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Handleing the stress of the crossroads...
April 15, 2005
6:15 pm
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cuthul
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Got a lot of decisions to make over here, and am feeling a little overwhelmed in dealing with them all. I was wondering if I might get some feedback on how to deal with it all.

Custody battle in May. I may get my son and go back to full time dad mode. May not. He is being drugged in a dysfunctional family, where the professionals here felt he didnt have severe ADHD that needed medication.

New GF who is nice, but still emotionally bound to the ex. I am sort of in waiting for the ex to come around, but I dont know if she will. The new gal is really wonderful, but I dont feel the connection I had. I couldnt ask for a kinder person.

Career choices.. ugh. Maintain what I am doing.. half time work but sufficiant to pay the bills, more time for my kid if I get him, no bennifits. I have a good set up of friends and activities in my area. Live off the beach, walking distance to the school, very safe neighborhood, pool, parking.

Step up contracting. I have offers for full time at 55/hour, no bennies. Expect 10/hours per day including the commute, but wouldnt have to relocate.

Drop contracting, relocate down the coast for a full time position at 110k w nice bennies. Less time for my kid if I get him, military related work which I enjoy. Means giving up the town I love, but so many memories with the ex here too.

May be going professional/performances/modeling in the fetish world.

So much depends on my kid, trying to figure out ways to balance being me with it too. Yes, I know in many ways I am luck to have these kinds of choices to make, but I am having a harder time prioritizing. Everyone wants a decision right away. I am wondering what impressions you guys may have.

April 15, 2005
6:16 pm
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whoops, ended up in liberation. Ah well, as good here as anywhere.

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