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Island Life
December 21, 2005
10:01 am


Yeah, it's all about closure. Thought I had it once, but it come sand goes. This will at least be my 'voice' in a stand-off..


December 21, 2005
11:41 am
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Charlir girl! You deserve that closure and I am glad you are getting it! Sometimes we never do. I hope you have a lovely holiday! (((Hugs))) Gayle

December 22, 2005
4:42 am
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Sadly closure has funny twists you walk contented then from nowhere a cloud desends. The sun WILL shine again - this you know for sure. It is at that very point of knowing that a cure becomes possible.

December 22, 2005
8:25 am


I hear you!! : )

I suppose by closure I meant that I can tell my side of things. I will never know his. And I will never be 'over him', but I will at least have been acknowledged, and I also want him to know that I met someone else after he and I were through. I want him to know I didn't just settle for a marriage he knew was in tatters. I want him to imagine me making love to another man, the way I see him with HER.

I have my umbrella at the ready.


December 23, 2005
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charlie!! (((hugs)))

I did think the line "I mourned the loss of unrecorded words" was the one you would have picked only because you are fast becoming a published author.

Whatever you do, hon, DON'T SIGN IT. You never know if that letter may be used later to "bite you in the butt."

Hopefully, it's not too late?


December 24, 2005
8:17 am


No, it's not too late. Good point of yours!!

I am going to sit on it for a while.

I just heard that he is moving in with his girlfriend in the New Year. Happy families!!!LOL

And yes, with regards to your 'bold' : ) words, you hit the nail on the head, as always.

How do you get the words to be bold?? (You can let me know ur secret another time!!!)

Right now, it's Christmas Eve, and I wish you the very best of everything you could wish for this Christmas.

You have been a highlight of my year..thank you,

~love and hugs, charlie~XXX

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