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Guppy & Fried Onion
January 27, 2006
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How YOU doin?

Did you get those favorites figured out, Gup?

I didn't want to make a pile of threads, but I'd love to hear about how D Dog, Young'n and Free2choose are doing . . . along with anyone else who wants to say hello.

I'll be back later. Hope to see you all!

January 27, 2006
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why howdy bloomin onion!! i got my favorites fixed. copied them down on pen and paper and just redid them on here. 🙂 (where's theres a will, theres a way)

i was just thinking about d dog this morning. i wonder if she has decided on her job switch or not. u know, whether to go by herself and start over, take h with her, or stay put.
how about it d dog? or are u still moonin over ricky martin..;)

y and r has been giving me a lesson on oxymorons on libs.her and mama cinnnamon are pretty clever.....

January 27, 2006
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were u able to help depression the other day?? worried about her.....

January 27, 2006
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where did u stay in jamaica? it's beautiful there isnt it? i spent ten days there one time. loved it. 🙂

January 27, 2006
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guppy and fried onion??...huh??

sounds like a mcsnack for a mcmidget

January 27, 2006
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I think D decided that San Jose was too expensive. Last I heard she was starting therapy and stopping drinking.

I don't know if I personally did any good for DS. I think she got good news from her Doc.

We stayed in Negril at Treehouse, Rock Cliffs and one other place I can't remember. Of course, that required a couple of nights in Montego Bay. My impression of Jamaica: Beautiful place, excellent food & plants - very desperate people. What did you think?

Guppy & Fried Onion is a delicacy in some cultures.

January 27, 2006
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one the third day there my dad and my h stayed in the bar all night....didn't see them till three days later...we staid at a adults only hotel, but i cant remember the name. because i was left high and dry for really four days. the staff at the hotel became my instant friends. i went out at night in the town to a local dance. way cool, got to see how jamaicans really live....for the most part i got that they kinda frowned on marriage. most of the men have a woman in one settlement and another in another settlement. the women are aware but have a hard time changing it. the women usually support themselves and their children. schools are not free. if u cannot afford to send your child, they grow up in poverty, with little way out. most of the young men at our hotel were hoping to enter military school. (this seems to be a big deal there.) they dont have any kind of trash pick up. did ya notice??? yew!!! most said they had never had a christmas like we do. its just not done there. i got to see both side of culinary life too. the chef at the hotel could really produce, but i went home with some and got to see what they actually eat there. (a very big difference) long story short, the hotel life is a fantacy.

when u stayed there, was hedonism built yet. it's a hotel for adults that caters to adult party. wew, the stories i heard about that!!!!

oh yea, i met and talked to all the other couples there too. but i had the most fun outside of the hotel.

and i realized that the best way to serve duck (to me anyway) is chuck it in the trash and bring something else. YYYUUUKKKKK!!!!!:)

January 27, 2006
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i meant on the first

AND u know i am going to ask...how did u manage to get to jamaica? i thought u were poor. been by yourself for what how long?. twelve years???? go wth your parents???
hhhmmm? HHHmmmm? hhhmmm????:0

come on Friend, fill in the gaps for me , ok?!

lets put it this way, by the time the two drunks got up, i had been adopted by the locals. 🙂 i'm a very nice guppy..

January 27, 2006
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the biggest thing that shocked me,was, for the most part,they dont teach their kids to swim.

January 27, 2006
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and u've been to europe? u lucky little shit. where exactly did u get to go? i want to see italy one day!
i think i do anyway.

January 27, 2006
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guppy and fried onion-a delicacy?
where at, in the land of the wee little people????;) u so silly.

sounds more like a fish with onion breath. ha ha

or a slimy onion....

January 27, 2006
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and can u believe one night i sat in the kitchin and the chef made me and my friends pizza to eat......

and most of them guessed i was from alabama.

u name this thread right. guppy. i am just going to town talking to myself................

January 27, 2006
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swimming off for the night. come on, onion, open up, flex those fingers and give me more detail on your background. there's obviously alot more to u than u let on....onion with many layers?

guppy over and out..

January 27, 2006
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and no where above did i call u a LIAR. so stay off that soapbox...

January 28, 2006
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bumped up

January 28, 2006
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I went to Jamaica with four friends, back in 94. Hedonism II is in Negril, I believe. I was freelancing for a big Ad Agency at the time, so my finances were a lot different then.

