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hey tump...r u around?
May 17, 2007
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(((GG))) I am holding you close as you are probably at your appointment as I write this...waiting to be called. I love you, and I am very proud of you. You are so brave. I am proud to call you sister.

Love you..

Mich

(((gg)))

May 17, 2007
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I dont need to take the test.

"Do you know how to relax?" No :([email protected]

On the other hand... "do you know how to become nervous AND make other people nervous?" Yes

May 17, 2007
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((((((((((GG))))))))))) Just wantin you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers! I'm sendin ya lots of love and hugs!

May 17, 2007
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Guest Guest, I don't see that what you posted has anything to do with what this site stands for. I have read other posts of yours and in my opinion you seem to be what I would call a trouble maker and I don't appreciate you comin over to my friend GG's thread and startin any trouble with her. I hope that you find whatever help you need that has brought you to this site but I have to stand up for what I consider to be bullying on your part towards GG. If you want to respond to my post feel free to on my thread because I won't be cluttering GG's thread with any bull by responding back to you concerning this issue. Sorry for this bull, GG. (((((GG)))))

May 17, 2007
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My score was 52. There is something REALLY wrong with this description if you ask me.

"You seem to be in the middle between the Type A and Type B personality. In this case, the middle ground is good. Your attitude to life is more of the "smell the roses" kind and you know how and when to relax. Nonetheless, you realize that picking up a challenge and competing a little bit for your place in the sun can add some spice to your life. The equilibrium is important, so don't let your hostile, aggressive, and competitive alter ego take over too often. Generally, you are easy to be around, and people tend to feel relaxed and comfortable in your presence. Yours is a very healthy attitude towards life."

May 17, 2007
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gg,

I am hoping that you are doing ok dear. I love ya. Thinking about you. ((((((gg))))))

Still holding you close.

May 17, 2007
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Friendma

My opinion is that Guest is just being funny. That's how I take it. Maybe he was trying to make me laugh- I love Guest_Guest and he knows my sense of humor. GG calls me Tump.

HI Guest_Guest- Good to see you around.

(((Friendma)))

May 17, 2007
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So GG

Everything go ok?

May 17, 2007
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I guess...not feeling too safe now.

May 17, 2007
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What's wrong?

May 17, 2007
10:08 pm
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the post

May 17, 2007
10:08 pm
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GG- which post?

May 17, 2007
10:09 pm
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I don't want to start anything...just don't need this after today...

May 17, 2007
10:11 pm
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Is it in this thread?

May 17, 2007
10:11 pm
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yes

May 17, 2007
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If this is about Guest_guest- I don't see him as a malicious person at all! I like him. He has an odd sense of humour and sticks to Libs because he likes to debate. (I think)

Is that the post that was bothering you?

May 17, 2007
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yes

May 17, 2007
10:20 pm
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I thought G_G was talking to me. I talk to him when he shows up here. He likes to heckle me and Tez when we talk about weird stuff.

GG- anyone can post on any thread. I didn't see anything that resembled instigating or an attack - but if you did and want to talk about it- I'll listen.

I have to soak for a few minutes- my back is hurting- and I'll be back. I am so anxious to hear how the appointment went.

(((Roux)))
(((Guest)))

May 17, 2007
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Okay, I am just in oversensitive mode here. I am sorry if I took it wrong. Yes, I agree that anyone can post anywhere...sorry...

May 17, 2007
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Hey GG, why don't you tell me about the appointment. Do you think you will like the therapist? How did the session go? When is your next appointment?

I'll be back in a few minutes sugar.

May 17, 2007
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bev, I am not sure about the appt. I kinda had a panic attack about 2 hours before the appt. It just hit me, wham! I was very nervous when I got there. (I am uncomfortable typing that now...gonna trust here) Yep, filled out the forms and had a page w/approx. 40 adjectives/behaviors and I had to circle the ones that applied to me. I circled about 35 of them!!! She was a little older than me I think and was laid back. I am going to give it a chance, but kept wondering if I didn't need someone a little tougher. Instead of clamming up like I usually do, the ADD went into overdrive. I was fidgety, couldn't keep still, and my voice was shakey, but I talked and talked. Mentally, I want this, want to change, and have this summer to really work. Physically, I was shaking, and I kept noticing her move her head a lot and then I figured out that she was trying to get me to look her in the eye. Every time our eyes met, I looked away. It felt uncomfortable. A friend told me this evening that I do that...didn't know that.

I told her about my dad and the sex abuse, told her about my brother, and one babysitting dad, but not the bad night one...couldn't. I told her about the whippings and I think she was a bit shocked at the procedure. She asked a lot about my parents and I told her that my dad treats my mom like a princess and they NEVER argue. I heard my dad raise his voice maybe once to her. She told me that a marriage like that was not normal and there must be major conflict held in. I thought they had the perfect marriage all this time...

She asked me about my marriage and some what ifs...

I told her about the suicide nite and the cutting. I haven't done it in a good while and don't plan on it either. The urges still come though.

She said that I fear rejection/abandonment...that did not surprise me! She said I had some major trust issues, no surprise there either, and that I want to trust and have someone care and protect me, but that I tend to reject it as a possibility because I feel I don't deserve it.

I had to rate myself from 1-10 on my selfworth...

She asked me what my goal was in therapy and I was stumped. There seems to be so many. I finally told her that I know I don't love myself and don't like myself most of the time, so maybe that is where I need to start. She said I struggled with the word love, so maybe I should call it "self-care". She said I have an assignment: I have to do something nice for me before I go back. She wanted to see me next week! Next week is not good for me as my final week of school, so I scheduled it for the 30th.

She then closed the session by asking if the session was what I was seeking. I just shrugged my shoulders. I don't know, but I'll give it a go. I am not sure about her though.

Hey, isn't tomorrow your last day?

(((tump)))

May 17, 2007
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GG

"She told me that a marriage like that was not normal and there must be major conflict held in." Hmm.

"She said I struggled with the word love, so maybe I should call it "self-care". I like this! Self-care.

"but kept wondering if I didn't need someone a little tougher." Like an authority figure?

Yes, tomorrow is my last day! Yay.

May 17, 2007
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Where's the party?

After the appt., I went and got something to drink and sat in a parking lot and tried relaxing...It took over an hour...

May 17, 2007
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GG

I know- I remember the day I left my first appt. It takes so much effort to keep the secrets, and it takes more effort to talk about them.

So - how are you going to accomplish that assignment?

May 17, 2007
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I think I am going to a party for a friend to celebrate her new job at a lake!!!

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