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Help Ourselves?
December 4, 2008
3:00 pm
Golden Horseshoe.ca
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Posted on the BYE thread.

>>>site coordinator

Hey Everybody,

I just wanted to say Hi - this thread caught my attention for some reason.

I want to take this opportunity to remind everyone the purpose & mission of this site, which is self exploration - rather than "helping others". This place isn't for helping others, it's for helping ourselves 🙂

We're all anonymous here (to each other), and it is everyone's personal responsibility to keep this site anonymous to everyone we know in our real lives, including family, friends, co-workers, and even casual acquaintances.

Love, SC << That Help Ouselves comment really stood out for me.

But what about that? How are we helping oursleves?

Help Ourselves: to actively search and face our inner demons/problems/weaknesss and try not to tear others down openly. Using projection as a tool to destroy.

... but Help Ourselves may really mean focus on our lives rather than the people here, creating a whole other world here, that not only has positive , "good vibe" feelings< but also all the Bad stuff we have inside, bring here, create here, and won't let go. Help ourselves by looking within, and being able to let go of all the negative stuff we carry within, and project on others. I think everyone, including myself, needs to re-read the site rules, let go of the past, and just allow others to find their way. I don't expect everyone to like me, or talk to me, because we have fundamental differences and beleif systems, or spending too much time here, posting to too many threads ( I think I'm doing that) and if i don't care for others I'm not going start a grudge match, on any level, and "stalk" them directly either. Examine why we don't like someone. Is it really because they are harmfull or due to our self harming ways? Thats the respectful thing to do for everyone. In real life, and everywhere. It shows a lot of recovery and growth.It doesn't create wedges, uncomfortable innuendos, or paranoi, or bring added strife. Isn't that what we're all here for?

December 4, 2008
5:52 pm
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I like this post MsG.


December 5, 2008
7:37 pm
this is off....be on this forum for years....not just since last year..we can email each other Now? that Nappy is long gone....
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I like this post too.....nothing to add. Horsefly

December 6, 2008
4:04 am
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Agreed. The insensitivity that some have all too often shown towards others here is pretty disheartening to say the least. There should be a site for the self righteous cranky sort. Ha

December 6, 2008
8:19 am

CraigCo, this thread was made about stuff that was going on on the Support side before. I dont know what it was because I've not been there but people were saying there were some attacks going and stuff. I thikn its over now.

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