having a terrible time letting go of a 16 yr marriage. I can't seem to snap out of it. my kids NEED me to "let him go"

July 10, 2008
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Yes, I had to let a husband go, several boyfriends go, and most recently, a man who was only in my life a couple of months. All of them had to go.

None of them could handle the responsibilities of being in a relationship with me, so they lost their positions, they were fired. Granted, some of them may have already quit before being fired, but I made it official.

They all lacked the capacity to appreciate how truly wonderful I am. They could not handle being genuine, kind, giving, or loving. What else could I do?

They had to be let go.

Some were kept on too long, not pulling their weight, trying to get by with empty promises.

I can't run my business like that. I need to thrive, prosper, grow. My self esteem is paramount. I'm learning to protect it.

Don't anyone ask me for references for these men. I have nothing to say about them anymore. It's not about them. It's about me.

Mary

July 10, 2008
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I'm I have this site & all your wonderful feed back..tomorrow is day 14 of "NO CONTACT" & yes it is hard if I think of the goods things..But, I must look not at which I think I've lost but, What I will gain by letting go of this TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS ALCOHOLIC MAN. I can not change him but, I can change myself!! lucy&desi

July 15, 2008
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Thanks Mary!

July 17, 2008
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Letting someone go is for me very difficult especially when for me there is unfinished business'

I can and will move on and leave well enough alone yet because of my co-dependency issues I often contruct in my head what I would still like to say to them.

When we are no longer involved with someone, regardless of their pain and how they acted it out with us some of us still care deeply for them. Yes letting them go and move on yet still thinking of them

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