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Juanita
June 16, 2006
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Juanita

I am posting here as not to deflect from the other thread.

We have been working on some things for many threads.

Yes, I understand and there are times when it is a bit much when even I read what you say.

And then there are times when I do not post my entire heart out, you understand?

And yes, I did find it odd with your posting deviating from the thread's original content and purpose.

I hope things are working out well your way.

Sew

June 17, 2006
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Hi Sew,

Nice to see you.

My time here is very limited now a days. Due to my marrital issues, I have backed away trying to keep peace at home. My spouse has claimed I was addicted to the computer & watched my use of it. He even found this site & I felt my privacy invaded. I post on very few threads as I have so little time/ privacy, & can hardly get any where near deeply involved like I used to. Your post confused me a little, I posted on the Porn thread briefly, and on the WD thread, mostly I stick around to check on Jigs.

If your above was directed to my comment on your WD thread, again, I apologize and apologized right on that thread for interrupting.

WD is one of the people here whom I have "known" for a while and care much about. I have seen him get into fights here & there, but not have the time to get deeply involved, and do not feel my right to get deeply involved. How two people interact is basically between them. Any thread title with WD in it will attract my attention as I am curious how he is doing. I so desparately want him to see his child again, and am so very happy he found another love in his life. He was the first man to post on my threads when I came here years back & I knew he was a very logical, anaylitical man. He also is a man who has been deeply hurt, abused, and has his own scars. He supported me & made me realize that what my man was doing was not right. WD, though so logical & more comfortable with facts, told me he loved me at a time when I desperately needed to hear it as I felt totally unloved at home. This simple act on his part endeared him to me deeply b/c he acted out of character. He has also stated here that he loves you. Knowing him as I do, this was a great effort on his part. He was vunerable to you.

WD has a tiny piece of my heart & I hurt when I see him hurt. This is my character by nature. Yes, he can stand on his own two feet & fight for himself & what he needs to clear up with other folks. However, his comment of:

Worried_Dad
11-Jun-06

I am the kind of person that I crave the approval of people I love or respect.

really torn into my heart. I felt compelled to post my appreciation of him. I know he doesn't feel comfortable with compliments, and as I stated, I backed away long ago from posting such comments so he would not be uncomfortable. I believe WD backed away from me a while ago as I tend to be rather free when I feel a compliment is due. Long ago, I learned how a simple compliment from someone else to me touches my heart, I assume the same POSSIBLE impact when I give one out. Sometimes, the simplest thing such as a tiny compliment can make the biggest difference in a person's day, week, yr, or character (like I've never forgotten his words to me). It is my hope that my words will somehow genuinely impact someone in a positive way. When I saw his above statement, I couldn't stop myself & only hoped to help an old friend. To me, it was a cry out for some approval on his part - a very rare thing for him to state. Sometimes when people feel attacked (as WD stated over multiple threads I've seen) hearing an old voice say you are not a bad guy & are thought about eases a tiny bit of your soul.

I don't know if I'm making sense or rambling on. I still have my own issues I am working on, among which is my own self-esteem & value. I am oversensitive & tend to shut down & back away when hurt. Which is why I gave you props for being so brave and able to state your mind and piece when you need to. This is something I need to work on very much, and admire your ability to do so. I tend to let things slide too much.

So, again, my apologies for my rambly-ness. I was only seeking to reassure an old pal he's not a bad guy & is thought of/ remembered fondly by someone here.

All the best to you.

Juanita

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