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November 2, 2010
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andii
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I
know wd, I struggle with staying the hand when I'm overwhelmed with
emotion or angry. But you're less likely to do or say something
you'll regret. Definitely don't want that. You've got enough. Plus,
you can think about all the things ou want to do and say, polish
them, make them better. I've said something and later thought "gosh
I wish I would have thought of saying THAT as it would have been so
much better!"

so yeah, I know
it's hard. But you deserve the time to think things over and react
in a way that will enable you to keep your head up.

hang in
there.

andii

p.s. you know this
doesn't mean that at 12:01 tonight you don't go blow up her website
or post nude pictures of her all over it or, or
or......lol

What do you think
would be the best thing to do, the best thing that would bring you
the most satisfaction?

November 2, 2010
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Oh
for heaven's sake andii,,

I thought we knew
each other better than that.

Post Nude
pictures?! Like for Revenge? Dont be ridiculous. That would be
really wrong and immoral. And tacky and immature, For heavens'
sake.

I only propose to
publish text.

November 3, 2010
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I
know wd, but sometimes desperate people do desperate things. That
p.s. was a poke and you responded, and I'm glad you did because it
sounds like you're handling this. What a bombshell to
handle.

I just can't
imagine.

Keep us
updated.

andii

November 3, 2010
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Andii,

Ahh, that was a
poke and sort of a joke. A bad joke, but I get it.

I appreciate that
you have recognized the "bombshell."

Making me think
she had been murdered was bad enough.

The latest
thingamabob has me reeling.

Gonna take me a
few weeeks to stabilize.

November 3, 2010
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Recall I turned off her (my) cell phonw after I got the "fuck
you" phone call on October 30th.

Novemeber 1st she
somehow manages to put $100.00 of minutes on the phone--using my
Visa account!

Grrr.

November 3, 2010
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Oh
boy. Are you reporting that wd? At least to Visa?

andii

November 3, 2010
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Hi
andii,

Heck yes I'm
reporting it. And I have to turn off my darn Visa.

And I am going to
complain to the Davenport police.

November 4, 2010
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Good
wd! What is the complaint to the police going to be?

anii

November 4, 2010
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Hi
Andii,

My complaint is
theft by means of fraud and credit card fraud.

After she told me
to fuck off, she then went and charged $110 to my Visa.

And how the heck
does she have my Visa number and code?

And who the fuck
does she think she is?

I hope she hasn't
bought a new car or a trip to Hawaaii or something.

November 4, 2010
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WD if
your visa card has fraud protection then you can file a claim and
hopefully get your money back while it is under investigation. Some
people are clever enough to write all of the numbers to your card
down. Then they can use the numbers over the phone and internet.
She has really taken advantage of you and violated your
trust.

November 8, 2010
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How
are things wd?

andii

November 8, 2010
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Andii,

I'm still pretty
shaken up.

November 9, 2010
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I bet
you will for some time. Have you had any communication with her or
taken any action?

Hang in there wd.
This too shall pass.

andii

November 11, 2010
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yooo-hooo! 🙂

November 11, 2010
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Hi
andii,

Hope you are
having a good Veteran's day.

November 11, 2010
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I
hope ou are too wd! I did a bunch of laundry, paid bills, went
grocery shopping, made rice krispy treats and a cake, did dishes,
getting ready to vaccuum and do my room and bathroom. Farmed-
planted and harvested raspberries AND strawberries...

Heading to
applebees for dinner soon- vets eat free tonight. Yum.

you?

andii

November 12, 2010
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Sounds like all is well in andii-land! Productive, balanced,
some leisure/time- dinner out. Cool!

I want yer
'Krispie' treats. R they available online?

Oh yeah...re-the
kamikase mission at the mosque near ground zero - I thot about it
& 'I'm in'. Sign me up!

So, you're a pet
doctor too? Geez, multi-talented! ha

Stay
free!

Hope you're
hanging in ok there, W.

November 13, 2010
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Will
write more later, pressed for time.

BUT, my Worried
Dad...

((((((((((WORRIED
DAD)))))))))

I will ALWAYS love
and support you.

Much
love,

Z.

November 20, 2010
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Zinnie,

Your support means
a lot to me.

I have layers and
layers to process.

Still haven't
gotten over:

I just hate it
that she would make me woryy and worry and worry she was dead and
then of course I activated local law enforcement and then regional
law enforcement and then global law enforcement to find
out.

Then I spent all
that money and have been freaking out to all my family and friends
and then ultimately the entire internet...

And then it turns
out to be a cruel joke by someone I trusted implicitly.

Of course the
final humiliation is that I bought into that madness.

I am doing my best
to move right along. I found a truly singular therapist with
ridiculous qualifications and technology that has been helping
me.

I'll live, but boy
is my face going to be red for a while.

November 21, 2010
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Pretty muffed up wd. Pretty muffed up. I'd like to get her in a
dark alley and beat the crap out of her.

andii

November 21, 2010
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Might
not turn out too good though come to think of it. Haven't been in a
fight since kindergarten. Over a tricyle at recess.

How about we comb
army surplus stores and mail her a torpedo?

Seriously wd, I
sure hope you are researching and pursuing any available legal
recourse as this is just bowl-sheet.

Pisses me off so
bad. How re you handling this anger?

andii

November 21, 2010
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Hi
Andii,

The anger is
intermittent. These days it just feels like sadness.

Darn it. At one
point we actually went to the courthouse and got a marriage
liscence.

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