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April 26, 2010
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I hear you Isis. I don't post anything here and haven't for a long time. Sad to think that there was a time when I actually trusted people here with my most private info. The fact that I shared anything here is somewhat of a regret, since almost everyone that I've encountered has proven that they are completely untrustworthy. Sad to say.

But the fact that SC knew anything about free works both ways. From the sound of it, members here did an abnormal amount of research on SC as well. Personal info should be just that, personal and confidential - but we all know (some more than others) that this hasn't been the case. And that personal info has been used inappropriately. Having been at the receiving end of that, I have to say that I'm sick of it to the point of realizing that there isn't anything here for me. For those of you who feel the need to stalk others, deceive people with your bullshit stories, and have multiple nicknames for the sake of screwing with people here (you know who you are and so do I), have at it.
I'm done with you and this site.

April 26, 2010
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Okay....I am back again...(sorry). I his going to do thatave no reason myself to worry because I have no one stalking me and actually very few people in my life that don't even know if I am alive anymore. hehe

Been out of the social word so long....and wonder if anyone knows I still exist in real life..except for a few friends and family.....

So all I know is to just completely secure your pcs.......because of my hacker experience in FB.......so I myself .....just me am not really that scared.....the only one taht could actually read my stuff on here would be my son.....this is his old laptop......and I really doubt he ...

going to do that......never keep your password logged in......either.
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April 26, 2010
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I am more afraid if all this keep ups the SC is going to close down this site...........myself and wouldn't even blame her or him or whoever....HF

April 26, 2010
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I can't even write right anymore...HF

April 26, 2010
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I agree with Shaney(as usual) on this one Isis. I no longer post any personal information on this site either. Not because of the SC or administrators of this site but because of the trolling, stalking, weirdos on this site.

And Shaney is also right about the SC posting Free's info. When the SC posted that info about Free, she only did only after she had been antagonized to the point that she lost it. I remember it. And Bevdee was also kind enough to save it and reprint it on Paul Elam's site. If you read it, you can see very clearly the SC was seething at the fact that Free had "outed" her first.
Of course, Free loves to play the victim and this time is (was) no different. Everyone has their limits and obviously the SC is no exception.

In my opinion, anyone with concerns in that regard should just ask the SC personally.

As far as this being a cult.....that's just ridiculous. When was the last time anyone has even seen the SC post here? Don't cult leaders generally talk to, or interact with or try to persuade their victims in some way? Or let me guess....she's a magical cult leader and can brainwash people by way of mental telepathy?

People were banned from here. And when others didn't "defend" them ....there egos could not comprehend the thought that maybe....just maybe...their behavior was wrong, irrational, etc. Instead it had to be for some external reason. And apprarently the best they could come up with that they were right...no matter how irrational they were....therefore this must be a cult and we have all been brainwashed though fear and manipulation.

The whole thing would be completely laughable if it wasn't so sad. Sad, because of the extent that some of these people have gone to destroy a place that has helped so many people just because they are unwilling or unable to accept responsibility for their own behavior.

To each their own and at this point, I wouldn't blame anybody for not trusting this site. But just know that the reason it can't be trusted is because of nothing more than handful of low rent scumbags with no morals, no integrity and no character.

April 26, 2010
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I have copied and pasted what was written by Bevdee (as KatiAncho) on Paul Elams site.

Free's personal information has been deleted but it is very clear that what is written below was the SC's REACTION to what FREE had initially posted about the SC when Free wasn't getting her way. And not only that but what was written was in an EMAIL to Free, not posted on the site by the SC. Free did that herself.

"Free, I found this 83. Friday, 23 October 2009 04:33 KatiAncho said:Hey Free,

I copied this at the time you posted it. I knew it would be deleted. I blanked out some of the actual names that were in it.

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"Tree, Free, you lying piece of troll garbage, Mother of 3, math teacher in [state]: "

and

"And on top of that I have a few things I really need to do on the site, that DO NOT involve you, and you never let me do them... that's a problem. Just let me do what I sorely have to do. "

"I said first, SIT DOWN, and pay attention to YOURSELF. And you even jumped on the wagon of "There is more than 1 SC, they work it out behind the scenes." BULLSHIT! Total BULLSHIT. And you posted my name all over the threads?? WOW! "

"I really thought that as a mother of 3, and a teacher, you'd be a little more mature than that. Your ex, [his name, Miss [name], must have really messed your head and heart up. Get it back."

and

"Leave the site. Go to the beach at your parent's house in [Location] while you're on Easter Break."

wow."

April 26, 2010
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geezum.....I leave and look what kind of ruckus you guys got going on!

I wonder if I was one of those mentioned ""You two as well as one other person on this thread (I refuse to mention their name)..." - lol....ah, but I am still here.

I think cady has been around longer than admits and perhaps even broke a few of the rules she is defending so strongly!

isn't there a psych term for this kind of stuff, eh? but what do I know...