I'm glad the locals were kind to you. One of my buddies was robbed at knife point - he lost about $1500.00. Between that and the constant panhandling, I was left with the impression that the people were pretty desperate.

Not lucky - I planned and paid for the trips to Europe (3 actually). I have friends and family in England, been there all 3 times and seen the country from Devon to London to Birmingham. I spent the Milennium getting drunk in the streets of London with about 3 million brits. (I've never seen so many people.)

I've also been to France & Germany I'd love to visit Florence - anywhere in Tuscany would be cool, really. Scotland, The Netherlands and The Czech Republic - that will be my next trip. I'd really like to see Iceland, too. After that it's the South Pacific . . . the list goes on forever.

I haven't been out of the country since April, 2001. That's about the time the "dot com bubble" burst . . .

Just because I'm broke as a joke these days doesn't mean I have always been that way, you know. A lot of people sacrifice the security of a good check to start their own shop. I just never made it back to the income level I once had as an freelancer/employee. At this point, time is more valuable than cash to me, anyway.

I'd just like to understand why the reoccuring theme of "I thought you said you were poor"? If you aren't impling something then what are you getting at? I don't get the intention behind the repeated questions about apparent conflicts in what I've said. Please explain.

January 28, 2006
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nope. just picking on u.

if u go to florence come back and tell me about it in detail. so i will feel like i went. k?

the reason i say that is because my dad went to israel and brought back so many pictures and such, that i feel like i went and dont have a desire to see it anymore.

and i know it isnt safe in jamaica. they basically resent the hell out of americans. heard that lecture repeatedly....know it by heart now.

January 28, 2006
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i'm only picking on u philmore. one of the first times we talked u said u didn't have food in the house. made me feel bad. haven't forgot. dont be mean......

January 28, 2006
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what, nothin else to say....i'm sorry for your struggle and being broke as a joke. obviously U dont think it's funny. all of a sudden i dont care to talk to u anymore tonight. i'm going to bed. good night.

January 28, 2006
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I wonder because it's the same question over and over.

My guess is, maybe you are thinking my lack of money is an excuse - well, you're right. It feels like a safe assumption that a lack of money makes me a less attractive chioce. And it does - which makes it easy for me to give up on the possibility of finding someone. It's easy for me to avoid risking the rejection, or at least explain it away!

The truth is, I have given up on having a romantic relationship for now - because I have nothing practical to offer. Good conversation and whatever else I have to give certainly don't make me a good choice as a mate, or even a date.

Obviously, there is a lot more to being a responsible husband and father than I am willing to do. I own that fact. Money is only a part of it.

If I find an attractive, worthwhile woman, who wants to get involved with a broke, immobile, half-blind stoner, I promise I'll get all dolled up and even dance a two-step, if necessary.

January 28, 2006
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I guess I'm just over analyzing the whole thing.

I'm so used to being questioned that I guess I'm over-sensitive about repeated questions. It's just sad for me, because I have so often felt like the people closest to me don't trust me. It's my own fault, I know. Still, it hurts, after so much work on myself and so much change, to still feel like a suspect, or something. Usually, my family just disregards my words out of hand, simply because I am me, because of my history.

I don't think being hungry is funny, I'm not mad about it or anything. It's my own damn fault. Don't feel sorry for me, I do enough of that for all of us.

You're too fast for me. I'll check you later.

January 28, 2006
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philmore-i'm sorry for your struggle with your family. i dont know that side of u, do i? only what u say on here. all i can go by is what u are willing to expose. now, at least i have some understanding about where u are coming from. as far as friends go philmore, i dont give a rats ass how much or how little money u have. what i am interested in, is who u are. are u happy? do u have the ability to play? do u know how to make the best out of a less than perfect situation? i have been on both ends of the haves and have nots. i'm still me. i do go out and salt water fish with the hob nob of society, BUT i also have just as much fun sitting on a icechest fishing out of a pond and running up the bank in order to pull up a catfish. i scuba dive with a denstist and her husband in steinhatchee, but i also throw a intertube in the river and be gone for hours. u know, i drive a jeep so i can see and be independent. the dimwit i live with, tried to trade my jeep in and buy me a bmw with tinted windows no less. (just blind fold me and send me in the street to play) i took it to the mulch place and filled it full of mulch. weighed that sucker down. looked funny as hell. (I got my jeep back) i have little respect for my husband because it is all about how everything looks to everybody else. he's about as deep as a shallow well. i play golf with other people. what the idiot here misses is i need help to play and he is to full of himself to arrogant to even think about why i ask.

