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Hello, Revelation here...I got ENGAGED!!
August 16, 2005
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Hi All,

I had to come and share the good news. I really really hope that this does not make anyone who's nursing broken hearts go on a downer.

After having my heart trampled on over and over again, basically since I popped out of my mothers womb (in fact the first 'trampler' was my mother!!) a nice positive thing has happened.

So I hope that instead of getting people down, that this post will maybe give people hope??? Thats what I'd like this post to achieve. As I've said before, I wasted years on complete LOSERS. I've known my guy now almost 10 years, but we only got together 2 years ago, basically we could have got together before that, had I not been so busy hanging on to hope for a selection of "unavailables" or "undesirables" ;-). Me and he have definitely had our ups and downs, but we've both worked hard this past 9 months to make a go of loving each other...now look whats come of it->>>>>>

He popped the question! It was nothing showy or spectacular, but it was lovely and romantic and cute and funny. I was having trouble with the car, last night he showed up at my job to walk me home (Since I had not car). We got home, made some tea, and lay as we usually do watching TV in bed, when all of a sudden under the covers, something square and velvet lands on my belly, I left up the duvet, find a li'l blue velvet box and inside is a lovely perfect ring (He MUST have asked my sisters, they know off-by-heart what I'd like) and he says...."So...will ya marry me?"
...I burst in to tears...and then said Yes!

Nothing else planned as yet, right now, I'm whoosh...a bit flustered, warm, butterflies, love!

August 16, 2005
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That is so wonderful. Makes me feel all girly and weepy.

Iwish you all the best life has to offer, especially a healthy and respectful relationship.

August 16, 2005
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Rev,

Congrats!!! I am so happy for you. I hope each one of us here on this board will find happiness someday in the same way!!!

God bless!

~Love & Kisses, RAS~

August 16, 2005
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Oh ((((Rev)))),

What a cause for celebration!!!

That is wonderful news, many of us know the heartaches you have had during this past year. I pray that all works out well and you have a wonderful life together.

Many, many blessings to you!

CM

August 16, 2005
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(((((REV)))))),

Strangely enough I thought of you today......

I ran into a friend of mine today at work. He is from Ireland and had gone back there last year. I haven't seen him for almost a year and lo and behold....there he was....in the store I work in. We talked for a bit and apparently he's planning on moving back to Ireland for good. The point is....it made me think of you.

Anyway on to the good news......

I'm so excited for you.....CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! I wish you the best and hope that you have a wonderful life together.....you deserve it!!!!

Good luck,
Lolli

August 17, 2005
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Hello, I wrote a reply but then crashed out! So, I hope this isn't a double reply.

Basically I just want to say thanks to all of you for your wishes. I have made so many friends here, I wish I could charter a jet from the US to Eire for the big day!

This place and all of you have gotten me through some hard times, now what I want to do is try to help others through it. I won't have a lot of time to spend here, but I want to try to help. I see so many people here with stories of heartbreak and despair and I want to reach in and grab them out of that dark place before it swallows them.

Thanks again you all, wish I could show you the ring, its platinum with a square cut solitaire!!

When I look at it I get all "Marylin" and start humming
"Diamonds are a girls best friend"

You are all DIAMONDS!

August 17, 2005
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(((((REVELATION)))))))))
I am sitting here withwarm fuzzies and happy tears in my eyes for you!!1 how wonderful!!1
I am sooo excited for you, and so thrilled that this happened!!! I wiash I could throw you a shower and hug ya' ihn person, but heres a big ole Cyber warm fuzzy hug for Ya'
(((((((Rev))))
WHoooooooo -hoooooo!!!!!
I m so excited!!1
Sooo, whats the ring look like??? princess cut/platinum??? marquis??/ waht??/ tell me tell me show me shrae!!! LOLOL Im giddy like a school girl wanti' deatils, but thanks sooooo much for sharingwith your cyber familia!!11
😀 big smiles for YOU!!!!!
Pardon me... DUHHHHh I worte all this before i evne read all the posts becasue i was so excited for you!!!
My dream ring is platinum and princess cut((square)) sooo, sorry i skiped ahead before I read ALLL the posts, I was just so excited, I had ot type!!!
And Im not even going ot delete my faux pas!! hee hee!!
Whooo hooo for you and youre FIANCE' hee heee
Still giddy !!!
((((hugs))))))))
LOVe Ya'
Ladybugaw

August 17, 2005
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revalation:

CONGRATS to you. That is wonderful news.

I am so happy to hear you want to help others that are goin thru what you have lived. That's what life is all about. Helping those that are where you were. What a great honor it will be for you. I'm sure you will do great at it also.

I'm really proud of you. 🙂

August 17, 2005
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Hello Ladeez,

Mamac, thanks for the good wishes, I'll try my best, be hard to beat you at helping others tho'!

AW....hey, I'm so glad you are excited. You won't believe it but your description of your perfect ring is also mine! and thats what I got!
I described the ring in my first post which crashed out on me.
Its platinum with a D-shaped band, not to thin as I have long fingers (I stipulated all of this to my sisters years ago!) and a solitaire square-cut diamond. So, I thought that maybe he'd asked my sisters for some advice, and I was right...but how sly he was!! He was looking at a jewellery catalogue with my sister and they were talking about rings that SHE liked and then he'd ask..."Would "Rev" were that?" and she'd say, well yeh, but maybe with a thicker band...and basically thats how he knew what kinda ring to get!
So, Its all a bit surreal at the moment, we told the folks yesterday, both sets, they were very happy of course. We are having a li'l party this saturday for friends and the younger family members. We want to have a real wild hooley, so no old-folks, I don't want my future mother-in-law to see me do my famous beer-bottle party-trick!!!!

August 17, 2005
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((((rev))) LOL I always thought 2 seperate receptions would be bettr suited for us, a relative one, andthe friends one where we can be ourselves

August 17, 2005
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Dear, wonderful, sweet, Revelation:

Oh, love! This brings tears of joy to my eyes. What wonderful news--for a woman as yourself so sensitive and filled with love; so earnest and giving. You are blessed with love!

Might I say how blessed you are too to have such a good man. I am remembering all of the posts in recent months, and I gathered that he is a very patient and understanding as well as supportive chap. Bless both of you!

From the very sincerest part of my heart, I wish you all the best. Enjoy this happy time.

Love you, revs--2b

August 17, 2005
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Thanks 2b, how you doing? I read a lovely positive post from you last week...you still ok? Hope so.

Another thought to add....I have decided that I will not get hitched until I've lost 50LB's. That may not be a healthy attitude, it may not be "loving myself" but hey...its giving me something to aim for. Thats ok isn't it?

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