April 26, 2010
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AHHHHHHHHH........I get it finally....I have noticed the strangest of a few....because I read alot instead of posting.......probably did not research everything either......thanks.

But I do believe in not posting personal info here...........in fact.....it took me yrs before I posted the state I lived in..........then wish I never had....but noticed everyone else did and was only trying to relate to another poster.....and andi was also one I questioned because she kept up with the arguments.....sorry andi...but you are still on my list of past posters....just didn't........say it or the other ...which we all know by now who that is......but back awhile ago it seemed like this site was attacked by people just popping up with very odd things to say.......

Well.....so much for me and my thinking......but that was why I left this site for awhile......because it just messed my head up even more.....gulp......if that's possible.
Thanks, horsefly

April 26, 2010
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"...because it just messed my head up even more.....gulp......if that's possible."

That made me giggle ((((horsefly))))

You're just fine. And probably more right than you think you are.

April 26, 2010
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WELL Hell, I don't even know how I am keeping things real or why it matters if I am okay in anyone book I never even posted too..........hell.....I know if I look at this post again I am going to end up in the nuthouse.......horsefly....just saying.....

April 26, 2010
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HAHA......looked again......after my FB hacker I developed a new compulsive disorder if checking my passwords and I guess now threads too. I read that lolli......guess we posted at the same time........yes it was about the time you had this pasted and the months...I was turning into a paranoided freak about who and why they were posting to me........then I looked like a nut...so I just stayed away.....caused a few problems with some friends here too....I recall.........so I guess I was right.........Horsefly.....oh yeah.....I will probably re check this thread again........sooner or later....tehe

April 26, 2010
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Hey girls,

I understand what you're saying, and I realize that free did antagonize the SC. More importantly, though, I also realize that the SC didn't post free's most personal info, free did.

That being said, I still am creeped out to the max, and will never discuss anything personal with folks again. It's really too bad, though, as it took me so very long to open up. And, I was really starting to benefit for the feedback and support I was receiving. All I have to say is... THANK GOD I HAVE A GREAT THERAPIST THAT I SEE ONCE A WEEK!

Ciao Bella Babes!

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April 26, 2010
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Hey Isis....I agree, it is too bad. It's a shame that people have to ruin it for everyone else.

Having said that, I don't want to cause fear in other posters here. This place has done a lot of good for a lot of people and it continues to do so.
And I truly believe that most of the posters here are good people that need and want help and want to help others too. The members of this site shouldn't let a few bad apples ruin the cart.

But I will say that following the anonymity guideline is extremely important. Admittedly, I didn't realize how important it was until it was too late. I thought by not giving my last name or my e-mail address I was safe. But a word to the wise....NO PERSONAL INFORMATION. Not the state you live in, your real first name or your birthday. We used to do fun threads like that from time to time to keep things light but never did I imagine that there were predators...pretending to be friends...gathering that type of information.

I still believe that posters are safe and should be free to discuss their issues and share their personal stories provided they are very cautious about giving any information that can be traced.

I no longer share that type of personal information because unfortunately for me, I have already said too much over the years.

April 26, 2010
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((((Iris)))) please don't go!.......that just about did it....I am checking myself in the nuthouse tomorrow.......when I get out I am going to LOOK EVERTHING UP.............horsefly

April 26, 2010
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Hahaha... you're too cute HF... I'm not going anywhere, just going to be very careful what I share. Been around, just reading... lots going on in my life right now. Still reeling from the trip to Haiti, as well as my youngest son's diagnosis of type 1 diabetes... oohhh such is life!

You're doing great... don't get all freaked-out cutie!

Isis

April 26, 2010
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OHHHHHH Thank you Iris.......I was freaking out......again. I guess I just don't get a dam thing anymore....so ....because I am about nuts right now..I will look it All up the next or next or next..........day......I don't even know if I am going to want to know.....all I am trying to do ies reconnect back with my friends here,,,,,,then stumbles into this............((((Iris)))) and get back into the group......horsefly

April 26, 2010
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HF... need not bother or worry yourself! Some things are better left unread.

Love,

ISIS

April 27, 2010
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I agree with Isis, horsefly....

This stuff is old news so no point in rehashing all of it or driving yourself nuts trying to read through years worth of crap.

My only reason for creating this thread was because I had just found the google thing and I thought it was funny. I posted it here because it had to do with this site and the people here and thought they might get a giggle out of it too. Which they did....until "kady" mysteriously showed up.

So I agree....let sleeping dogs lie and just be careful what personal info you post in the future.

Note to self....that SC is pretty smart and the guidelines are there for a reason....

April 27, 2010
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Well I guess everyone knew I would look at this thread again.....haha......yes the SC knows what she is doing.....and I I am sure she will take care of things.......not going to look up anything again....I had looked up the Paul guy last fall.......then quite posting when weird stuff was going on here..............not going back....moving forward. Wonder what happened to Kary and andi......usually quite............I am going to just let sleeping dogs lie......and get by into my selfhelp again.....Thanks...((loll)...((Iris))

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