
5:42 pm

September 27, 2010

oh help,
I have got stuck on a relationship which has ended neither he or I can break up properly. He left saying he couldnt cope with my youngest and leaving me with thousands of pounds of his debts. He is now sponging off his very wealthy father in another country and living the life of a millionaire. Even after all this I am still stuck on him. I am so co-dependant it makes me sick. The more he lets me down and hurts me the more I stick around. Argh I am so dumb. Has anyone got any good advice. Please help me.
5:53 pm

September 27, 2010

I know just how you feel,I being trying to put a good face for every body around me, but inside I feel desperate for my ex's love, that I know there is something wrong with me. Because there was so much disrespect,manupalation and many other bad things from his part that I asked myself how can I be missing him.
6:04 pm

September 30, 2010

Hi silver and sunwer
Welcome. There are 2 sides to this forum. The Libs side is more for discussion and debate, and it doesn't get visited as often.
Support is the best place to get support. Lots of folks have been where you are, and you will learn alot over there.
Look up at the top and you will see
Liberation Brew -->
you can click on Support and repost your thread.
Bevdee
6:04 pm

September 27, 2010

Might I suggest the book Cedependent No More by Melodie Beattie. I think the both of you will see the whys and what fors there. You will get most of your questions there.
I do not recognize either of your names so I will assume you are both new. I would like to say WELCOME. Do keep posting and browse around. The support side of this site has a lot more of what you are seeking; the libs side is good but usually has less folks on this side.
Glad you are both seeking the help you need. 🙂
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