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dear lolli, regarding housewives....
November 1, 2010
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did
anyone here say we were better than anyone else?

I know I
didn't....my goal is to be better than I expect I can be...better
than ME!

hey guys...what
does it mean when the sister of an ex from nine years ago contacts
you on FB and tells you to call her brother???????? dear god...not
someone I want to hear from, but I worry....he had
"issues"...praying he is not contacting me for any type of medical
reasons...ugh (tho I have been tested clean for last nine
years).

was in ER on
friday...host of issues - all stemming from change in weather and
stress.....walked out with six scripts.

didn't take little
guy trick or treating....MIL was sick, so I didn't get my "break"
this weekend (B didn't come home until last night)....little guy
didn't take a nap and we had snow all weekend....didn't amount ot
much, but was not conducive to trick or treating....we don't need
the candy either.

WAY behind on
homework...was just too sicky feeling to wrap my head around
writing a paper.

November 1, 2010
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You
keep bad mouthing wd lolli. Not cool, not necessary, and not
nice.

No rising, I have
not seen anybody specifically state they were better than anyone
else.

andii

November 1, 2010
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"You
keep bad mouthing wd lolli. Not cool, not necessary, and not
nice."

Also not your
business Free.

WD is a big boy
and surely doesn't need you following posters around to stir the
pot.

Of course you
always did (and do) love the drama and this time is no
exception.

Just like
him...your words and behavior are consistantly contradictory and I
can't imagine anyone would take you seriously as this
point.

Now where DID I
put that fly swatter......

November 1, 2010
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andi:
and are wd's mother or something? Are you even able to myob? You
love coming onto lolli's threads and making comments when it
doesn't involve you at all. I get tired of seeing your here, its
the same old thing over and over. Show some class, have some
dignity and knock it off.

sd

November 1, 2010
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Hi
Rising,

I have in the past
that if you ignore Free long enough, she eventually loses interest
and moves on to something else.

I'm no doctor, but
I believe if you have tested clean for that length of time, I'm
sure you don't have to worry as far as that type of thing is
concerned. Can you ask his sister via Facebook, why she thinks you
should contact him? It may help to ask directly instead of
speculating and worrying yourself. Especially if you are having
stress related health issues!

Speaking of
which....are you ok?

I wouldn't worry
too much about the trick or treating...he is still young yet and
probably doesn't really understand the whole thing
anyway.

Snow??
Yuck.

November 1, 2010
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She
can't help herself SD.....it's an addiction.

Can you say
PRO-JEC-TIONNNNNN

November 1, 2010
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And
here's the point where she will go off to other threads and pretend
she is the victim of us "bullies".

Same as it ever
was.

It's laughable
really.

November 1, 2010
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Rising - although I know you work very hard at it, you've
always seemed to be one of those people where school comes very
easy to you. You're so fortunate! And to get such great grades too?
Amazing. I think school started to get more difficult for me about
mid way through high school... when I began to date and lose
interest in anything else BUT boys. lol Keep it up - it's going to
pay off soon :o)

As for the frugal
holiday. I think it's going to be frugal from now until after the
first of the year! You've raised good kids, rising, and living
outside of the city is definitely a good thing. $50 per kid sound
pretty good to me! Shoot, I'd be more than happy with a $50 gift
:o)!!! We're having everyone over for the holidays, which will be
great, but will ad some added pressure to get things repaired and
functioning around our house. l'm thinking more along the lines of
a gift exchange, rather than having to buy gifts for everyone. That
will cut down on expenses for sure!

SD - I had to
laugh when you said that your date had all of his teeth and hair.
It's funny what attributes make it to the top of our list as we get
older! One thing though, about nerds ... I've had a couple of big
crushes on nerds in my time. I had a teacher in college that was so
nerdy, and SOOOOOOO smart - I just used to stare at him in awe.
When he would ask for a volunteer to demonstrate something, I would
hurl myself to the front of the class before anyone else had a
chance. Maybe this guy will work out? Although, I'm not sure about
the ex thing yet. Keep us posted.

Miss Lolli - I
think the step son will make his own case, and you and ff will get
custody. That's my prediction. My God, it's the most sane of all
options, with his mother being such a freak.

Welcome
Crystalwaters :o)

Free - Just go
away. I can't speak for anyone else here, but I don't care about
your thoughts and opinions on anything, much less about how you
think WD should be treated. Why don't you focus on yourself, or
people that don't know your history here.

November 1, 2010
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shaney - my good grades surely aren't coming easy this
time...that's FOR sure.

and I think it's
harder to learn study skills at my age, whereas someone who always
had to struggle KNOWS what works for them at this point.

I always spoiled
my kid - so it seems irrational to give a limit of $50 - especially
in the area where I grew up...but yeah, gotta do what gotta do....C
is old enough to understand, and B isn't old enough to realize
anything different....and yes, doesn't understand trick or
treating.

Funny story....was
talking to him on the way home last night, trying to make a point,
I pointed out the kids going door to door getting candy - telling
him if he had complied with naptime, he could do that...he goes
"but I did that mommy already"....and went on to talk about when he
was on the float in the fourth of july parade, he was throwing
candy out to the kids.....he equated this with that...was funny
that he remembered it...or that I even understood the message he
was trying to give me...lol.

I feel like doodoo
today - but I will get by.....

oh and about the
ex - he didn't have anything to say, other than he has been single,
and found a very nice card I gave him nine years ago and he figured
he would look me up.

the distraction
might be nice, but exes are exes for a reason, and I don't think I
would want to rekindle this one.

