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Just sex or is it more? part 2 :o)
August 23, 2006
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Gup: That was a bit wierd when that happened. I was trying to post to both of you- and I was pretty sure what was going on- but tried to be objective as if that wasn't what was going on. I hope I didn't flop or offend. I think S learned something from your beserkeness though, obviously. Just keep being you!!

Here's something from POF that I found funny (but dirty). The forums there are interesting, I think.

"the lady said to the man do ya like to 69 ? the man said i dont know what is it? she says stick your head down between my legs and as he goes down between her legs she rips one off. The man quickly comes up an states Dam I cant do that 68 more times" hahahaha

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August 23, 2006
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sd-are u saying u knew what i was doing??????? 🙂 why didn't u give Me a lecture then????? could of used one.........

August 23, 2006
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sd-i didn't mean that in a bad way. hope u know that. 🙂

the funny thing is, almost from the beginning when u started talking about senor, i started telling S that he was like my ex. He wanted me to tell u but i was to unsure of myself to do it. and i didn't want to hurt u.

August 23, 2006
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I gotta go drop off my car at the shop, but wanted to say to all my friends.

(((Guppy)))

My heart just aches for you...and although I have so much more to say..but I don't have the time until tonight..EVERY GUY IS DIFFERENT..in every was shape and form. I haven't met any two that were the same. body or in bed. So, the chances of you having as bad of an experience as you did with the ex-h are in my opinion..very slim. I agree so much with SD..about the oral sex..and just everything..she said..and light and Chinita..

Your ex-h was an ASS..and he will never have what you could someday have with someone..because of his lack of sensitivity..and communication with someone he was supposed to love.

You could very well have the greatest sex ever with someone else..I would say..the problems with sex in that marriage..were HIS and HIS alone!!!!!! What a dumbass!! Not yours!!

Love ya..honey..you really deserve to be with someone..who realizes what they have and the great sex that you deserve, together..as a couple..:)

Love Soul

August 23, 2006
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thank you ((chinita)) ((light)) and ((sd)) for being willing to talk to me about this. it's a relief to spill it.

August 23, 2006
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nice typos SOUl..

I wanted to sae "HI" to all my friends.

and every "way" shape and form. not was...duh..soul

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and to ((soul)) i love u all for your input.

August 23, 2006
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Oh..and Sd...

LOL...LOL..at the visual..of El stupido..doing it like Speedy Gonzalez...lol...just cracked me up...what an idiot!!!!!

August 23, 2006
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Soul; Whatever you're visualizing is probably right!!! Good grief- probably could have seen smoke from all of that- like rubbing 2 sticks together- but still didn't heat up enough to light my fire! One night he was sweating up a storm with all of that and I just thought "Oh come on- lets get this over with"

gup: Thanks for the comments. But please say whatever you think anytime- thats what this is all about. But stupid me- I always have to find out for myself. At least I ended it now, instead of wanting him back, etc. I did have fun out on the boat though- at least that part was good. And yeah- your secret was out- I figured out what was up. Stories were too similar.

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August 24, 2006
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guppy,

I think that there is merit to what S wants - and I think in the long run, it may be a HUGE benefit for you, because you know he's not into you for sex, but also will give you time to get comfortable with yourself again, as well as TRUST him.

And honestly, I think S is a pretty great guy, and that when you do finally cross that bridge, it's not going to be the same experience you had with your ex.....and oh boy, will it be special cuz you waited.

I would recommend that you be honest with yourself, AND WITH S, when these feelings come up. It's easy to run for the hills, but it doesn't accomplish anything. Facing these fears is the only way to heal them....I think you know this, but it's a gentle reminder....both of you are healing your own wounds right now, and I would hate to see you guys add more to the pile.

honesty and communication - if you learn nothing else, you still got something good.

August 24, 2006
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SD- Speedy Gonazalez he-he-heheheehe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gup- I agree that this waiting is a benefit to you. It will not be the same exerience and this gives you time to build up your own self-esteem and build trust with S. You seem like such a sweetie.

Soul: how ya doin, Girly? Anything new?

Chinita: Where ya at?? I didn' talk to X last night, I just made myself really busy. Now I am excited to talk to him a bit. Sometimes I just need to step back and try to see the big picture. I guess my only concern now is that he IS one of those guys that reels a girl in quick, marrys her and then shows his true colors. So, I guess the only way I can tell if that is so is to give him lots and lots of time and those true colors will show eventually. And, No chance I am marrying anyone, anytime soon. So, I think I will ask him to come over friday night after Jordan goes to bed, spend a little more time and see what I think. J tried to message me last night, but I was busy. I don't really know what to say to the guy. Hope your doin good China Girl. Missed ya last night.

