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Calling all of you intellectuals.........
November 5, 2007
9:09 pm
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truthBtold
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I am really kinda confused still and would love to hear your slant on the other support side with regard to my post: "What If I Never Get Over All Of This."

It's quite profound and I sure would appreciate anyone else's perspective/slant on this from all of you heavy thinkers..........Many Thanks! Brenda

November 6, 2007
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Hi Brenda, not sure if I'm a heavy thinker but I have been around this old world along time 67 years.....
I read your post on the other side and my humble opion is. We never fully get over all the stuff we have in our minds and memory. If you think about it, unless we underwent a lobotomy, its there for always. It is what we choose to do with our selves and our lives that matters. Some people want to live in the past on a daily basis, they thrive on it. Others like you have made a decison to move on, to find the good that life does have to offer. I could write a book on my lifes abuses..But then I would be stuck there again and again. I choose to live my life in peace and serenity and realize that none of us can change the past, even God cannot change the past. So, as I said, I choose happines and try to live life just for today, knowing that we all have demons.but it is our chose what we do with them. I found that by accepting them and then letting them go, I can live a better life.I hope the rambling of an old women is just a little helpful to you today. Live and love and just remember that you deserve to be happy 🙂
Love, Peace 🙂

November 6, 2007
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Personally I don't think we 'get over' anything. It's like chicken pox. We 'get over' them but still have the antibodies in our blood. If they antibodies to their job right we don't get chicken pox again.

So all these mentally defeating behaviors we've learned, well they will always be there too. Only we can change our minds to do their job right and replace these thoughts with better ones.

For me it's a long hard process. I'd rather have chicken pox.

November 12, 2007
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Thank you both for your replies.

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