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hurt&confuse
September 9, 2008
11:37 pm
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YEA I UNDERSTAND WHERE U GUYS R COMIN FROM BUT I LOVE HIM WE GOT TWO GIRLS TOGETHER AND WE BN TOGETHER FIVE YEARS. I JUS FEEL LIKE HE NEEDS ME. HIS MOTHER WAS ON DRUGS AND THE PERSON WHO RAISED HIM WAS ALSO ON DRUGS HIS FATHER DIDNT COME AROUND UNTIL HE WAS 18 AND HE GOT KILLED ALMOST A YEAR AGO. I GREW UP WITHOUT MY FATHER AND I REFUSE TO LET MY KIDS LIVE THE SAME LIFE I LIVED ALL HE GOT IS ME,MY KIDS AND MY FAMILY. THEY DONT KNOW WHAT HE DO R WHAT HE HAVE DONE ALL THEY SEE IS THE GOOD AND HAPPT TIMES WE HAVE AS A FAMILY WHICH IS GOOD CAUSE I WANT MY KIDS TO HAVE FAMILY MORALS. FAMILY IS VERY IMPORANT TO ME AND I JUS DONT SEE MYSELF WALKING AWAY FROM SOMETHING THAT I LOVE AND SOMEBODY WHO KEEPS MY KIDS HAPPY. I DONT IMAGINE HAVING ANOTHER GUY AROUND MY GIRLS WITH ALL THE RAPING AND CRAZY STUFF THAT B GOING ON

September 10, 2008
2:53 pm
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You aren't all he's got. He also has this other woman now.

You say you don't want to walk away, and I understand that. But he has already walked away from you. He has made a baby with someone else, and now he can never be there for you and your kids the same way ever again. His attention will always be divided. Whatever he had and did for you and your kids you can now expect to get about half of that. And it sounds like it wasn't really enough to begin with, since you two were breaking up a lot.

I don't know what he does for your kids. I believe you that they love him and he loves them. Still, he can't teach your kids anything about family morals because he has none. Your baby that is his, will still have a father if you two break up. He can see him every other weekend, or whatever you decide.

You don't have to get another man. The point is whether or not you will have THIS man.

If you stay together (whatever that means) you will have to deal with this new woman and her baby. You will be jealous. You will be angry. You have reason to feel that way. Still everyone is likely to think of you as the bitter ex-gf. It will be degrading. People may pity you. If they don't pity you, they will probably hate you. You may have constant arguments and misery with this new woman. You two might make each other miserable while your man slides by, playing you both, making sure you stay mad at each other and not at him. That's until one of you starts to wise up and then he'll probably go get someone else pregnant.

With love and prayers for you and your children, soofoo

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