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Are first impressions right?
March 11, 2006
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I just met a woman who I was talking to online. She had a good personality. I didn't see her picture online. When I met her she was cute but I wasn't attracted to her with my first impression. Is it possible to be attracted to her in the future or is my first impression the right one. Has anyone met someone and wasn't attracted at first and then found them attractive later?

March 11, 2006
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nice guy

I always trust my gut feelings about somebody

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March 11, 2006
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Garfield, what do you mean? If I liked her personality but wasn't physically attracted is it possible to be physically attracted later? Kind of grow on you as you get to know them?

March 11, 2006
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nice guy,
My b-in-law saw my sister at a dinner and knew right away he wanted to get to know her better, so he spoke to her. But it took three dates for her to begin to like him....now they are happily married.

March 11, 2006
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Thank you on my way
Maybe I should not be too eagar to look for someone else quite yet. I liked her personality. I am not going to rule her out yet. I needed to hear that. Thank you again.
Dave

March 12, 2006
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nice guy

You said: "If I liked her personality but wasn't physically attracted is it possible to be physically attracted later?

I think if you go on a couple of more dates (like O M W said) you would have more knowledge on how you feel.

The first date is maybe to early.

For me I always trusted my gut feeling. I have to be attracted to the persons personality and there must be a physical attraction as well.

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March 12, 2006
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Thanks Garfield,
She is cute so maybe I can find attraction in the future. I do like her personality enough to have a second date. I will date her some more and see what happens.
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Dave

March 12, 2006
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nice guy, give it some time. if u are like me and automatically attracted to the alchoholic personality, then at first u might not be attracted to someone of quality. takes time. my very first instinct usually ends up being a bust. have to override the wiring so to speak.

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