if u are going to learn to line dance or whatever , do it for yourself. not for somebody else. just for your information, i have absolutely no problem getting out there and learning all the dances. i can even do the funky chicken with a preacher no less. BUT i do it for me. to have fun. not to impress anybody. not to keep anybody.

what i would rather hear about u philmore, is u know how to go to the zoo and enjoy every min of it. and sit on the sidewalk and eat a popcycle and like it. material things are icing on the cake in life, it comes and sometimes it goes, but integrity and who u are, are what u choose to be. (that is what i am trying to figure out about u) i know people, who when u say, hey lets go camping. they automatically think huge thirty foot camper. airconditoner. the whole nine yards. yea, its fun that way , but if u can't load up with a tent and a sleeping bag and make an adventure out of it, then u missed the boat as far as i'm concerned.

dont get me wrong. i know it hurts to be where u are. i feel for u. and i can hear it hurts you. but what i want to know about you, is what is in your head and your heart, not whats on the seat of your ass. i'm one of those women that will share my cookies with u when u have none, and celebrate for u when u get to eat cavier. YYYYEEEAAA for u. get it???? i'm not after u. i'm married. that stands for something. for me anyway. i'm trying to get to know u.
the real u. not the fluff. i'm sorry if i tick u off with this. i'm trying to spell it out for u as plain and simple as i can. what u chose to do with it is up to u.....

((((randy))))

January 28, 2006
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alright we've established the fact that you are broke, and too immature to have a wife, girlfriend, or a family. and at one time u made alot of money and had a good life.apparently it worked for u. now u are trying to be independent and make it on your own. it's a struggle. you've took a serious cut in your lifestyle and wallet. it sounds like your pride has took the worst beating. and u might have found out who your real friends are....and maybe u are starting to look in the mirror? i dont know. just a guess.

what i would like to know is are u too immature to have a friend. i hear u. u are a stoner. did u know it changes the pressure in your eyes? that's a risk i;m not willing to expose myself to. beieve it or not, i like being able to see, and plan on keeping that ability as long as i can. now that u know that. ask yourself this, if i stopped by to say hi, would yu light up without regard to me? my friends dont.now this is only pretend, but what i want to know is what kind of person are u??cause i can tell u i heard the fact that u have glaucoma at the get go. i wouldn't put u in a spot to fall on your face. i am curious. excactly what do u see???

and i hear what u are saying. u messed up. you feel like your family dont trust u or believe in u anymore. your right. trust is the easiest thing to throw away and the hardest to get back. it takes time. alot of time. maybe they feel like u are only biding your time till u move on to soemthing else. in other words , are u being sincere, or are u showing them the face they want to see. only u know that answer.

i've got to go. i'll be back about ten pm my time. wanna talk? there's your chance. i do. see ya

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the reason i asked u aboutyour education is because (shock) i told sheri and Dr. Tammi a little bit about u when we were fishing last saturday. one of them gave me the idea to ask u. my life is not a secret. and believe me, i wouldnt betray what u say. just telling them about your jokes and your obvious intelligence. they asked me what u do for a living. (didn't know).

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i'll tell u what i see. i'm legally blind in my left eye. look at a dinner plate. i can see about the area of the rim. the whole inside is gone, part disease, part lazer, but it is gone. my right eye -cut the dinner plate down the middle. move it over to the right a little. everything to the right is gone. in other words when i look at someone i see not quiet their whole face. and a part of the upper corner is gone. (tht is more nusience than anything)
not that many people know what i see and what i dont. oh yea, i carry a number in my purse i am supposed to call if i get the headache. (i am told i will know it. yea.... right.)
supposedly massive dose of antibiotics might stop me from losing it all. i used to see a retinal specialist in jacksonville every six months. but the last several years i have quit. all it ever did was make me worry all over for awhile....so now i go when he calls me up and chews me out. 🙂 after i drag it out several months.

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