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August 24, 2006
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Morning..ladies,

I went out and had a drink with my friend last night. We stayed up until like 1am..and I got up at 6am. This is the friend who knows Mr 22. We had a great time. We haven't gone out for months. It was fun. We came back and talked to my pof guys. It was fun. I am just more comfortable with one of them..but the other IM'd me while talking to the other. WHat do you do? Talk to both at the same time? It just didn't seem right. But, my girlfriend and I were just playin' about this funny picture of her and I..we put it up..for them to see. So, there was joking about a threesome. JUST A JOKE! But, the one guy..started giving way to much detail about a threesome he'd had..(the one who gamble) and to be perfectly honest..it was a total turn off. THe other guy..he's just PLAIN fun..and we talked to him until late. I figure the other guy knew I was still on..so, he's probably wondering who I was talking to. I don't like that..about POF..that they know if you're on there. I told him I was going to sleep...but didn't. Oh well! I ain't married to him! lol...

Going to see B this morning. His other son was supposed to go..and didn't want to. B is going to be crushed. But, we can't force him to see his dad in jail..if he doesn't want to. 🙁

I've got to catch up on everyone..

You would never beleve how many emails..from pof..I've gotten..I'd say..at least 80?? Mostly gross guys though. About 5 or so good ones.

GOt to get in the shower..

Hi Sd..and Guppy and Light and CHina..oh..and Rising...hope everyone is good today..be back to talk later.

Love Soul

August 24, 2006
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Hi Soul: Sounds like your having fun and getting back on your feet again. I don't know about the gambler guy ( alky,addict,gambling,threesomes?) not so good! Thats just not what you are looking for is it??

The other one sounds cool. 80 e-mails! You go girl. You're such a hottie! where else can you get approached by 80 guys in a week right?

Are you gonna meet any of these guys?

This is so fun!

Light

August 24, 2006
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Light..

I'm afraid to..really am so very afraid..to meet anyone. It took a lot to take that step away from B, over a year ago. Now, after getting my heart involved with Mr 22..I just don't know if I can handle it. Maybe, I liked that he was safe..and unavailable..then I knew, I could always go back to B. You know what I'm saying? Now, I just don't think anyone will ever say all those things I need to hear..like Mr 22 did. The tears well up..just typing about him. WHY??

Although, I like these guys..I think maybe it's the same thing. If I can keep them at a distance, then I get the attention..and nothing can ever happen. I put myself on there for just friends. I didn't put dating..or serious relationship. So, I guess, I should remind them of that. The one guy..is a recovering addict/alky of 8 years..and the gambler. I just know..so many of those things go hand in hand. He says he limits himself, but the the sex stuff last night..gave me a creepy feeling.

Gotta go see B now..talk to you guys later...Soul

August 24, 2006
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OMG!!!

I missed out on alot!!! I was having computer difficutlties!!! UGH!!!
I was soooooooooo MAD!!!

I Missed YOU All.

Okay I did it I called YG back I had to do it we talked for about an hour, ahhhhhhhhhhhh!!! I really missed hearing his voice. He said alot of nice things to me but I kept my feelings at a limit. I had a smile from ear to ear. WOW!!! I told him how he made me feel and it was cool know hard feelings and we laughed and just had fun talking about our lil moments 2-gether and how he actually missed me and that I did mean something to him (whatever).

Soul doesn't it sound familiar???

Oh and he invited me to his house cause they just put a jacuzzi in his house, hummmmm I'm thinking about it girl's???

But now I realized M isn't the one. It sucks because he has alot of good qualities, we've been threw the same things, he has a job, good communication, everyone thinks he's good looking. What more do I want??? But here's the thing I wasn't attracted to him right when I saw him, he's growing on me, yeah know? It's weird I still look at him like a lil boy I grew up with. "CONFUSED"

Now if YG or MC would call me I would go running with NO Thong on!!!hahahahaha!!! 🙂

I Missed U guys!!!

Welcome Sd & Guppy!!!
glad to see u 2 feel comfortable here come by whenever.

Were always here to listen!!!

Have Wonderful Day Ladies!!!

August 24, 2006
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Chinita: OMG!!!!

Sweetie this is bad, very bad. How can there be no hard feelings? he really hurt you. What the hell happened last time you two were together?? Why did he ignore you?

I know, you are ssayin its just for fun and you will keep yourself detached, but you can't do it honey!! You are too loving and too kind.

Okay,okay, ya gotta do what ya gotta do and God knows I have been anything but a good girl lately. just keep us posted so we can be there for you.

Soul: Why don't you remind them of the friends thing and if it turns into more thats great. Take that step honey. B is gonna be gone for 3 more years right?? You could have accomplished alot by then, or you can just let time stand still and stop your life because of his mistakes. I know its love, but there is nothing noble about sacrificing yourself. I am just saying if you met someone you thought was nice, hang out. Make friends. have people to do stuff iwth and if love somes along it was meant to be. If not then that is meant to be too. But don't hide cuz your afraid. You have learned alot and it has made you stronger and smarter. It has made your heart wiser.

Just think about it K?

