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Hurt People Hurt People
June 26, 2010
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Quite
frankly Andii, you do not owe me or anyone else an apology over the
way YOU feel.

Bitsy

June 26, 2010
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Oh
I'm fine with you Bitsy! I can't give you what you're asking for
right now but maybe someday I will be able to

🙂

June 26, 2010
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It is
not my right to ask anything of you.

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June 26, 2010
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Special note on THIS IS THE ONE I WAS LOOKING FOR...

I did not write
that. I copied and pasted it from another forum. I only WISH I
wrote it.

It seems to apply
here as well as there. Take from it what helps you and leave the
rest.

Peace to
all...

Bitsy

June 26, 2010
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"It
is not my right to ask anything of you. "

Actually, Bitsy,
it is most certainly your right to ask anything of me, and I'm glad
you felt safe enough to do so.

It is my right to
say "I'm sorry, I cannot give that to you," and expect this to be
respected.

andii

June 27, 2010
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Bitsy
on this thread you said 26-Jun-10

"Destiny, I don't
understand your obsession with my recovery. Have I hurt you? You
sweep your side of the street and I will sweep mine." Let me make
myself perfectly clear, I am hear for my own recovery, I could care
less about yours. Your comment is irrelevant to the question I
asked you. With this thread I am wondering whose side of the street
are you sweeping?

June 27, 2010
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"when
certain people post, i do step back. What can I say. Nope, don't
wanna confront them and so I'm not gonna. sorry about that. :)"
Andii I really respect you for having such a mature
attitude.

June 27, 2010
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Bitsy, I didn't even think of Strong, or you, when I read amen
corner. I didn't take that literally.

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I
didn't either bevdee. I took it as a consensus. just goes to show i
guess, we all take things according to what's goin on with our own
selves I spoze.

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When
I hear the word amen corner I think of the British rock group
called Amen Corner.

andii- you said"we
all take things according to what's goin on with our own selves"
that is why I think of AAC as a mirror, whatever people say they
see in other people they really see in them self.

There is also a
big difference between preaching and teaching.

June 27, 2010
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Gosh
Destiny!! if that's entirely true, I'm a troll, a narcissist, and
you are a sociopath and control freak. lolhaha. It is
possible to see cvertain behaviours on others without being that
yourself. Like I think I could see that someone is mentally
retarded, and not be myself.

June 27, 2010
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Andii,

yeah or if you can
get enough agreement, it might seem like a consensus. Remember that
scene in the Blues Brothers with Aretha Franklin? They come to take
? Murph? to go with them, and she starts that singing. THINK! Then
those three girls sittin at the counter pop their arms up and chime
THINK. None a they bidness, but there they are, walkin around him
pointin at him, and sayin THINK after every time she
does.

That's an amen
corner, IMO. Nothing to do with religion other than that's where it
originated.

June 27, 2010
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Check
it out -

June 27, 2010
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Well
i am happy to see a lot has gotten out. I hope everyone feels
better..Have a blessed day...

June 27, 2010
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SexyChocLady, when I see your nickname I always think of
"Catherine" on I think it was News Radio that came on back in the
90's. 😉

Bevdee, my ex
husband used to tell me the only woman he would ever leave me for
was Aretha.

Bitsy

June 27, 2010
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Yeah,
but if he said that to her - "Aretha, baby, the only woman I would
ever leave you for is Bitsy,oh! I bet that head would get ta
shakin, finger'd start pointin, little foot would stomp. and she'd
say - THINK!

June 27, 2010
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R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Or
perhaps

Do Right
Woman...

Bitsy

June 27, 2010
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bevdee- I get it so that means I am a troll and a narcissist
and you are a control freak and a sociopath (LOL) I noticed how you
gave yourself the better diagnoses and me the worser ones waaaah
(LOL).

In this forum with
the premises that we are all anonymous meaning no face to face
interaction or anyway of verifying things, there is no way of
knowing anything about anyone for a fact.

June 27, 2010
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this
is from SDesigns thread "a little stroll down memory lane"Talk ONLY
about YOURSELF, and do so with respect & integrity, and you're
more sure to be on track with that. And of note: there is much risk
on this site when we engage in defending others... not to mention
that it is not self focused. Please also read my first post a few
up from here. Site Coordinator " With this in mind I was wonder
Bitsy how this thread relates to you? I felt like you were trying
to instigate a flame war when you tried to defend BFG in her taking
a break thread. Not cool.

June 27, 2010
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Hi
Destiny: Just a disclaimer- to be clear- that was copied and pasted
from something SC wrote- and the date of that is on the original
post in the thread- those are not my words, they are written by
SC.

Thanks.

"Like I think I
could see that someone is mentally retarded, and not be myself."
Bevdee! precious, just precious!

sd

June 27, 2010
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sdesigns- on the quote it was signed off by the site
coordinator and I cited the thread so anyone who needs more info
can go to yours and read the entire thing.

Addendum to my
last post Please read the thread "a little stroll down memory lane"
on the support side for detailed information.

Since we cant
"see" anyone here we are at a disadvantage.

June 27, 2010
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Destiny: Could you imagine what it would be like if we all had
web cams? Egads-

sd

June 27, 2010
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sdesigns- you mean everyone here is going to find out that my
hair is not naturally blonde and that no one in their right mind
would mistake me for a movie star??? LOL. My fat but is my own
private business. Head shot only with huge movie star sunglasses
and my cowboy hat.

June 27, 2010
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In
the spirit of say what you mean and mean what you say...

The above three
posts that I copied and pasted here meant something and helped me
along my path to healing. I have been hurt a lot in my life from an
alcoholic mother, to an emotionally distant father, to a half
brother who molested me, to an extended family who just didn't
care, to a husband who was emotionally unavailable to a significant
other who cheated on me and shook the foundations I had so
carefully crafted.

I am currently
over being hurt and am on the path to healing. I like the line in
the third copied and posted article that says "healed people heal
people". It has taken me 42 years to get where I am today. They
weren't always easy but they weren't always horrid
either.

My intention with
this thread was to offer encouragement to my fellow posters here at
AAC. I had no ulterior motive at all. I simply shared some things
that have helped me. If they help you I am glad. If they don't I am
sorry. Perhaps another day or another person will come along to
offer the hope and encouragement you need.

Destiny, for a
while now it has seemed to me that you are dogging me and
questioning every move I make. I have tried to ignore you, but you
won't be ignored. I envision you as a bumblebee buzzing from thread
to thread trying to stir up trouble. I refuse to play. I prefer no
interaction with you at this point. I am well aware that I do not
"own" this thread, I merely gave birth to it. You are welcome to
post here as is anyone else. I am entitled to ignore you if I
choose.

Bitsy

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Bitsy- You said "envision you as a bumblebee buzzing from
thread to thread trying to stir up trouble". IMHO this place is
like a house of mirrors and I will take that comment as I envision
you looking into a mirror saying it to yourself about yourself.
Sorry about your vision but I am no bumblebee I am a human
being!

Right before you
started this thread you "buzz"ed as you put it onto BFG thread and
tried to instigate a flame war.

I felt that after
reading this thread if I asked about where you were coming from I
could gain some insight into you.

I read your thread
and simply asked you a question as to how it related to you. Why,
because I am interested in finding out where Bitsy is coming
from.

I am happy to hear
that you have overcome your feelings of being hurt. That is great
progress.

I wrote a thread
on support. I hope you read it and tell me what you
think.

Oh, and I am
concerned about the situation you are in with the oil
spill.

Peace, love, and
happiness...

Destinystar

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