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does pride matter in this situation?
February 6, 2006
6:16 am
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i just nid ur feedback badly,thanx!!! here's what happend.... its my ex.... definitely.. we had a relationship, unfortunaltely it didnt worked because in the first place i played as her 2nd girlfriend...since it was not right having two girlfriends she broke up with me because she just had to let go of me,bcoz she loves most the first one.so we cut all our communications and especially our frienship, was also broken.... it hurts me alot...and here's the bad part in our situation, she's my classmate and groupmate in our college which means were working 8 hours a day, you know seeing her and being with her is a pain in the ass.... how will i forget her then? basta ang hirap.... so its been a year...but i can still think of her... ijust cant forget her, well maybe beacause i always see her everyday... or i jsut missed our frienship, were bestfriends before.... and do you think is it okay if i try to approach her and pretend like nothing happened oh not pretend just forget what happend?odes pride matter in this situation?

February 6, 2006
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I am so sorry you are hurting. I can imagine how difficult it would be to see the person who broke my heart day in and day out.

I think it might help for you to keep your focus on the task at hand as much as possible.

Is there any way you can be in a different group?

Is there any chance you are putting her on a pedestal? If so it can help a lot to take the person off the pedestal, to see them as an ordinary human being with faults.

what does "basta ang hirap" mean?

If you pretend like nothing happended I don't think you are being true to yourself because a lot did happen.

What do you want to gain in talking to her? What do you want to say to her? Can you be friends with her without wanting more, without wishing for more? without it causing you pain?

Do what honors YOU the most and is in your the best interest in the long run.

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