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Light: I know I know there was major hard feelings. I'm not gonna lie I did really like him and he hurt me. He apologized and said sorry for doing that but he started getting scared and didn't know how to handle it. I told him he should of talked to me. What's done is done.

All I know is my guard is up!!!

Your right I am too Loving and Kind but now I've been able to see other people and I can shut my feelings down. Light I really did like him ahhhhhhhhh I already Miss him but NOPE!!! trust me I won't let him get the best of me.

Soul I posted at the other thread let me know if I make sense.

See Ya Girly's

August 24, 2006
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Okay Chinita, only you know what you can handle right??

So what is the plans with Yg?

Just don't stand for him not doing what he says he is going to do,okay?

August 24, 2006
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Light: YG hummmmm I'm not sure??? I would Love to go running and have some real good sex But I don't know???
I don't want to start obsessing over him. It's weird I feel like do I play with fire or just leave it alone???

Really though playing with fire is BD so let me rephrase that.

If he put's some effort and want's to see me then maybe. There is just something about this young lil boy I like.

But I'll be careful!!! I'm not trying to come back crying and all depressed over YG anybody else but him. I refuse!!!

Thanks for looking out for me!!!

Much Love Girly!!!

August 24, 2006
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Your welcome Chinita: yeah theirs lots of other men out there to cry about 🙂

I'm not sure any man is worth it though. I finally realized what is throwing me off about X. My ex-husband used to look at me the way X looks at me now. Very intense. He used to tell me how amazing I was, how he nevr met anyone like me, and once we got married his true colors came out. So, either X is like that, or I am paranoid because X reminds me of the ex in that he is soooo into me and so very intense.

Note to self: do not marry X. I think I can handle that.

I invited X over Friday after jordan is in bed. i havent seen him since last saturday and now I really,really want to.. I'll have to see what he says about that. He hasn't asked when he can see me again. i think he is trying not to be pushy, which is nice.

Light

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Hi girls..

China..I really want to say..I didn't really know the whole YG story. I know, you liked him a lot, and had fun with him, and that he sorta just quit calling..and by avoiding you..hurt you pretty bad. I don't think he deserves you..after that, but, I also know..I would probably want to see him, too. Just like Mr. 22. Of course, that's a little different because YG isn't married now, so, the only thing you really have to worry about is whether he actually has feelings for you..or just wants the "booty"..which ain't such a bad thing..if you don't get hurt over it. Man..are we alike or WHAT?? If you are like me...you will not be able to keep from having feelings again, and after JUST going through such a similar thing..I have to warn you..that you will be hurt worse the next time. Just like me!! You know, I also did the same thing with that little Scottie boy(24 yr old), ran into him 4 months later..let him..tell me how beautiful I was..and gave me all of these excuses..went home with him..had great sex..just like before..and he ended up avoiding me again. I was hurt worse then the first time..by far. With Mr 22, too. So, if you think you can handle it...then go for it. I just don't want you to get your heart broken. (((China))) my Soulsister

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hey , i agree with what all u girls said , that waiting is best. U misunderstood me. S started talking marriage and said it way to many times for me to early. that is what made me backpaddle. but we are past that now..........

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Light & Soul!!!

Your right Soul!!! it's very similar.
He's 9yrs younger I'm 33 & he's 24, great huh? so I guess don't mind my advice I'm getting in a mixed situation. All I have to do is keep my distance. but damm girl's a jacuzzi!!!!

I haven't called today and I want to but I'm not!!! Girl's I can't stop thinking about him WHY??? He shouldn't have called!!! It's ok I have to remember that feeling that I had when he hurt me. It sucks!!!

Soul what is it with these young boys??? why do they put such a spell over us??? I think I know it's because they know how to play the game better than us old folks there another generation u feel me??? They make us feel like Queens and tell us all the bull shit we want to hear and because WE are codep we suck it up like a bowl of soup.

Yuck I hate this right now HE's on my mind and he's the only one that keeps popping up in my mind,FUCK!!!

Ok China Girl I've had worse experiences so I have to get a hold of myself and take a step back and BREATHE.

He should of NEVER called!!!!

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WHAZZUP LADIES?????

CHina..don't call..don't call....don't call..or he's think he has you right where he wants you. If anything..let him come to you. He knows your number..DO NOT CALL HIM!! If anything...let him do a little bit of groveling..if you call..he won't ahve to do a thing..and he'll know..he can do anything he wants to you..and you will take it. SO, if you want to see him..at least make him know. you won't take any SHIT from him!! PLEASE!!!!

Light...so, Friday night..that's nice..enjoy this...I can't wait to hear how the second night goes..

Love Soul

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Hey there Soul!!!

I know I'm NOT!!!

M calls me every night, he works night so he calls me on his lunch and then calls me when things slow down he is sooooooooooo Sweet!

Yup Light let us know what happens with u and X!

I am so glad Soul & Light you guys are doing so well!!!

SOul u r sounding like your bouncing right back YAY!!!

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