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Ladeska, I need a slap in the head
October 27, 2001
7:57 pm
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And I know you're just the person to do it too. I know it sounds stupid, but when I read some of your responses, I get a little irritated, but on the other hand, I go away alot of the time feeling, I'm not sure what the word is I'm looking for, maybe renewed??I remember that I don't have to put up with some guys s***. I haven't really posted my story, because I already know what I need to do. It's just doing it that is the problem. I dated someone for 5 years and we were suppose to get married, but about 3 yrs into it I met someone I work with, and we ended up having an affair for the last 2 years. He is married, and has children. I let myself get sucked in. I believed his s*** and I ended up leaving my boyfriend for him. By the time I had left my boyfriend, he had already been seperated from his wife. After she served him with divorce papers, he supposedly panicked, and went back to her after a year of being seperated. He still calls every day, telling me the usual bull. "I love you" " You're the one I want to be with". "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." " No one makes me feel the way you do" "I want to marry you and have children with you" Blah Blah, f'n Blah. But everytime he calls I get sucked back in. I tell him I'm not going to see him, and by the end of the conversation, I end up agreeing to see him. I know I shouldn't even talk to him, but I am just really confused. I go back and forth. One day I want to be with him, the next I think about my ex. And then when I think I have everything figured out, and that I really want to be with my ex, (and you're going to love this) he is dating some girl who is half my age, LITERALLY. I guess I deserved that one. Now that I've been rambling, I guess what I really want from you is to tell me how stupid and wrong I am. I have been offended by some of things you say, almost like you are pretty much one sided, but like I said earlier, it makes me feel better, or maybe stronger. I guess it wouldn't bother me if I didn't think that alot of what you say is true. Truthfully, I am very confused about a lot of things in my life right now, And I really want to move on, I just don't know how. I think it was you who mentioned on another thread that someone in this situation must like being in this situation, otherwise they would get off the train. Well, I REALLY don't like this ride, I just don't know how to get off. I suppose the answer is JUMP, but I think if I just had a little push, it would help.

November 13, 2001
10:15 pm
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But if you had a push it wouldn't be the STEP YOU ttook that made the difference inyour life would it.

Take the step or jump be brave (hard)
You can do it.

You only get one ride on the merry go round of life so don't worry about failure....use them to learn.

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