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December 23, 2008
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hi Healing, just surviving

December 23, 2008
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guest_guest

On the 20-Dec-08 you wrote:

"Shaney: stay away from this thread and if you dont have anything nice to say, then dont say it."

Ahhhhhhhhh ... just as I thought. You can't take the heat when some of what you dish out is returned to you in kind.

Just like Murphy's dog, you can give it but you can't take it.

What a hypocrite!!

December 23, 2008
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lol Tez is here. Hey Tez, do you really believe in reincarnation? And Nirvana too?

December 23, 2008
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I guess I have to explain it for people who're not intelligent enough to get it.

Having someone not be nice to you at a time when you have shared personal information, when you're seeking advice and have become vulnerable - is different from having someone not be nice to you in the course of a debate on something that doesnt concern your personal life. You're disgusting Tez.

December 23, 2008
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G - you KNOW that I wasn't being mean to you when I posted to you above. I was kidding, joking around - and you didn't get it. Even when I said that I was joking with you, you continued with your drama. I'm not sure if you just took that post as an opportunity to fight with someone so you could play the role of victim, or if you're somehow socially defunct in the area of kidding around, and just didn't get it. Maybe you're foreign? I know that sometimes that reason alone can create a barrier. I also know it's difficult at times to apply emotion to the written word, and there can be misunderstandings. But even after telling you that I was joking, you continue with your drama queen drool. Instead of flying off the handle, did you ever ask yourself why in the heck I would turn on a dime and be mean to you, after supporting you this whole time? I think you see that, actually, and just enjoy the fight... the drama. That's my opinion. Especially since I see you do it with others too. But in this case, count me out. I'm done with your sophomoric behavior and accusations - and I'm done posting to you. Good luck with your current situation - not necessarily your emotional and mental situation, but the one with the teacher. Let's hope that if she attempts to kid around with you, you can curb your urge to tell her to "GO AWAY."

December 23, 2008
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It was nice meeting you too Shaney

December 23, 2008
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guest,,,

key word here for you may be being 'vulnerable'. Maybe ask yourself what happens to you when you are being 'vulnerable'.

December 23, 2008
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Shaney

On the 23-Dec-08 speaking to Guest_guest you asked:

"Maybe you're foreign?"

Foreign!!!! Foreign!!!! He comes from a different planet called Uranus. He's an A...HOLE!!

You are so very kind in trying to appeal to G_g's non-existent better self. Methinks you are wasting your time. You got it right on all accounts when you wrote:

"I'm not sure if you just took that post as an opportunity to fight with someone so you could play the role of victim, or if you're somehow socially defunct in the area of kidding around, and just didn't get it."

You are dealing with a sociopath who is 'as thick as a brick' and who has 'a few kangaroos loose in the top paddock'.

I have finally discovered that ignoring him is the best way of dealing with this highly intellectually challenged person.

December 23, 2008
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lol, Tez called me an ASSHOLE. wow!

This is taking things to a new height. Where is your Buddhist tolerance, peace and compassion now, Tez?

December 23, 2008
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Danmm, I must have done something right to make Tez come out of his Dalai Lama thread and attack on this personal thread of mine where I was asking advice. lol. Tez, just for you I'm going to buy some Buddha clay statues and relieve myself on them and send you a video.

December 23, 2008
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guest_guest.

I never tire of repeating that I am not a Buddhist.

However since you pointed out that my exposing the truth about you, though wise, ou may not be compassionate, I might have to reiterate what you wrote to Mary with feigned humility:

"Ok I apologize, Mary pointed out the guidelines for me. I forgot they applied to the Libs side too. I'll be more careful."

Ditto ... says I with tongue firmly in cheek.

You can give it but you can't take it, fella.

Do yourself a favour and join the US army. Working with a half-smart ... like you are, they might just be able to make a man out of you yet. But even for them, this would be a humungous challenge. Have you ever had a real job where you worked amongst real men? In OZ here you'd have been swallowing 'bunches of fives' on a regular basis until you 'shaped up'. Your dental bill would have been astounding.

December 23, 2008
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Tez

"I have finally discovered that ignoring him is the best way of dealing with this highly intellectually challenged person."

I believe that I have come to the same conclusion. Your colorful assessment of g-hole, and your advice is much appreciated. :o)

December 23, 2008
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Tez, I didnt say you were a buddhist, but you do love Buddha right? So there.

Shaney, more name calling. You called me a g-hole. Such a nice person you are. Stand beside that Buddha statue I got and I'll shoot two birds with one stream.

December 23, 2008
6:22 pm
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Shaney.

Thanks for your appreciation and your posts.