November 1, 2010
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Your
accusations are not true. What you have posted about wd and the
names you have called him and me are not cool, unnecessary, and not
nice. Everyone is welcomed here, well that includes me. I am not
being rude to you, calling you names, or making what I know to be
false accusations. Each of you is doing one or more of the
following: being rude, making false accusations, calling names,
using vulgar language. I am not willing to sit quietly and watch
that occur to myself or anybody else here.

andii

November 1, 2010
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Wow,
#&*%@!% wow! I am sooo slow on the uptake here. Haven't been
around much, but it seems the more things change, the more they
stay the same... in some cases anyway.

Hi girls! sounds
like life is treating everyone pretty good. Lolli, congrats on
everything! Wow, so many changes, so much growth. And rising...
nursing school- that's great! I recently finished a graduate
program and am now a clinical nurse specialist. It was a long and
difficult road, but I got it done. Good luck to you, it's not an
easy endeavor.

Shaney, sd, nice
to see you both, too.

Now in all
seriousness, free is back under a new nic? I had no
idea.

Take it easy
everyone,

Isis

November 1, 2010
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Isis,

The accusation
that I am free occurs by these same posters periodically, the first
accusation being over a year ago now. I was banned until the SC
verified my identity. The accusation is not true and not
nice.

andii

November 1, 2010
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Hey
(((Isis)))...good to see you and thank you for the nice compliment
🙂

To answer your
question, and although I know others feel the same, I will only
speak for myself here in that I believe that andii is
free.

I believe it
because #1...her "friend" outed her. #2...if you have ever read any
of her threads it would be as obvious to you as it is to me and
others that she is free. At one point,I actually shared a thread by
free and a thread by "andii".together...they were nearly identical
in posting style, word choice and content. It was pretty amusing
actually. And finally, most posters don't start here with a chip on
their shoulder and an ax to grind but little ole' andii sure did
and strangely enough...the same posters she chooses to follow
around and antagonize are the very same posters that Free used to
follow around and antogonize.

Interesting
coincidences, don't you think.

Oh and back to
#1....her friend outed her.

Good to see you
again Isis...it's like old home week 'round here 🙂

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Not
true and not nice.

andii

November 1, 2010
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Oh
who are you kidding.....that's the only reason you keep coming back
to stir the pot. That's the reason you stick your nose in where it
doesn't belong to try and antagonize people....because you LOVE
IT!

You're no victim
Free...you are a perpetrator and a parasite.

Go tell WD your
bullshit cause I think I can safely say no one on this is
interested.

Oh yeh....they've
all said that already haven't they.

Shoo fly
shoo....

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Once
again lolli, not true.

and once again,
not nice.

andii

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Andii:: do you think it would ever be possible for a few of us
to chat on a thread and not have you invade it? You do this every
time. Its the same thing. It goes no where. So why do you do it?
Rather odd of you, don't you think?

sd

November 2, 2010
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Ohhh... oye vey dahlinks, what can I say...

It's nice to be
back!

November 2, 2010
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absolutely sdsignes. Do not badmouth me or others, on any of
the threads, and I will have no desire to confront or engage you or
the other few who do so.

andii

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andii: The only time I " badmouth" you is when you show up on
Lolli's threads and do the same old tiresome thing. I don't know
what it is you think you're proving but I assure you- you're not
changing anyone's mid- so again- why do you do it?? Its flat out
weird.

And....don't tell
me what to do or what threads to do it or not do it on. Now I think
you're really losing it. Thats actually funny. You love to confront
or engage.

Another reason for
you to simply m y o b.

How about you
start your own thread and see who invades it.

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As I
said before sdsigns, I will not sit back quietly and watch you or
the few others badmouth me or other posters. I will not. It's as
simple as that.

Again, do not
badmouth me or other posters and I will have no desire to interact
with you or the few others who do so.

andii

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SD.....she's an idiot (with an addiction ;).

Just use the fly
swatter

SWAT!!

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Hi. I
have a question. When someone starts a thread how can I know if I
am allowed to post on it or not? For example this one only has one
other persons name in the title, but many others have come to post.
I have another question I read in the guidelines about limiting
chit chat. Does that mean we cannot discuss housewives and in my
case farmville? I have been discussing farmville on another thread
and just want to make sure I do not break any rules.
Thanks.

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Hi
puptent.....

Something tells me
you may know this already BUT....

Anyone is allowed
to post on any thread. Period. Regardless of whose name may be in
the title or what the subject matter is. Of course, one wonders WHY
some people would WANT to post on a particular thread when they are
contributing nothing and have been told by just about every poster
on the thread that they are not interested in entertaining their
need for drama...but that's another story (and an addiction from
what I've read). Personally I carry a fly swatter for such posters
and give 'em a big ole SWAT! Just like one might to a gnat flying
around ya know?

Also, the SC does
suggest that we limit chit chat but I believe that pertains more to
the support side than libs. Support side is mainly for people that
are really struggling and seeking help and/or support to deal with
their issues and out of respect for them, I think it's important to
not be talking about the Housewives or Farmville over
there.

Libs is a bit
different.

Hope that helps
🙂

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Thank
you for shedding some light on this subject lollipop3. As you
noticed I am no stranger to forums. Most just require that you
stick to the subject of the thread title and not engage in flame
wars. I figured it would be the same here. With the farmville
thing, it relieves my stress and I did gather I should not be
discussing it on the support site.

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