Log In
Register
Home
10:08 pm
September 30, 2010
Offline
I think your friend had to tell everyone and stop hiding everything inside. It might be the hardest thing that she has had to ever do in her life but when the storm settles down a bit she will be happier in the long run. I can't imagine how she must feel. Having to pretend that she was straight and having to live that way for so many years. She is going to need your support more than ever now. I hope she can find the church that will accept her. The hardest thing that I have ever had to tell anyone is that I am still a virgin at age 44. Now that I have dealt with it I feel so much better about myself. I have left all the guilt behind me and have started over. Sometimes I jump the gun with relationships but I am learning more and more every day and with a little help from Erica.
Your friend made the right decision. I will pray for her. God will be with her and I know that you as a friend will also be by her side to help her.
Dave
11:05 pm
September 30, 2010
Offline
***Dave, you are such a sweetheart***
4me,
WOW!!! What guts and bravery on the part of your friend. Awesome!!! 😉
I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers, wish her some serenity and stregnth to deal with the "Nuclear" Fallout that will occur due to the big revalation!
Wow!
For me, as hard as coming out was, dealing with the internal stuff was the hardest..the big God questions and stuff. It's a long road, and I wish nothing but peace, stregnth, courage, vision and discernment for your friend.
Thank you for the update, please keep em coming, and thanks fo being such a support for your friend!
Love,
Free
Erica
11:16 am
September 30, 2010
Offline
Thanks to all of you for the support...I always let my friend know that she has people thinking of her, praying for her, and offering encouragement.
She is finally on the right track but it will be a long and difficult road for her...especially with the children she has.
Thanks!!!
11:20 pm
September 30, 2010
Offline
I would almost think that her children might understand better than her husband. I will say more prayers for her tonight. I am proud of her. I respect her for what she has done.
God will watch over her tonight.
Dave
7:38 pm
September 30, 2010
Offline
Nice guy--
Thanks for the prayers...
Just yesterday she decided she should stay with her husband and she's moving to another state...she couldn't bear to see her 11 year-old crying all the time.
I don't think it's in the best interest of anyone, including her children, but I suppose she'll realize this herself one day. Most of us came from dysfunctional families and breaking the pattern is very difficult.
I'm sure her children will one day realize that she meant well but they will also realize their home wasn't a "happy one". You can't fake loving someone or being someone you're not for ever...
11:08 pm
September 30, 2010
Offline
That has to be hard to deal with. I suppose that for the childrens' sake she might have to stay with the family for now. Maybe when they grow up that would be a better time. It was good for her to get that off her chest. At least she could get her feelings out in the open with some people, that is a good thing.
Dave
35
1 Guest(s)
