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hey there, free2choose!
December 3, 2008
4:19 am
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Hey my long-lost friend, so nice to see you here. I thought of you and your beautiful daughter during the recent US presidential election. Couldn't help wondering how those not-yet-enlightened relatives of yours reacted to the idea of a non-white family in the White House. Have they started to appreciate the rainbowness of our human family a bit more?

Big hugs to you and yours, you are sounding great :o)

Lots of love,
your old pal, kroiks

December 5, 2008
3:30 am
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Hey!!Responded to you on that crazy thread but I'll write more here.

My family... hhhhhuhhh. There all a bunch of sissies. LOL. My sister now thinks our country is doomed, and mymom actually believes Obama's the anti-christ. I can't believe I turned out as well asI did considering here I come from!

Really though, for all there crazy conservative ways, they're coming along quite nicely. Myparents are head over heels in love withmy daughter, and do not even talk about the fact that sheis bi-racial anymore. My sister and I are developing an awesome relationship. We'vehad to agree to disagree on some things, she's mega-catholic and I'm a lesbian, you know, LOL, but we're both trying. J and I started attending a Methodist church here were we live, and my sister is happy about that, even thoughshe doesn't understand how I can go to a Christian church and still be agnostic. To be honest, I don't really understnd it either, LOL! I'm jsut doing what feels right.

My grandparents are semi-coming around. They came to Thanksgiving, which was a first. Still on't hold the baby or really interact with her alot, but they're trying. But the whole thing is about to blow up again because....

WE're GETTING ANOTHER BABY!!!

My baby's BM is preggers again! She's due late March and OCS has already asked us to take the new one to keep the siblings together!!!

So, by April I'll have a 15 month old and a NEWBORN, can u believe. I know, we're NUTS. I'm so excited and so TERRIFIED!! LOL.

J and I are doing good. She just finished her first junior semester of nursing school, which is trying on us as a couple because of the time she has to invest that takes her from the family. We're stuggling at times, but we'll make it.

I lost myjob in June and have become a stayat home mom/houseife, and I'm going NUTS!! I'm trying to get on here at our Drug Court as a case manager. Wanna get into the field (Counseling).

Life is good. Hard, stressfull, crazy... but good.

How are you???

December 5, 2008
5:35 am
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My friend!

Your news is great to hear. Wow, going to have a toddler and a newborn - yes, you ARE going to be busy! (And if you think J's nursing school is trying, wait till she starts working shifts :-0 Excuse my negativity.... I hope it won't be that bad for you, but I'm just saying.)

Hey, I think you would be a terrific case manager, and working in the counselling field. Good luck with that!

Me, well, I'm doing pretty well. Since the breakup nearly a year ago I've been focusing on my health and fitness, and am very pleased with the results. I think I will be pretty hard to beat at mudwrestling now, should anybody care to try ;~)

Really nice to hear an update from you. I don't read much at this site anymore either, and post very little.

take good care, Ms. Truth Warrior!

big hugs from kroiks

p.s. I'm staying off that other crazy thread... so to answer your question from there, bev still posts here a fair bit (often on the "Narcissists, continued" thread on the support side), Michy got banned, and sleepless drops by once in a blue moon. I think she may be catching up on her sleep :o)

December 5, 2008
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Oh, and btw, take a look at the essay thread while it is still up, if you haven't already. I found a really excellent book, which is out new this year, that is a very good resource about pornography. If you are going to be getting involved in counselling, it's one that would be useful to refer people to (and even if you aren't in an official counselling capacity, still makes a good reference).

December 5, 2008
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Yeah, I read it. Sounds awesome... I just didn't want to post in that thread for fear of starting Porn War 3... or is it 4... Ahhhh...

Michy banned??? I'm sure I know what for... Breaking Anny??

December 7, 2008
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Hey Free2choose!! I heard my name!!!

Good to see you girlfriend. I'm so glad to hear about your baby getting a brother or a sister. I just know she is gorgeous!! I bet she's a teensy bit spoilt, too, isn't she? Stay at home Mom, huh? Have you learned to crochet and quilt yet?

December 7, 2008
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Good luck free2. What a wonderful thing you are doing for 2 children who will have a stable home. I love to thing about it. Good luck in all you do.

December 8, 2008
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hey f2c,

Glad you caught the post about the excellent book. I understand about not wanting to post on the other thread ~ seems there are a few threads here at the moment that are worth staying away from. Oh well, eh.

Take care my friend, nice to catch a glimpse of you anyway.

kisses from kroiks

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