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Guest, reply to your question: if I get angry at girl's abusive bf, am I co-dependent?
April 1, 2006
7:18 pm
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guest_guest,

I'd posted this originally on WD's thread in response to your post there, but later felt it more appropriate to open my own thread. I was tempted to put in on Bonni's thread (If "A" calls "B" ...), but I didn't want to crash her thread. So I'm reposting it here.

Guest, To reply to a previous comment of yours, if a woman's bf abuses her, I have every freaking right to get angry at him. It's not codependent, and even if it was, I don't care. It's not being willing to tolerate even the thought of a man abusing a woman. It's about decency. It's about honor.

Men have such an unfair advantage over women when it comes to abuse. I know personally of one example and it deeply saddens me to see how terrified she is of him, and of how she'll do anything so that he won't beat her. We men have to stick up for any woman we know of who's being abused. We're the best ones to keep ourselves in line.

So don't you go telling me I don't have the right to get angry at the **** of a guy that's abusing this woman I know.

April 1, 2006
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seeker!! you would not be crashing the thread!! Please come and post on it because this is exactly what I am seeking, some feedback...!!

luv ya,

~~bonita

April 1, 2006
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ok so you wanted to start another thread, alright.

You shouldnt have done so though, there are too many "conflict" threads. Anyway, ok.

>> It's about decency. It's about honor. < < I think one can be honourous and doesnt have to be angry at the abuse. Can somoene explain it better than me? What would be the step-by-step emotionally healthy response, if your dear female friend was being abused by her BF? >> Men have such an unfair advantage over women when it comes to abuse < < And what is that advantage? How did it end up in Men in the first place? Is it there because of societal conditioning, os it there because of genes etc?

April 1, 2006
7:26 pm
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yes I dont think there was a need to start another thread.

April 1, 2006
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come back you two!!! coooommmmeeee baaaaaccck!!! (sheesh, i feel like Dory in "Finding Nemo" ha ha)

April 1, 2006
7:31 pm
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ok Seeker, lets keep it there in the other thread.

April 1, 2006
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delete delete this thread!!!!!!!!!!

April 1, 2006
7:36 pm
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DELETEEEEEEEE ya da da ya.

Anoyne who replies after me kisses their cellphone when no one's looking

April 1, 2006
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April 1, 2006
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Bonita,

I hear you. I'm coooommmmiiing baaaaaaaack, Dory. :o)

I'll move this over to your thread. Thank you for the invitation. I didn't want to invade your thread without your permission.

This thread is now sinking ... abandon shippppppp.

Lov ya,
Seeker

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