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How to be a decent human being
July 14, 2005
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lewis
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Any thoughts please, i'm trying to change, i'm a good person, but i'm an unhappy one, so, there has to be a change. My character feels that it has been pulled apart, and I need to be put back together again.

But I want to get it right.

July 14, 2005
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Hi Lewis:

My first thought would be to get right w/ God. Then find how you are. What does Lewis like to do? If you can say nothing, then let's try things you've never done before. Get our and meet folks, Learn a hobby.

Are there specific things you want to change?

July 14, 2005
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Hi Lewis,

I agree with wisdom of MamaC! When we re-connect with the source of light and love, we find great comfort.

Find a good church in your area where you can go and feed your faith weekly. A good book that you can feed your spiritual life on.

Best of luck!

~Love, Ras~

July 15, 2005
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Hi lewis,

It sounds to me as if you have "disowned" those parts of you that you think are unacceptable, if that makes any sense. For example, if a person has been taught that anger is a bad thing to express, that person will "split off" the angry part of themselves and disown it by either stuffing it (and feeling depressed) or projecting it onto someone else.

Are there things about yourself that are difficult for you to accept? Being willing to face and accept both our strengths and weaknesses (warts and all) can bring healing and change.

mamac and Rasputin have wisely indicated that this requires supernatural strength at times 🙂

Regards,

CM

July 20, 2005
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Hi Lewis,
You might want to read articles regarding Co-dependency. There is alot of information on line. It will help you learn who you are. That is a start.

July 20, 2005
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hi lewis,

what is it that you want to get right?

maybe if you tell more specifically what you want for yourself, it might help to realize more about what is happening to you. then it is easier to face, then we all brainstorm to help...sound good?

July 22, 2005
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Hi

And thankyou very much for all the above suggestions.

twinks - for me

on my way - life, i want to get it right b4 i its to late

coda mom - so very true, couldn't agree more - thankyou : )

I am a decent human being, I'm struggling with change right now

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