December 23, 2008
6:30 pm
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G_hole.

Shaney got a 'hole in one'. You are exposed for all to see.

You can give it but when it is returned in kind you act like the 'wuss' that you are and 'cry foul' like a whinging, whining sniveller that you are.

Murphy's dog can take it better than you can. Cop it on the chin like a man that you aren't. No wonder no woman will have you on. I bet you are still 'have your cherry', and are still 'wet behind the ears'.

December 23, 2008
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Whoops! I realize that I am 'off topic' - Dating Advice.

G-Hole, what kind of a 'wuss' who, at your age, has to come here on line seeking the advice from women on how to 'win a woman'? The ladies here have a level of patience with you that is to their eternal credit.

December 23, 2008
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Tez, atleast I had a problem and wasnt afraid to admit it. I dont mind coming here and asking for advice. You're really showing your true colors. I wonder what triggered it. It must be my 'real' insights on the Lama or something else.

December 23, 2008
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(((Guest)))

Please don't take all these attacks personal... It appears there is much growing up to do on all sides here in regard to the personal attacks back and forth.

I suppose everyone is letting it out, but man it seems harsh back and forth.

I'm hoping that all can come to an agreement that you don't agree with the teachings that Tez beleives in, and he doesn't agree with how you have voiced your feelings on the teachings as well.

None of it is my business, but I can't help but to feel bad for what has been said to you now.

Respectfully and kindly Guys - Guest has come on here and opened up about his fears, and talking to women, is it really fair or nice to make such verbal attacks on him like this.

I sincerely hope that this can be worked out, as so many things stated seem so hurtful. Growing no matter what you beleive in or don't beleive in is about letting go and learning you don't have that need to make a personal verbal attack on others anymore. All the talk about anger on the insight thread and how anger is a sign of weakness then this kind of weakness expressed in the way of anger voiced... I'd would have rather not say anything at all but when I read so many hurtful things said I felt compelled to say "Come on Guys" this isn't being very mature at all.

Guest started off saying he doesn't agree with the insights or the teachings but that lead to more and more attacks which now have turned into personal attacks on one snother.

I sincerely wish you all a Happy New Year!

Healing and Peace

December 23, 2008
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thanks Healing. I will continue to come here for advice. It doesnt bother me. When I started talking against the Dalai Lama, I was prepared for this. I knew it would happen. I knew some people would have that much hate and spite in themselves to attack me when I had not attacked them. Criticising the Dalai Lama was not an attack on them but they thought it was.

I will try to ignore these morons who called me names. I will make sure to quote Tez now on every post on the Insight thread so people know what true Buddhism and peace and compassion really is in practice.

December 23, 2008
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((((guest_guest))))

You have a lot of anxiety. I get like this too sometimes. I think too much. I think in a way that is very unpleasant, circling around and around. I am not dating, but if I was, I would certainly be this way about anyone I was interested in.

I get this way when something that is very important to me is out of my control. I had a custody battle with my ex that drove me to such horrific anxiety.

I would flip a penny to make the simplest decisions. Like should I put this word in my motion heads yes, tails no. I would think so hard about the smallest things and paralyze myself with indecision.

These are the things that help me when I am feeling this way and my mind is in overdrive-- very rigorous exercise, preferably outside. Like long uphill hiking in the cold, or karate. Also, yoga has been tremendously helpful, and meditation. (Meditation does not belong to Buddhism) A meditation or yoga class is cheaper than a therapist. So is karate. Hiking is free.

I have found that the greater my anxiety, the more intense the exercise needs to be. Mild anxiety can be quelled with a walk around the block. But I've got to bust out and run or bike to quiet the big stuff.

Best wishes to you guest.

December 23, 2008
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There G_Hole isn't that what you were angling for all along - as if I didn't know; that is, to goad me into discrediting myself so that you could play the poor little, hard done by victim?

Well here above is your Merry XMAS present - enjoy!

I am compassionate in putting my self-interests last after all.

December 23, 2008
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Soofoo, thats what is is, anxiety and constant fear.

I had wanted to begin working out again (like many plans in the past) but I end up being paralized and scared of the weight bench. Its very hard to be motivated.

December 23, 2008
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Guest_guest from the Dalai Lama thread - 22 Dec 2008.

"This is the LIBS side in case you didnt notice. The Help and Support side is on the Support threads. Nice try, as usual."

December 23, 2008
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There's too many people over there. I just wanted a few people. Plus, no one knows me there and I dont have nice friends like Bevdee there.

December 23, 2008
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But, Libs IS for debate, right? No sensitivity required here, if you are to be believed.

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