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I am the queen of . . .
June 13, 2006
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Procrastination.

why can't i be the queen of something more productive????

June 13, 2006
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Then I must be Queen II

Good question, CPT. I am stillworking on my own answer. so what are we going to do to get past it? Beats me.

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June 13, 2006
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i know i am working like hell at the last minute again. lol

okay, so if i am the leader of this club it is time to pay your monthly dues, actually it is past time to pay!

June 13, 2006
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Oh, boy i am a procrastinator too...

And I'll get those dues to you ASAP....Uhhh, but I wouldn't hold my breath...LOL, a person could suffocate waiting on me!!!

How are you, CPT. Feeling any better?

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June 13, 2006
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Cpt

I hope you get done what you have to!

Okay, what's the fine or dues for this special club?

Confessions?

Self analyzing?

Personal goal setting?

Reporting back to the Queen?

Sew

June 13, 2006
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i have not yet decided but i will probably deal with it later. lol

you would think that out of everything i have learned in all my years of formal education is that completing projects at the last minute does not pay. damn deadlines!

June 13, 2006
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I hear you!!!

Hurry and finish!

I wish I knew how to change it all.

We can work on it later perhaps.

Now scat and good luck

Sew

June 13, 2006
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CP...We are all procrastinators. So, you are not alone.

~Ras~

June 13, 2006
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Ras,

I differ in your opinion. Procrstination is something serious and can cause many problems and the causes are varied.

I would bet not all here are procrastinators. I know of many people who do things immediately to get it done, who do not put things off until it becomes a crisis.

To what degree of procrsatination are we speaking about here?

Respectfully,

Sew

June 13, 2006
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I am the queen of Co-Dependency. I have to fight every single day against my co-dependent tendencies. I'm not really much of a procrastinator though.

June 13, 2006
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Sew -

Things like putting off doing laundry, the household cleaning, chores, waxing, having a haircut, being too tolerant of someone's behavior instead of calling the police, living with an abusive spouse instead of seeking counseling or detaching in love, putting up with co-worker's behavior coz it's not professional to criticize him/her, letting people take advantage of you bc you are spiritual and Christian and you were taught at Sunday school "to turn the other cheek."

Aren't these all forms of delays/procrastinations which many of us CODEPS practice in the name of being decent, sweet, and nice human beings? Yet in this process we end up inducing/inflicting self-abuse, emotional damage and condemnation to/on ourselves!

~Ras~

June 13, 2006
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Ras

I never heard of all of those items placed in the category of procrastination.

Putting off laundry is delaying action that must be done sooner or later or the reprecussions of the delay is no clean clothes to wear.

Putting off calling the police for disturbing your peace was something you couldn't decide what to do. As a matter of fact, you never did, did you?

Allowing someone to take advantage of you is not procrastination.

See the difference? It is rather twisting the idea of what procrastination means.

But if that is how you see it, who am I to dispute it?

Sew

June 13, 2006
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I am the queen of...nothing! Isn't that a song...maybe Seals & Crofts, and it was the "King of Nothing". Anyway, I am feeling SO very far from royalty today with paint all over me, and in bad need of a manicure, I just couldn't pass up that reply.

Actually, I'm the queen of having too many things going at the same time! What's a good word for that? Diversity? 🙂

June 13, 2006
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Overwhelmed, Ready?

Seems like a busy summer already!

Sew

June 13, 2006
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Queen of de Nile....sorry had to throw in some humor. =)

i don't know what i am queen of...probably trying to find everything else to do instead of what i am supposed to be doing.

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