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confussed but in love
November 19, 2009
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stringtwanger
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I and my wife have been married for about a year and 3 months we have lived togeather for two year and 7 months and been seeing one another for about 3 and 9 months when met I was in a very unhappy marriage and see was a binge drinker I had a place of bisiness a barber shop she is a hairdresser I was setting out in frount of my shop and she stop to talk there was an emedate attraction she said she came from a good christian home but that see was hurting and she could not help herself I told her that Jesus could and would it took a while but she finally ask Him to take over and see was saved and went to rehab a lot of things happened though before things got right we were intimit and she and I got pregnant at one point she got drunk after the baby was born and we lost custody of our son how ever after she got saved and through rehab we got him back and things are going well except I am suffering for co dependent behaviour how can I stop the triggers and forget about the past before we got married she ran around with who ever and if she drinks again there is no telling what evil will come over her.

November 19, 2009
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stringwanger, for support go to the support treads...

November 20, 2009
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darkeye....but if one mentions god, evil, jesus etc... shouldn't that be on this side???

November 20, 2009
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I love my wife I want to get rid of this anger but at nite when I lie in bed I remember all the things she did and I hurt she is good to me most of the time but she seems to be hurting to sometime she seems so distent

November 23, 2009
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string- your wife needs to get clean and sober before you can rebuild a relationship with her. Alanon is a great support group.

November 25, 2009
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She is clean and sober Its her brain that is still healing that takes time she was taking a steroid hor pain that the docter perscribed and 5 months ago when she got confused it was from withdraul from the steriod that messed with her mind

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