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I feel like killing my sisterssssssssssss!!
June 15, 2005
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I cant live anymore they are driving me crazy. One is 12 and the other is 13 they fight all day and make my life a living hell. I want to be in peace but they dont know what that is. I feel like running away because all i want to do is never hear them again!!!
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June 15, 2005
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Sisters can be difficult to deal with. Is there any place you can go where you can get some time to yourself, maybe a room in the house that is not being used? Or maybe you need to go a little further, like to the library - which is always quiet!

I don't know your circumstances, but I can sympathise with the problem - I grew up with three sisters, and there was always something going on. I didn't have my own room until I was 15, but you know what? I missed my sisters noise and bickering so much that sometimes I would just go into their rooms just for the company!

Tell me more about your circumstances, maybe I will be able to make more suggestions.

June 15, 2005
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((((Sole))))
Although I grew up an only child and always longed to have siblings... I quickly "got over it" when I had roomates... some were cool, but I had numerous Roomates from hell... so I can relate to what youre saying in wanting peace and quiet....
Im sorry you are struggling with this at the moment.

One of the best things I ever did for myself was get a crappy, cokroach infested one bedroom apartment with plumbing that leaked everywhere with neighbors who were all Highly addicted to multiple things... but It was all mine, and my weird neighbors always looked out ofr me and did sweet things for me like bring me the morning papaer, bring me a cup of coffee when they went out, and one of my most "animated" neighbors knew I was having a really hard time , and he gave me a "voo'doo " doll that he said was guaranteed to help my mood, or at least make me smile again"
and ya' know what, It really did.

I couldnt really even afford that place, but it is wher e I reclaimed "myself" and truly developed a lot of my strong, healing, self preservation type traits.

June 15, 2005
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ty all. Im 18 and im moving the 30th but im sad because all i have of them are fights and problems. I love them but they really make me loose it. Any way plz tell me how can i live these few last days in this hell.
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June 15, 2005
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Hey Sole:

Finally, I see you again. Have been wondering how you are doing.

Sisters.... I have one sister and when we were that age we fought mercilessly. She'd hit my in the glasses and bend them; I'd hit her in the mouth and the braces would make her lip bleed. What a pair we were. BUT, now that we are grown we are close.

Can you leave the room? Go for a walk? Spend time w/ your mom? Oh, I know, get one of those walkmen thingies w/ the headset and then you'll not hear them. Just don't turn it up so loud you hurt your hearing.

As crazy as they drive you..... enjoy them; embrace them; love them because after the 30th you're gonna miss them eventually. You will, seriously.

Tell us how you've been otherwise also.

June 15, 2005
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Well iv been ok. Packing and trying to be ok. I got to my trauma again and i went back in time it was really bad. Im going crazy and i feel i cant with this anymore but who am i going to tell?
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June 15, 2005
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You tell us here Sole. You come here and you vent here. We are here for you for support and advice.

Just think the 30th is only 2 weeks away....

Talk to God, get that walkman thingie, go outside. What do you suppose their reaction would be if when they were fighting one time you just let out a loud long scream? Think they would stop? I'm sure the shocked look on their faces would be worth a mint. Just a silly idea.

Hey, I have to go. Am doing an oxemitry test thru the night and have to sleep 6 hours, then have the hospital for an MRI in the am.

You post back and when I get up in the am I'll be sure to check. AW is an excellent person to chat w/ also.

You can handle 2 more weeks. I know you can.

Later,

June 16, 2005
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HI, Sole...(((hugs)))
have you tried to take them aside seperatley and expressed that you're only going to be there a couple more weeks and that it would mean a lotto you to not leave with memories imbedded in your head of their constant turmoil??
~~Just a thought, but Since I remember (9shamefully)) being that age, I'd have probably rolled my eyes and said "whatever."

Hope youre hanging in there, hon, come vent here all you want...
AW

June 16, 2005
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Hey Sole:

Sorry I had to run last night. I got 6 hr 15 min. Whoo hoo. Woke w/ the most awful headache tho. Not used to that much sleep.

Hope you are doing ok. If you need or just want to talk later, I'll be on when I get home. Not sure when. Hopefully by 3p cst. Will also check in at 9p cst.

Have a great day honey. Chin up.

Later,

June 16, 2005
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Hi sole~~
Hope youre doing well today!!
I know packing alone can be stressful and then with the adden "drama" your siblings are always into cant be much comfort...
Hope youre doin ok.
Hang in there!!
~~AW

June 16, 2005
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Hey sole,

Sorry to hear about your frustration with your sisters. I just wonder what you would do if you had a sister same as mine!

I have a very difficult sister, a "Pain in the neck is very little to describe her!!!"

She is my oldest sister, she would pester me all the time when we lived with my parents. For instance, if I am watching T.V., she would change the channel; if I'm listening to music, she would change the station.
I was really pissed off at that period. Ironically, nobody could stop her not even my parents knew how to stop her, especially since she is the brain of the family. She always had "A" marks at school and would refuse to teach any of me or my other siblings.

Recently - and through God's grace, I have forgiven my sister. It was not easy. However, I feel so unburdened and relieved!!! Now, I am requested Not to see her or be with her on my own. Can you believe that??? She does not seem to have changed. She still likes to control, is manipulative, her opinions are always right...etc. Having discussion with her is futile and leads to dead-end.

Life is not fair! We have to persevere in life.

Perhaps now your own sisters appear to be as sweet as hoeny compared to mine!

~Love & Hugs, Rasputin~

June 17, 2005
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Ty all very much. But see my sisters have always been like this all of there 12 and 13 years. I sit down with them i talk ,tell them cry for peace and all they do is laugh at me and tell me im a nerd and that i dont know how to enjoy life. Im 18 and i love school,love to read and love to be a very organized person. They tell me i dont know how to have fun and that is houl party more because im allowed to. But im not like that i love to be home and maybe call my friend or just be happy with a very intresting book. I know sometimes i loose it and i scream at them and i never have time for them but that is an excuse to never hear problems or fights which i hate from the heart. Im very lucky they are my sisters i really love them but they just dont understand how hard it is for me to live this way. I will keep praying and thank you all for the help.
Sole**

June 17, 2005
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Sweet Sole,

Each child is unique and different. As you may notice, your sisters are more fun-oriented; you are more work-oriented. None of you is right or wrong. It is just that we are made by the Creator differently. Why don't you learn how to unwind and learn to relax from your sisters; and they in turn learn who to become more serious.

I know when I was a kid, I was very serious and later on became a workaholic adult, even though in reality I am a more laid-back person.

So, try to see the bright side of this. Your sisters will hopefully appreciate that.

~Hugs & Prayers, Rasputin~

June 18, 2005
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Thank you!
I feel so sad. I just wish they stopped getting on my nerves. I just want peace and i need it. I want to rest this year has been reaLLY hard and i have worked too much. I just want to sleep. I need to relAX. But they ar too noisy and all they do is fight. God i want them out of the house. Sorry i just need to talk.
TY
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June 18, 2005
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Sole! See the thread I posted today entitled "Tips for Happy Life." I hope it will motivate you as it did to me.

~Love, Rasputin~

June 18, 2005
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SOLE:

13 DAYS TO GO!! 🙂

Hang in there hon, you can do it.

June 18, 2005
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Just keep reminding yourself that you have less than 2 weeks to get through.

June 21, 2005
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Thanks and love to all!!
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June 21, 2005
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9 DAYS TO GO!!

You can do this. I'm sure you can. Hang in there.

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